So there is this girl that Ive known since elementary school, but we've just started really talking this past week. She told me that she would fuck after a month of dating. We are planning on hanging out in a few days, this is the first time we will have really hung out. Im pretty that we will end up going out, so do you think it would be a good call to give her a kiss when we hang out? I dont really wanna fuck this up, and its been a while since Ive dated, so I could use some advice.

Lol who sets a deadline? I could picture it now:



Her: Well after we date for a month we can fuck
Him: -_-


And yeah, give her a kiss. Start with a small peck on the lips, you gotta probe her to see what she will do. Or, since she said after a month we can fuck, you can ask 'how long do I have to wait for a kiss'.

so...she just straight up told you that she would fuck you in a month? Thats kind of weird, but anyways I would just go for it.

Just play things out, you cant really know the time is right until your in the moment

...You can ask 'how long do I have to wait for a kiss'

I woulda done this. And moved in for a kiss anyways.

Smoooooth! :p

I woulda done this. And moved in for a kiss anyways.

Smoooooth! :p

I meant either or. What can I say words and I have a special relationship.

so...she just straight up told you that she would fuck you in a month? Thats kind of weird, but anyways I would just go for it.

Well she didnt say she would fuck me in a month or set a deadline or anything. She said that she would fuck a guy after around a month of dating if she liked him enough. She doesnt just fuck on the one month anniversary lol

Well she didnt say she would fuck me in a month or set a deadline or anything. She said that she would fuck a guy after around a month of dating if she liked him enough. She doesnt just fuck on the one month anniversary lol

Not sure exactly where to start here, so allow me to just ramble no a bit, if you don't mind. Of course you don't; this is not just the internet... it's &totse!

It really isn't just a Seinfeld or hackneyed paradigm; the 'three date' rule was a staple of years gone by. And it wasn't just a financial quid pro quo, but rather an objective measuring stick of a relationship's progression.

First date -> kiss = potential for second date. No kiss = no potential; no second date

Second date -> making out = potential for third date. If not, see above.

Third date -> intercourse = potential future. If not, see above.

May seem a bit analytical, but if you think about it, it really does make sense. It is just a matter of getting to the point, in an accelerated fashion, of wheter the relationship is going to work out or not.


But you are on the right track! Start off by letting her set out the rules of your potential future relationship. That way, as things progress, you will already be indoctronated into accepting her domnation over you in all respects: physically, emotionally and mentally.

What ever she wants, you will gladly and willingly give to her. Your very manhood will be but a whim in the palm of her hand. And you will be forever gratefull when her warm and caressing fist does not totally crush your balls in her compelling grip.


Sorry for the rant, and it really wasn't intended to be a flame of any sorts (just finsihed posting in the divorce thread and am still a bit keyed up over that).

Look at it this way... she has already discussed with you the potential for fucking you in a few weeks. Kiss her ASAP and let the remaining time be devoted to you and her doing all of the 'foreplay' stuff like kissing, groping, fingering, and whatever else you can think of to get her to point where she might cut that four week delay back by a few days or so. But don't press her. Let her want it on her own or else she may be insistent on making you wait longer, just so she makes sure that she is the one incharge.

You read it here first!

I meant either or. What can I say words and I have a special relationship.

That's cool man...Just saying I'm a smooth mother fucker who woulda done that anyways!

Women say one thing and do another. You could prob tap it in 2 days, or never.

I woulda done this. And moved in for a kiss anyways.

Smoooooth! :p

1st comment id like to say that shes holding pussy above you bro, saying she'll fuck u in a month ? What the fuck kind of contract are u getting into?

Anyways something ive done, thats worked like a fucking champ....if your unsure of how she feels about a kiss or your nervous yourself at first, just give her a hug, then after your about to let go from the hug draw back with your arms still around her and look her in the eyes, You should be able to tell/feel that its the perfect time then just go in for it right then and there for a kiss..should be good to go right then and there.

I went on a date with a girl and didn't kiss her or anything. The next date we had sex. The 3 steps thing makes sense, but it's not necessarily true.

Of course, I never had a relationship with this girl. We would go out for coffee then have sex. Was really nice.

Anyway, OP just kiss the girl. You have to make a move at some point and you might as well start sooner than later.

If she said something like that you can fuck her on the first or second date if you know what you are doing just keep escalating.

This.