EDIT: I mean the introduction part, asking a female to go out with you, not the actual oh they've been going out meaning.

I always hear people say i wanna ask that chick out, or ask her to go out with me? Its like WTF do you mean you want to hang out with her, or you want her to be your gf?

I would never use that term when it comes to my business with ladies, never used it, never will. Never call times when i hang out with females dates either. Like i guarantee ill ask a girl hey you want to hang out with me? Sure no problem, if i ask the same girl hey you want to go out with me(meaning go out to hang out) she'll say no. HAH?!

Its like dont guys realize you can do stuff to make it official without having it verbally acknowledged? Say I run out get a girl vibing me, fuck her, then we just keep talking/hanging out/fucking often...doesnt that constitute the same thing as going out? lmao It's sad that I see guys I know, they run up to girls they barely know, hot ones at that, and ask them hey will you go out with me? They get denied. How the fuck do you respond to that if your a girl? Thats like elementary/highschool shit that doesn't fly when your like 18+.

I don't know maybe its just something foreign to my ways or im past a point of understanding that "entry" way to a female. It just doesnt make sense to me.

Well, that is of course the beginner's starting point, no matter how old you are you still have to begin at the beginning point, that is why it's always a good idea to start young, If you start late you never really catch up, that is why we have got all these goddamn pedophiles, they know they have to start at the beginning, but they also know that a person who is already 3 years ahead won't put up with a late bloomer, so basically if you haven't started by age 17, 5 years behind schedule, your fucked up for life.

That is why you can tell that the 40 year old virgin movie was complete bullshit.

I guess these guys are just trying to avoid wasting time on a girl who won't put out. This is a bad idea because a chick you "hang out" with may put out later even if she wouldn't "go out" with you to begin with, but perhaps these guys don't realize this.

when you ask a girl to hang out it implies that you just want to spend some time with her. not do anything physical. so if your intentions are to fuck her then you need to say something more to the point. like "do you want to go hang out at my place?" this implies that you're the only two comming to the occasion. to a girl, hang out means that it's all casual friend stuff and she may invite some others to "hang" with you. fucking girls. why cant they all just think like men sometimes.

Who cares? If a guy said "go out sometime?", chicks would assume a date.
If they really just want to hang out, they could stress, "not a date, or anything; just, you know, to hang out".

Or maybe my lack of experience means insta-gib?

Well to me i think when a guy asks hey will you go out with me its like a lack of experience/beginner term to use. Therefore the girl automatically denies him.

And shit hanging out wise, thats all i ever need to imply and if needed more can come from it. You and her can set the bar as high as u want when u hang out, if shes comfortable around you that is.

Ha glitter alot of males need verbal confirmation to get their confidence off of, when just running with it and seeing where it goes can easily turn into something they never thought of.