me and my girlfriend broke up a good 6 fucking months ago and it is still killing me every day. there was nobody like her and i still need her. i have no fuckin clue what to do anymore. i need her back and i dont know what to do.

Yes there is.

murder/suicide.

Keep in mind you only feel this way because you're hurt/lonely/still have feelings for her. All of which will pass with time, you biased prick.

Merry Christmas though. :p
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You're right. There is nobody like her. But that doesn't mean that there isn't going to be a lot of girls that you love as well.

Tell me... Was it your first girl?

I was like this. It all changed in one moment though. I was speaking to her and i found out she was seeing someone else. Meaning that she completly lied to me about why we broke up...

From that moment, i knew i would never speak to her ever again, and she could get hit by a bus and i wouldn't give a shit.

You just have to find a way of moving on from her. Don't be her friend.

Why don't you start by sharing the things that you liked about her so much? This way you have a better chance of getting advice on what kind of girls to go after who may have similar character traits.

I guarantee there is someone 100X better

Last summer me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after a good solid year.

within a few days, I had a really shitty knee injury which prohibited me from hanging out with my friends and macking on babes, or even fucking walking for a month.

Worst month of my life, you will get over it

and then you will realize there is someone a lot better

but as of now, you are in denial, so nothing I say will be much worth, but just know deep down that what I am saying is true.

goodluck :D

I took a beating with this girl, we had a good thing going, only 2 months but things fizzled out...i felt bad as fucking hell for about 3-5 days. I dont remember the exact time frame and details but i ended up getting in good with this girl i was talking to whilst still in those 2 months with that other girl. I just moved on to the new one,that took care of everything. I felt better inside then i did before, confidence was still high everything was back to normal.

It still minorly haunts me to this day but its like why the fuck should i be down for? Im young, plenty more girls to meet....Now i know you cant totally toss away the pain/emotions you had with that girl but you can do things to help you get over it.

There are girls like her.
There are girls better than her.
You were just in love.
It'll end soon.
For now, get some poon.
Happy holidays, faggot.

By the way... I had the same problem. If you're still in contact with her, stop. That makes it harder/impossible to get over her. Also, around 6 months of feeling miserable I started smoking a lot of pot and this took care of things for the most part.

we've all been there, it just takes time enjoy the alone time rather than despise it go out it with your buddies drink beer talk to girls, she'll be nothing but a faint memory soon

p.s. happy holidays queer-o

I think it's funny when kids fool themselves into thinking that the "one for them" lives right down the goddamned street. Seriously, out of the billions of people in this world, what the hell are the odds that that one person who is meant for you is anywhere near where you live? The fact is, we always settle for whatever's best around us, which really isn't all that bad. It only gets bad when you think that person you settled for last time, is the best. They very, very likely aren't.

Everybody goes though some down time after a serious relationship goes bad. Just know that there's light at the end of the tunnel, and look to your REAL friends for support. Totse isn't a substitution for social interaction, so get out there and socialize and life will be better in no time

Wow, this same exact story pretty much happened to me. Quoted for truth as well. Once you get over it and can look back on everything, you will have learned something about relationships that almost makes that experience worthwhile beacuse it is so eye-opening.

Ok, I'll go into my "there's nobody like her" rant.

I found this girl a long time ago... we were together for six months, I pursued her for six... I still haven't found anyone as beautiful or unique or intelligent (in her own way) or who I learned more from. But you know what? Since then, I've been with two amazing girl who, while nowhere near the hype of that one girl, or anyone like her at all (I haven't even ment someone exactly like her).

My point? You'll find other girls. They may not be that pinnacle of perfection as that first girl, but you'll still love them.

That girl I'm talking about, she was amazing. But other girls have given me something she really couldn't: they make me feel loved and secure with them.

this sounds familiar, but before i say anything I'm going to say nothing at all

Yes there is.

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No, there's no one out there like her. There's damn close, and there's 100% gonna be someone, multiple someones better than her, just wait. At least that's what I keep telling myself.

well, she was exactly like me in every way. in the whole year and a half that we dated we didnt fight once. thats why this break up is such a fucking shock. she had the same passion as me about music, we acctually met at a show that i was playing and she came up to me afterwards. she has an incredible voice and her band is starting to take off and i think they have serious talent. it started out they needed a drummer for a show, im not really into that kind of music she plays but i still admire her and respect that shes making music, so i agreed to play one show with them. there was a good reaction and we hit it off so fuckin good. we helped eachother with our bands and such. on top of being so passionate about music and an amazing singer, shes an artist, a photographer, and she makes all her own clothes. people might call her insane but i fucking love it.

So you fell in love with a bohemian hippie ?

...Whatever floats your boat.


I personally , prefer sluts.

But that's just me.