My girlfriend is addicted to opiates. And everytime shes going through withdrawals i feel so bad, and give her some money. for morphine, oxycontin, or H.

I mean i know she needs it and I hate seeing her sick.

But Is it a bad thing that i feed her addiction.

and also to note. i dont give her that much money. just enough to get her through the day. and not go through withdrawals.

So i guess its far to say that when i do give her money, its not to get high, but mainly to get rid of her withdrawals.

Stop giving her money.

Yes...It does.

I would rather grin and bear seeing what I'm not going through and get someone clean off the shit.

Be a fucking man and help her kick the habit.

You're doing something to help her because you are in love. That is not a bad thing. There is a negative to that though. Love is blind, and the fact that you don't want her to be in pain shows that you truly care about her. But, you are aiding to an addiction that can potentially cause harm to her in one way or another. Does she want to quit or is it she just ran out of money? I'm not saying that she is a bad person, but addicts can be very manipulative to get what they want. Maybe she is using your love of her to get what she wants. If she wants to sober up then she needs to go through the withdrawals, that is the only that is going to happen. If she doesn't and you do not wish to support her addiction, then you may need to consider moving on in your life. What is your thoughts on her addiction? Do you condemn is, condone it, are you an addict yourself? Is this the life style that you want for you? Have you addressed your concerns with her? If not then perhaps it's time for things to either change or to end the relationship.

It's not as black and white as it making you a good or bad boyfriend. I wouldn't say it makes you a bad boyfriend because as melissakittie said you don't like seeing her suffering. But on the other hand it definitely definitely doesn't make you a good boyfriend you're really not doing her any favours at all in the long run.