Couldn't help giving it a title like that! :D

So here's the deal...Been with my girl for a couple months. Fell in love with her months before and have loved her in some way since I first spoke to her.

She's the only girl I've met who can actually make me laugh. Her personality is perfectly suited to mine in most respects.
She's beautiful, cuddly and really affectionate.

Only problem is, when it comes to knocking boots...I shoot way too fucking early with this one!

Back in my more active sex life days, I would be banging away like a fucking pneumatic hammer for ages, getting scratches down my back, bite marks on my shoulders, covering her mouth so people in the viscinity wouldn't hear and interrupt and flipping a coin with the girl(s) over who's sleeping in the wet patch!
Of course I've shot a little too early for my pride to take a few times in the past. Pretty normal occurence as far as I am aware yet I would change the connie and keep going!
But on the whole, I could go for ages.
I was a god!

However, with this one...The one I actually want to spend ages doing it with and giving pleasure to, I'll be done in 5-10 minutes, which is unacceptable to me!
I can change the tyre and keep going but we don't really get the chance to spend shit loads of time in bed together (work's a bastard.)

I am thinking that it could be immence emotions or something...I feel a lot for this girl. I did when we were just friends (this is the girl I loved when I was still with my ex) and even more so now that we can both quite easily say how we feel.

Bah...I dunno...I think I'm just venting yet I am hoping for some advice on this.

Being completely drunk every time is no good...I actually want to remember these times!
Bashing one out a little while before is not too easy either. We don't plan it. Usually it just...Happens.
Viagra?...Possible but I hear it affects you long term and besides, I ain't spending money on that!

*sigh*

Help?

Upgrade to the 1.21 jiggawatt penis.

After you cum how long before you can get hard again. I also cum pretty fast so pretty much what we do is she will either blow me or we will fuck then I will cum and continue to finger her or oral then after five minutes she will suck me off and I will get hard again then we fuck till out hearts desire.

You're so modest about your glory days psycho.

Perhaps you've been out of your game for too long. More practice needed, ne?
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SHBA...I'm looking at-10 minutes tops before I'm good to go again.
I always get her warmed up before I do anything else using my hand...At least then I don't have to feel like a complete bastard!
Last time it lasted a while, I did the finger thing, the sex for 10 minutes...Had a smoke, fingered her again and went in for a 40 minute session before I had to get ready and leave for work.

Azalie...What can I say...I was the man!
I had ex girlfriends coming back for more after they broke up with me because the new guy just didn't know how to hit the spot! ;)

I miss those days. :(

I feel for you man had this happen a couple time, more than once in the one session. Not always a blowing of the load, just loosing it. When it happens I just go down and start eating her out til I'm hard agian then go at it again.

usually if I blow my load thats it I can only crack a semi-fat for about half an hour. Which is a long ass time to be eating/fingering a bitch.

In the long run, excercising the PC Muscles is the best way to go. It does take a few months, and constant reminding yourself... But it works.
For the situations when I just can't hold it cause it is still hard! I quickly take a jonny off, wipe, stick another on when i'm still hard or semi-hard. Only my gf can keep me hard, and we'll go another time. In any case i'm 17 so my recovery period is about 3-5 minutes, so it's not much of a problem. Hope this helps. =]