It isn't just that I am shy, though I am, because I talk to them and stuff. I am just exceedingly boring, obviously I am if even I'm admitting it. Around guys I'm funny and shit but around girls I am sooooooo boring.

This isn't really a thread asking how to fix this, because its just who I am. I was just wondering if anyone else on this board is like this?

Nope.

Nope.

Aren't you a girl anyway?

Aren't you a girl anyway?

Indeed.

Depends on the girl. If I've known them for a while, I'm normal. If I don't know them, then sure. But I'm the same with guys too.

You must not be too funny/cocky then bro. Usually if you can match or beat whatever they are talking about then be funny and joke around you should be golden, unless your material sucks.

I have the same fucking problems, around my guy friends i keep cracking up jokes and make everyone laugh but around girls im silent as fuck.

I have the same fucking problems, around my guy friends i keep cracking up jokes and make everyone laugh but around girls im silent as fuck.


Stop looking at them as girls.
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal

Stop looking at them as girls.
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal

This one. Get rid of that barrier there.

I cringed that that DeAngelo shit, it's not the fucking bible, folks.

I don't know maybe I just need some good ice breakers. Not pick up lines, I'm talking about shit to say once you're already on a date.

Stop looking at them as girls.
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal

This.

I've noticed that when I'm around ugly chicks I crack just as many jokes as when I'm around guys. However, if I think a chick's hot, suddenly I'm quiet and nothing is funny.

Is this the wrong move? Yes. But, honestly, I don't give a fuck. I've got better shit to do.

I was just wondering if anyone else on this board is like this?

As a matter of fact there is! The most notable one is even a mod, and his name is Robinhoody....

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2084698&page=2

Well.. my situation's a little different as I'm a girl, but yes I am a lot less bland around men that I am women.

This.

I've noticed that when I'm around ugly chicks I crack just as many jokes as when I'm around guys. However, if I think a chick's hot, suddenly I'm quiet and nothing is funny.

Is this the wrong move? Yes. But, honestly, I don't give a fuck. I've got better shit to do.


HAHA same here mate, when im around ugly chicks i can also talk alot cause i have no sexual attraction towards them. From now on im gonna look at those hot chicks as my guy friends

Same here, except if I've been around the chick for a while and consider her a good friend or if i hate the chick, but still have to be 'a friend' for a reason. The chicks i hate always dig me cause i act cocky and always put them down in a sarcastic or a joking manner.

Kinda ironic, the less i'm into a chick the more she wants me.

Lawl, maybe if i convinced myself that i hate women, then i'd be the biggest player of em all.

Its good to know I'm not alone in my failure. lol

I don't have a personality at all.

Kinda ironic, the less i'm into a chick the more she wants me.

Funny that.

Read. Know. Interpret. Do

Ooops 12 year old thread *backs away without comment*

I'm sure it would have been valuable had you graced us with it. Your comment that is.

^^^^

True but I try to never interfere with the little people.