I don't want to talk myself up, but well I dunno how to describe it any other way.

I'm a 'young adult' 21 with a good job, car, house, friends, as much of a social life you can get in this place, 'respected person in the community', people describe me as being funny, witty and you have a good time when you're with me.

What don't I understand? Why I am not beating off girls with a stick? If I was ugly I could start to understand but I don't consider myself to be that, I'm average at worst. And ugly people have girls magnetise themselves to them so that's another thing.

I'm not complaining, I don't have a type of girl I like and I rarely fall for someone. I just thought those qualities were ones that girls would want in someone.

I also am aware strangers can't tell a lot of these things but blehh - I think Kate made a female version of this same question awhile back, or something similar in nature anyhow.

Must be your modesty.
<3

Because you have all the qualities of a married, 45 year old man.

Not those of a young, attractive, exciting playboy.
Your too good.

Not those of a young, attractive, exciting playboy.

Neither is anyone else though

Neither is anyone else though

Compared to you they probably are, consider showing a more daring, mischievous side.

That might help - women, like any human, love something they can be excited by, in whatever way.

Do you mean, chicks get to know you then lose interest? Because if this is the case, then do what that dude with the funky name said, "be mischievous".

OR

Are you asking why random girls don't hit on you/ask for your number? If this is the case, I don't know.

Are you asking why random girls don't hit on you/ask for your number? If this is the case, I don't know.

^^ That one.

It's because all the average/ugly girls are too pussy to make the first move, and all the hot girls know they'll never have to.

I'm in a similar situation to you. 20, have money, reasonably good looking, studying part time so I get to see plenty of hot chicks at school, but for some reason chicks don't seem to be interested in dating me. The bets conclusion I can come to is that some guys seem to attract women without trying, some guys don't, and I can't explain why. We are apart of the latter :(

Respectable =/= FUCKABLE.

Funky?

You're not truly going for everything with a twinkle in your eye, and the grin of contented confidence.... the ladies... they smell the nerves!

..I should know... haha.

Or maybe you approach women in the wrong way, and they categorise you as a "pal" very quickly. This could be for loads of reasons?

I think it's a matter of yes, we have no real issues. But we also have no real bait. There is nothing turning girls away, but we lack something that attract them to begin with.

Now all we have to do is figure out what women want :D

You sound like the average Beta-Male. You're going to end up marrying when you're about 30 when women wisen up and realize that they don't want a piece of shit who's just going to fuck them and leave them.

What I'm trying to say is that you're trying too hard to get pussy bro.

What I'm trying to say is that you're trying too hard to get pussy bro.

You talking to me? Because, doing nothing isn't trying at all :p

Must be your modesty.


^....

Only read the first post, and I'm sure someone already said this, but:

It's all about confidence. There's a reason that even I do ok in situations where I'm feeling good and know what's what.

Or maybe you approach women in the wrong way, and they categorise you as a "pal" very quickly. This could be for loads of reasons?

INSTEAD OF NTSC?

Why should us non-americans be so unlucky >=(

INSTEAD OF NTSC?

Why should us non-americans be so unlucky >=(

Format incompatibility has never seemed such an appropriate analogy...

You talking to me? Because, doing nothing isn't trying at all :p

Alright, my bad. It was late and I definitely mis-stated what I was trying to say.

Girls don't want stability at your age. Bottom line.

It all depends brother, some ugly guys have more to it then looks therefore chicks digg it. Often the normal, at first glance attractive guys have only that going for them, and when it gets down to talking they cant manage shit, therefore your out of the ordinary hot girls will ride with some bummish guys.

Its just about your attitude and how you manage yourself. My friends brother was wondering, asking me what girls want(since the fuck finally gained respect seeing i was outdoing him in the female department), and he explained some of his situations with details. I couldnt tell him the reason, but hes fucking lame. He told me about how one time at a coffee shop him and some girl were exchanging looks, she eventually came up and started talking to him. Woah right, hes picking up on this girl, or shes picking up on him haha to be correct. But he started talking about basic bulshit, and immidiately the girl was led astray. Like talking about some school/scientific shit and he went into detail telling me. Its like bro your fucking making me throw up red flags listening to the lame shit you said to her. She asked for his number(see the problem already?) but she never called him once.......

Conversing is one thing, but carrying on and on on the same thing and not spiking the convo with jokes/comedy or something of that nature just makes you STRAIGHT BORING.

What the fuck does getting girls have to do with having money? Im 21 and don't even have a car atm, a shitty job and never had a problem in that department. And I don't even have the respect u do.