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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-01-09, 22:29
sexy_fiend sexy_fiend is offline
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Default what should i of done in this situation?

ok im on the train, dressed nicely (just came back from a job interview) and across from me mayb 20 feet away their is a cute girl sitting their and looking right at me for a while (till i noticed it then got off the train). i assume that she might of been atracted to me (might of not been who knows). i wanted to walk up to her and say something along the lines of "i couldnt help but notice you were looking in my direction. my name is paul" but i didnt want to make her feel uncomfortable. should i of walked up to her?
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:32
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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SHOULD HAVE I are the words you want.

And sure, nothing to lose really, but don't kick yourself over it.
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:33
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I certainly wouldn't have said 'I couldn't help but notice you were looking at me'. But hey, that's just me.
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:49
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You should have pooped on her head for others entertainment.
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:52
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Depends if it was a casual look, like u see someone looking at u in the street you just say hello how are you or w/e. But thats good the 1st time you notice it. If you know shes staring at you and she knows you saw her that'd be kind of odd 20mins later to be like hey how are u.

Id probably say something goofy, calling out the fact shes staring at you...be like hey whats wrong is there something on my face, is there a stain in my shirt? Your looking at me like something is wrong? What is it? - Thatd only be acceptable if she looked at you several times and you didnt speak up the 1st time around.
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:56
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If you have to ask, the answer is probably no.
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Old 2008-01-09, 22:57
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Originally Posted by HARDMAN
If you have to ask, the answer is probably no.


Aren't you a virgin?
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Old 2008-01-09, 23:20
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Originally Posted by sexy_fiend
ok im on the train, dressed nicely (just came back from a job interview) and across from me mayb 20 feet away their is a cute girl sitting their and looking right at me for a while (till i noticed it then got off the train). i assume that she might of been atracted to me (might of not been who knows). i wanted to walk up to her and say something along the lines of "i couldnt help but notice you were looking in my direction. my name is paul" but i didnt want to make her feel uncomfortable. should i of walked up to her?


Insanity, my friend, is doing the same thing many times but expecting different results. Did doing nothing get you her number? Nope. If she was looking at you, she was probably attracted to you. If you took the liberty to assume that she was attracted to you, then it wouldn't matter what you did, as long as it got you talking to her.

Personally, I would have made a goofy face at her, or waved, or sat next to her and made some obviously lie about why I moved. Anything. Anything is better than nothing.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:04
MH-iforgotmypassword MH-iforgotmypassword is offline
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Make fun of her for it.

"Apparently, I'm the most interesting thing on this train.... so, what makes you so boring?"

"I know I look good, but could you please not stare? You're making a scene"

I would have had fun with it. Don't worry it though. Stuff like this happens all the time if you pay attention for it.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:36
sexy_fiend sexy_fiend is offline
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thats a good idea, make an obvious lie... it was a lil wierd tho, she was making eye contact for like 10-15 min, even when i looked bak at her.. o well, at least im guarenteed to hav another chance to flirt on the train! adderall makes me feel so much more confident and shit, good thing i jus got my script again!
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Old 2008-01-10, 02:41
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Originally Posted by Orange_Crusader
SHOULD HAVE I are the words you want.

And sure, nothing to lose really, but don't kick yourself over it.


fuck took my response.
 
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