How does one go about lasting longer in bed? My friends have told me to breath slower and others say "its just a mental thing you can fix it." Well sence I obviously can't will myself to last longer, what else can I do to last longer (other then dope)?

coke/alcohol/opiates

opiates

I can't even get a boner when I'm on opiates.

I can't even get a boner when I'm on opiates.

I can. It just requires a bit more effort.

Sex on opiates is awesome. Try that.

QFT

I lost my v on opiates, I went like a champ. I think it was about 2 hours, then my parents came home so I had to stop. It was good shit though. Highly reccomended.

damnitdamnitdamnit.

My girlfriend doesn't like me and drugs. She's okay with me using, but sex on them is out of the question.

Even stuff like Tramadol or codeine keeps you going, say you've got a headache. =]

Hey genius, how about not telling her?

Wow, I'm pretty shure I said EXCEPT DOPE.

But you're username also says you're black. Quit giving conflicting messages

Hey genius, how about not telling her?

She'd probably notice the pupil contriction. Or are you talking about the whole thing in general?

Wow, I'm pretty shure I said EXCEPT DOPE.

there are other opiates than herion.

I meant dope in a broader term.

What can I mentally do to last longer?

Jack off before sex.

foreplay with girl so that you don't have to last as long.

Ever read "Choke"? I don't mean the actual context, but what the main character does to last longer.

ADD pills and alcohol, but this can sometimes backfire so have fun experimenting...

Nooooo noooooo BAD IDEA. I'm prescribed to ADD meds, BAD BAD IDEA.

It is partially mental, if you focus on cumming too fast, guess what? You'll cum too fast. Try to think about shit like that essay you have due tomorrow, or how you're behind on your bills, or what happens when you die. Whatever you need to think about to take your mind off of it.
Doing kegels is also supposed to help. If all else fails, just pull out before you cum and eat some pussy

Jack off before sex.

Get her almost there before sex so it won't matter much.

Use a condom, if you aren't already.

If you are using a condom, use "extended pleasure" ones. They're much thicker and you won't feel as much.

Certain positions make people last longer, find which work for you.

I don't like to, but think about other things to distract yourself. Personally, I don't see the point of sex if you're thinking about schoolwork.

VERY IMPORTANT: Breath slowly and steadily. Once you start breathing rapidly and clenching your muscles, you'll come in no time.

Strengthen your PC muscle.

Replying for second more serious time, this guy has a good general answer. Jacking off before sex and getting her to edge of an O before your dick is even in her are two easy methods. Ive found that girls love getting eaten out cuz most guys wont do it (at I think?), so get primed that way and then some of the ol' in&out.

Mm, that benzocaine in Durex Performa works very well. Consider it.

I don't use condoms because only pussies use them and I can't feel anything. I want to pleasure myself first and formost, its just embarassing not being able to last long.

When I beat off before sex I barley feel anything at all during sex.

Kegals don't do shit for me but I will keep trying them.

I will try that mental distraction shit.

Has anyone heard of "tantric sex"?? I read somewhere that theres this point inside your head that you can focus all your energy onto and you will be able to delay orgasm forever if you do this.

It sounds like some faggot kama sutra shit but I'll try that too.

Any other tips?

Have the tv on and whenever u feel like u might come soon glance at it to take your mind off of sex, buys you alittle bit of time.

Like someone said use the extended pleasure condoms.

use a cock ring.

Think about old woman.

Eat pussy so it won't matter how long you last.

If you get a cup of warm water and stick your dick in it, it feels like your getting a blow job

hahaha what does that have to do w/ anything?

Should I just fuck her, then before I'm about to cum pull out and eat her cunt? And repeate?

For real?!?!?!?!? If I Get caught sticking my dick in a warm cup of water, and it doesn't feel like a blowjob I'm going to be quite pissed off

hahaha what does that have to do w/ anything?

Should I just fuck her, then before I'm about to cum pull out and eat her cunt? And repeate?

Dunno its just fun.

If you do this she might be cause you didnt finish her off that way. Some girls prefer penetration and some prefer oral so it could work for her. Have you tried talking to her about this?

For real?!?!?!?!? If I Get caught sticking my dick in a warm cup of water, and it doesn't feel like a blowjob I'm going to be quite pissed off

For real man, try it there'll be no it will be all :D:D:D:D

Have sex more often.

Have sex more often.

practice makes perfect

For real man, try it there'll be no it will be all :D:D:D:D

You little shit, I got caught with my cock in a glass of water that DID NOT FEEL LIKE A BLOWJOB

1. "The Logroll"- when having sex, don't move your hips, instead use your whole body and push/pull. My manager was telling me about this and he had a friend who was aporn star and told him some of this. I guess when you are bucking your hips it affects more nerves, watch almost any porn and you'll see more how to do this, its hard to explain, but you know how the guys in porn look weird when they fuck, and they keep their hips straight. Imagine what its like when you are pulling a table across the ground, your arms pull your body into it.

2. Whenever you think about orgasming, whether it be trying to have one or not, you will orgasm. In your brain any thought towards orgasm will lead to the inevitable, so basically dont think about it at all.

3. Have her fuck you. for me i can last forever if shes ontop

4. don;t pull out as much when you're fucking, keep it mostly in and only pull out a little bit, so your head isnt as stimulated. Use your pelvis to stimulate her clit while doing this, and she'll finish first! or time it to finish the same time

5. Eat more fish. I guess its good for sexual health.

6. just for fun, if you drink pineapple juice like 30 mins before you get head, supposedly your juice tastes like... juice. try to piss once after you drink it.

1. "The Logroll"- when having sex, don't move your hips, instead use your whole body and push/pull. My manager was telling me about this and he had a friend who was aporn star and told him some of this. I guess when you are bucking your hips it affects more nerves, watch almost any porn and you'll see more how to do this, its hard to explain, but you know how the guys in porn look weird when they fuck, and they keep their hips straight. Imagine what its like when you are pulling a table across the ground, your arms pull your body into it.


I didn't get this at all. Could someone elaboratea?

Pretend like you're paralyzed from the nipples down. Lol.

Does anyone have any concrete data for this whole kegel/PC muscle thing (for guys at least) helping with endurance? Everyone talks about it, who has it helped?

Shit, I almost forgot the most obvious one, the performance enhancing condoms like durex performa etc. They worked well for me :o

If this is your girlfriend you fucking, then just keep doing it. You will get the hang of it eventually.

If your single, get a girlfriend and fuck more.

You just have to learn to FUCK for YOU. Like how your body and hers work and just figure it out, keep doing it and it will work.

fuck while your sobering up after being completely hammered drunk

i dunno if it works for anyone but me, but goddamn its always been soooo much better :)