I'm excited and extremely nervous at the same time. I don't have much expeirence talking with women. I didn't go to school until 8th grade and when I socialized in high school with girls I got made fun of a lot.

I don't want the same thing to happen, the girl I'm going out with is 17 like me and shes my moms friends daughter. I haven't met her yet,

What kind of stuff should I talk about? I also sweat a lot when I get nervous how do I avoid this?

What kind of stuff should I talk about? I also sweat a lot when I get nervous how do I avoid this?

Antiperspirant.

You got set up on a blind date by your mom?

You will fail.

For a moderator you give bad advice.

Lol, blind date?

U uck lolol

Just take it easy, DO NOT BLOW IT OUT OF PROPORTION. Your going out with some girl big deal, dont let it get to you , just think of it like that, its not a big deal, that way you can put aside your nerves and such.

Just throw on some nice clothes, stylish, wear some anti-perps, spray on a bit of cologne and get on it.

Just take it easy, DO NOT BLOW IT OUT OF PROPORTION. Your going out with some girl big deal, dont let it get to you , just think of it like that, its not a big deal, that way you can put aside your nerves and such.

QFT.

Cliched advice, but just try to just relax, and be yourself. She'll most likely be a bit nervous too. Remember, this is the first of many! Even if it doesn't go so smoothly with this girl, there will be others. Good luck!

Have a mate on standby who you can drop an emergency text to, so he can call and be like "Dude Barney is in hospital he got hit by a car come quick!" just in case shes like.... Horrible.

Other than that the basic principals of making girls wanna hop on your cock apply. Be yourself, dont try too hard, wear some decent clothes adn don't smell bad.

it's like hanging out with a friend of yours

The chances are.... if SHE had to get HER Mum to set her up on a blind date she's probably just as inexperienced and nervous as you.
Try to make her laugh :)

Try to make her laugh :)

This. Just don't use obscure jokes or mess them up.

Have absolutly no expectations of how the entire thing will go. Don't see it ending in a kiss goodbye. You are meeting this person to get to know them. And if a week or two down the line you a fucking like bunnies then it is a bonus.

To be honest, the first time I have hung out with a girl I didn't already know really well one on one was last wednesday. She mentioned she was going to the mall for after christmas shopping and I said that I was going to anyway. Origionally it was me, her, and her friend, but he friend had to bail and I ended up driving her to the mall and hanging out for a few hours. I wasn't sure whether it was like a date since her friends excuse sounded a little phony, but I just pictured it like it wasn't to be safe.
That's what I would do if I was you. Don't even consider romance or really impressing her. Just dress nice, be nice, and have fun. If she likes you, say "We should do this again" or "Lets hang out some more", not "How 'bout a second date?" or anything.

Man, sorry to say it. I'm not being a dick or anything.. at all. I just speak from experience.

Fuck this bitch, forget her.

It's one of three situations, 99% of the time.

1.) Your mother probably had some nice things to say which made their way down the line to this chick, she probably had her think you're "really handsome." And "really nice." Of course, in a mothers eyes, it's true. But if you haven't gotten with any chicks yet, you know that's not true in the eyes of most females. Result? She shows up and she's like.. Oh. Bland night of epically(sp?) awkward proportions.

2.) Your mother made up a pity story, and this girl is pitiful too. Too pitiful to have anything close to a fun night.

3.) Your mother made up a pity story, and this girl is way above your standards (AT LEAST IN HER MIND.) She acts bored, and you feel horribly rejected and loserish. [Been there.] You lose faith in bitches forever.

Mother's friend's daughter.


You feel her up at BurgerKing
She runs off
Tells her momma
Her momma tells your momma
Your momma pwns you
Her dad pwns you
Her brother pwns you
She tells her friends, they pwn you
Her friend's bfs pwn you
Whole school pwns you

He could always move with his auntie and uncle in Bel Air...

He could always move with his auntie and uncle in Bel Air...

Do This.

The chances are.... if SHE had to get HER Mum to set her up on a blind date she's probably just as inexperienced and nervous as you.


Or as fat and ugly.

i think you should wait on dating until you figure out how to get your own dates

Something i forgot to mention, to help you put aside your nerves/anxieties I do this sometimes or it helps as I notice it, look for her mistakes/nervous acts to help calm you. As someone said above shes probably nervous a bit or if not as much as you. Therefore watch for signs of it, then when you notice it should be a sign that you have nothing to worry about. Call her out about it and just laugh about it.

Blind dates suck tho, Ive had people try to setup stuff for me back in the day and im batting 0/#'s, 0% having had a single positive experience from it. Thats why i do all my own business.

So... How was it? Did she tickle your pickle?

He's still in jail.

He's still in jail.

lawl..

Just ask questions man! Girls love to talk!

Might aswell go wild instead of having a boring polite date where you 'made her laugh a couple times' Starbucks, Grande Brewed Coffee, will give you an awesome energy boost, to keep it flowing! Top it off with at least a kiss aswell. Damn man, I remember my first date, ended up hanging out all day, eventually going to a house party drinking and making out against a wall.... Ah good times.
o_O

I remember my first date too.... we were both 8... he took me to the cinema then we went back to his house and we went in his attic and I lay back on this bean chair thing and undid the top button of my shirt (what a little hussy in the making?). Frigid little prick wouldn't even give me a proper kiss. hahahahah
I carried on "going out" with him until I was 11. Then he said some other girl was hot so I slapped him and dumped him. Haha funny times.

Hope your date went well.... and she wasn't too much of a mentalist or minger... and that you at least got a kiss out of it.

DO THIS!

For sure, GET A FUCKING GOOD WINGMAN!

Just don't use obscure jokes or mess them up.

lol dis 1 tyme i waz talkin bout RAM an dis 1 guy sais lol is dat a car?????