The girls always there waiting, she gives me the look in the eye, but I can never make the move. Help!

I feel like the song "Perfect Situation" By weezer describes my life.
"What's the deal with my brain?
Why am I so obviously insane?
In a perfect situation
I let love down the drain.
There's the pitch, slow and straight.
All I have to do is swing
and I'm a hero, but I'm a zero."

First...Dude...Do not quote Weezer lyrics...Ever. It's not good for you.

Second, stop thinking that way...So you're nervous...Big deal.
The only way to get over it is to confront it. Just go and talk to her and let it happen on its own.
Failing that just go for broke and ask!

You feel like a dickhead now...Imagine how fucking stupid you'll feel when she gets impatient (she will) and goes for the first prat with a pair of balls who asks her out. Then you know you got no chance!

Do it now.

The only bit of good advice you're going to get on the matter is to not be a pussy and make the move. It sucks wondering what would have happened. If you get rejected it's really not a big deal.

Thats exactly what I've always been afraid of. Her being pissed because I made a move, then it being akward as hell.

If you haven't known her for a long time it won't be weird. It's once you get placed in the friends zone that it suddenly becomes weird. TRUST ME.

She's my friends ex. He's cool with it since he broke up with her. I have also waited the 6 day waiting period as required by man law.

Lol I'm unaware of this man law. And why are you nervous anyway?

Woo-ee-oo, do you look just like Buddy Holly?
Oh-Oh, is she you're Mary Tyler Moore?

Just do it man, talk to her, find out. What do you have to lose? Ask yourself that? Fucking nothing bro! If you dont ask you'll never know, then you'll be listening to emo music instead of weezer wondering what happened why you couldnt do it and slitting up those wrists.

If im in a situation like you, and I KNO, theres something to it i Go nutz until i find out, and i can only let shit go like that for a few days tops then im out on autopilot, out and about going to find out the answer, approaching that said girl and getting down to business. Hasn't failed me once yet!

Lots of people say I look like buddy holly and I still get pretty good looking pussy.

Just go and talk to her

Well that was helpful...

Take a shot of liquid courage man
Just a shot of straight vodka and youll be as couragous as any man
Tisnt hard just shoot er back right before you go on a date

Well that was helpful...

What do you want from me...A closely guarded secret on how to approach women and make them want you? A magic potion that will get her to do the work for you?
Most girls still see the asking out part as "the guy's job" even though they got their equal rights now!

Well it's no secret...My original advice is how you approach women and make them want you...You just fucking do it!

I doubt that's gonna help the OP.

It's the most helpful post yet.

Come sit next to me.
Pour yourself some tea.
Just like Grandma made
When we couldn't find sleep.
Things were better then.
Once but never again.
We've all left the den.
Let me tell you 'bout it.

Come sit next to me.
Pour yourself some tea.
Just like Grandma made
When we couldn't find sleep.
Things were better then.
Once but never again.
We've all left the den.
Let me tell you 'bout it.

In Sorte Diaboli?

Just go and talk to her.

Take a shot of liquid courage man and youll be as couragous as any man


Pick one of those or cut off your penis.

Gator...Trust me buddy...Go talk to her. If she knocks you back, take it as a learning experience. She's not the one and only girl on the planet even thought it may seem that way right now.
You'll meet plenty more women over the course of your life...And unless you learn to talk to them, no matter who they are, you're gonna be posting here a LOT! :p

Believe me my friend, I wish I had just gone to talk to girls I liked when I was younger but too shit scared of what they might say.
I woulda gotten a LOT more pussy!
Now I can talk to any woman going and get phone numbers, dates etc.
It takes practice but it's worth it if you want to get chicks.
A little alcohol can help however you may find yourself needing it to be able to do it.
Try to do it without. It's a confidence booster if anything.

A little exercise I did with a manager of mine who kept worrying about complaints and emails from higher management is as follows...

1) Raise right hand
2) Place hand between legs
3) Grab to see if you still have your balls
4) Balls still there?...Then you're still alive, fine and able to move on.

Take my advice sunshine...Go talk to her. Don't worry about the consequences or aftermath...Just do it and see what happens.

Dude, if you know she's into you, why are you too nervous? Don't wait for the opportune time. Any time is opportune. The only work I ever have to do is determining whether or not a girl is into me. Once I know she is, it's like child's play. Gives me all the confidence I need.

Most girls still see the asking out part as "the guy's job" even though they got their equal rights now!

Well it's no secret...My original advice is how you approach women and make them want you...You just fucking do it!

Thats the god damn truth, you cant pull that shit, where you hint at it and expect them to come halfway and say hey lets go out. You make the decisions, you make the moves. If she likes you it will not be a problem and she will not deny you.

Alot of girls see it if they are making the moves that your a pussy, or it shows that they are a whore..and they know this, so you have to come across the line and call the shots, otherwise if you dont youll never see the light of day with any girl.

and she will not deny you.

it shows that they are a whore..

youll never see the light of day with any girl.

Mmmm yeah sounds good advice, should pull lots of interesting chicks........

do it, idiot.
if you just pass it up she'll assume your're not actually interested and her self esteem will be shot to shit and she'll get with the next twat to come along.

spent a couple of hours tangled up with a boy today. getting closer and closer, you know the deal, then our friend calls us to come meet him and ehhh too late :/ annoying because he actually tells me he likes me? these situations are stupid and make us girls stick you wet faggots into the "friend zone", encased by a six foot barbed wire fence.

And there you have it mate...From a girl...You wanna be put into the friend zone?

Didn't think so.

Girls don't want shy, nice little fellas...Nor do they want arseholes, which is so commonly thought.
Girls want a man. Someone who is going to stand up and say what he thinks, isn't going to be afraid to voice his concerns and someone who is going to be man enough to deal with the situation at hand.

Read that book....it's called the venusian artist's something. It'll teach you about social dynamic homeostatis. It is a biological system in you to make sure your reputation among girls doesn't fall, because if that happens, your chances of reproduction goes down. It is dynamic in the sense that it will also make you aproach girls to a certain extent, but only when the time is right. Unfortunately, for many people, including myself, the social dynamic homeostatis was tuned to always keep my reputation high....so to never speak to chicks. Luckily, I've been working on the problem a long time now, and reading that book called something along the venusian arts was really helpful for you to understand WHY you can't make the move, biologically. ***coughtorrentcough***

First things first . . . you do not need a book to tell you how to get a girl. As humans and males we are born with an innate sense to attract women. Its nature, part of the male brain. Here are some tactics to find out if she is actually interested.
1)Give her a comment but don't make it seem like you're trying so hard be like oh nice hair and kinda brush it off. That'll get the anticipation going.
2)Say you make it to that "moment" you mentioned, look her in the eyes smile touch her hair with your hand. This tactic gives you confirmation almost automatically. When you do this analyze her facial expression and body movement. 90% of communication between humans is not spoken . . . its expressed with body language.
3)If she takes the bait with the hair touching, move in. For example if she has a grossed out face and moves away, sorry man you got yourself a lead on bitch, but if she smiles in return closes her eyes and moves closer to you . . . you're a male you obviously know what this means. Make the move.

Be yourself, have confidence and take control. Those are what women look for in a man.

A book can very well help when his innate sense to attract women isn't quite working properly.

When you do this analyze her facial expression and body movement. 90% of communication between humans is not spoken . . . its expressed with body language.


And thats what its all about...

You need to get laid man.

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