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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-01-07, 00:03
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Serge163 
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heartbreak for the first time in years..
how long will this take? am i able to support a new relationship emotionally? i feel like a little girl...
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#2
 2008-01-07, 00:51
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
I don't think it ever gets easier.
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#3
 2008-01-07, 00:57
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There's a NEW Mexico?
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
am i able to support a new relationship emotionally?
Probably not...
If you're uncertain, you probably aren't. Hope you get over it quickly.
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#4
 2008-01-07, 02:01
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
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Originally Posted by 256
I don't think it ever gets easier.
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This.
Just grit your teeth and fight through it...Took long enough to get over my last girlfriend...All is well now.
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#5
 2008-01-07, 02:01
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
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Originally Posted by Serge163
how long will this take? am i able to support a new relationship emotionally? i feel like a little girl...
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1. One black-out drunk night... so you can cry your heart out but not actually remember that you did.
2. Eat somewhere classy... like Olive Garden. Basically treat yourself.
3. Hang on and find someone cuter.
Obviously if this happened fairly recently, you should try not to rebound with anyone, cause that's never healthy. Just take it easy for a while.
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#6
 2008-01-07, 02:13
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
1. One black-out drunk night... so you can cry your heart out but not actually remember that you did.
2. Eat somewhere classy... like Olive Garden. Basically treat yourself.
3. Hang on and find someone cuter.
Obviously if this happened fairly recently, you should try not to rebound with anyone, cause that's never healthy. Just take it easy for a while.
Dude...saying Olive Garden is classy is like saying Vanilla Ice is a talented musician.
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#7
 2008-01-07, 02:15
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
Dude...saying Olive Garden is classy is like saying Vanilla Ice is a talented musician.
That's why I put the "..."- To be sarcastic!
No one understands me! :(
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#8
 2008-01-07, 02:22
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
Almost forgot, if you're into it.
Drugs.
Don't do anything you wouldn't do anyway...But hell, it's another release right?
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#9
 2008-01-07, 02:38
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
drugs and wimmin will take this away quickly.
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#10
 2008-01-07, 03:01
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Serge163 
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
ahh but i'm horrible at starting relationships. she is one of the only people even more weird than myself
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#11
 2008-01-07, 03:02
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
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ahh but i'm horrible at starting relationships. she is one of the only people even more weird than myself
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Realistically you're not going to be with any one woman forever. Better sharpen up on your skillz 
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#12
 2008-01-07, 03:21
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
Take it easy for a while mate. Just enjoy where you are...Don't let the past affect your mood and don't worry too much about the future. Just enjoy where you are and what you're doing.
In regards to what you're doing, find some little tasks you've been putting off because you were with someone (we all have them mate!)
Find something to do that interests you and/or you've never done before.
I was enjoying being single after a two year relationship...It was great. I got all my little tasks finished and got a little better at guitar. I went out with friends a lot more often and enjoyed playing the game with women.
It was great...Just doing whatever I wanted to do and enjoying the moment.
Then I got with a girl who I had already fallen in love with months previous and I've never been happier with a girl. Never felt more in love or loved for that matter.
But there is one problem with the lovin' when emotions are involved...But I'll be doing a thread about that soon! :/
Dammit.
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#13
 2008-01-07, 03:29
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
That's why I put the "..."- To be sarcastic!
No one understands me! :(
aww
Yeah romaniw is right I did that just recently except replaced eating somewhere nice with having a nice meal hung over, and I'm so picky I couldn't get anyone new here so effortlessly (read: blindly).
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#14
 2008-01-07, 03:45
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Serge163 
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
i wish i could turn those damn emotions off
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#15
 2008-01-07, 03:48
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
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i wish i could turn those damn emotions off
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Meditation/Zen Buddism
Find a happy place.
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#16
 2008-01-07, 05:06
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
suck it up and remember that shit happens and you rarely can do anything to control it an
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#17
 2008-01-07, 05:08
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
Well, I'm completely devastated because my girlfriend left me, but this day haven't been as bad as the others. I have been watching funny movies and stuff all day, doing everything I could to make me smile, and it actually works.
Why did she leave you?
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#18
 2008-01-07, 05:45
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Serge163 
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
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Originally Posted by Noktan
Well, I'm completely devastated because my girlfriend left me, but this day haven't been as bad as the others. I have been watching funny movies and stuff all day, doing everything I could to make me smile, and it actually works.
Why did she leave you?
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#19
 2008-01-07, 05:55
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Noktan 
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Re: heartbreak for the first time in years..
sxhool
Oh :/ Just find a daily rhythm, keep yousrelf occupied, this is an opportunity to do stuff you couldn't do before. I've been partying, driving my car, doing whatever the fuck I want, and sometimes I forget her for a while. You should try it out.
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