My boyfriend, ( who is as you may recall from my last thread, Buba, the black boy from Gambia.) He wanted to take me out to a regge concert last night, just a little show in a bar put on by one of his friends. We got there early, 10:30 or 11 or so that he could mingle and introduce me and show me off. There were only about 7 people there at the time, 6 black men and a shady looking communist in the back corner.

They were spectacularily nice to me. The fellow putting on the concert (White Cat) assured me that I would be entirely satisfied with it. Another one of Buba´s friends, a wise looking old dude claimed that he was elated at meeting me, and made me promise to take good care of my new boy.

I was feeling akward as hell though. They all had the rhythm, and were dancing with marvelous freedom to whatever tracks were on the list. I drank a red-bull and vodka to calm down, and smoked maybe a quarter of a joint.

It was going great for about 10 minutes. I knew all the words to Buffalo Soldier. I had the rhythm, the freedom.

But then it hit me. I couldn´t keep my eyes open. I could barely stand up. In the darkness I could only see stars. I realised that Buba was holding me up, and he kept calling my name to keep me from falling completely out of it. I was hallucinating madly, and my body was a useless fucking vessel. He kept appologising, I wasn´t sure why.

Finally he had to take me home, the real concert hadn´t even started yet. I vaguely remember White Cat telling him to stay sober and take care of me.

The descent down the stairs was arduous at best. I´m almost suprised I didn´t die. We made it back to his house, he kept appologising. It wasn´t his fault.

We had sex at my request, it was all I wanted, and it sobered me up pretty well. After I came and we were lying there, I realised what had really happened. How incredibly fucked up I´d actually been. I was terribly ashamed. He told me that he´d actually been crying up there in the bar, but I hadn´t noticed.

I ruined, miserably ruined what could have been a lovely night. He´d wanted to take me out, show me a good time, and I humiliated him and myself tremendously.

It was my own fault and I know it. I hadn´t eaten since lunch, and I´m not good on pot - nor very experienced with it, but I know it doesn´t exactly relax me. I figured I´d be fine, everybody else was high out of their minds - but I didn´t quite take into account that while Buba could smoke two joints and be a-ok, he´s a 6´2, 180lb man. I´m a 5´8, 127lb girl with no tolerance level.

What do I do? How do I make it up to him? Normally I don´t worry about myself too much, but when I drag other people down with me, and especially somebody who cares about me - that´s just a really sick twisted thing to do guys.

Man, I deserve a royal flaming for this. I´m sorry.

Silly git

You fucked up. In this situation, if it's someone you really care about, you need to tell him you're aware that you fucked up, and that you really are sorry, and would love to try going out with him again, and that you'll be good next time... ect.

Honesty and humble appologies really are the best way to go.

From my couple of years of smoking experience, pot doesn't mix with spirits at all, yet if it's just beer then it should be fine.

Whenever I drink vodka and smoke pot I puke =|

It was very wrong of me but when I first saw this thread I was assuming "huh. Black boyfriend, white girl gets sick and passes out...evil black man obviously drugged her" sorry.
But it's really nice to see you've got a black guy that doesent seem to be evil. Maybe you should play nice for a while?

This plus anal sex.

That'll fix most things.

And yes I am being serious.

Although its partly his fault for allowing you to take drugs. His duty is to protect you and if he knew there would be hash there then he should have at least checked if you were an experienced smoker etc.

Although its partly his fault for allowing you to take drugs. His duty is to protect you and if he knew there would be hash there then he should have at least checked if you were an experienced smoker etc.

I don't think this is really true anymore. Nearly everyone now will smoke pot if it's offered to them, and I don't see why it should be his "duty" to protect her from a tiny bit of pot. She said herself she only had a quarter of a joint.

Enough weed to knock a hungry lightweight liddle lady off her feet though.

"It was only a quart of 4.5% Olympia? I don't see why she passed out? Sure...she's only 5? Still...she must be a lightweight & I don't know if she's as tough as she talks?" :p

Apparently only about 1 outta 10 are as 'tough' as they talk. which leaves the rest of us: full of heated air.

Yeah, I thought you got spiked for a moment, but I guess not.

Just hold back on the weed. If you've never smoked it before you have to be prepared for the worst. It could've been anything from Thai crap (probably not in this case) or skunk...And you wouldn't have been ready.

Just say sorry, and mean it...And offer him anal sex.

Actually, the sex did end up being very good, and come to think of it he did do alot of touching of my butt hole. Lol, anal might have been a good solution. Thanks guys.

...just kidding, he'd rip me in half. :(

Bad solution.

I like Jack's anal idea, that can never be a bad thing. Also, recognize you are a lightweight and party accordingly in the future. Its nothing to be ashamed of, and oftentimes its just a genetic disposition not something you have control of.......kinda like having an allergy. When discussing this with your guy in the next couple of days, stroke the weed up a little bit. Saying something like...."OMG, I never had chronic that tasted so good. It must have been that. You guyz really do get the good shit don't ya". That way you are stroking him a little and the peeps he associates with. In his mind he'll be thinking he showed you or exposed you to something you never had before.......like movin on up with the Jeffersons. Always play on that male ego in these uncomfortable scenarios.

In the future if you really must do the cocktail of weed+booze.....ALWAYS smoke weed first. I have no scientific backing other than my personal experience. But if you do weed then drinks, then weed, then drinks.....you have a better chance of keeping a nice steady buzz going. But if you start out with a few drinks then weed......most people get laid out on their ass, especially if its quality bud to begin with.

^^^Sure, that sounds good. Weed intensifying everything & all. Too much too quickly? Whatever order they're in can be too much. Better to start off slow.

She might have had one toke & half a beer, then have gotten really hungry and eaten too much too fast & gotten sleepy that way. No hallucinations, but still way dozy.

I don't personally enjoy smoking first because it causes me to be more sick. I enjoy a nice blunt about 2 hours before I go to bed after a nice day of partying. The blunt calms me down and lets me fall asleep peacefully.

I like Jack's anal idea, that can never be a bad thing. Also, recognize you are a lightweight and party accordingly in the future. Its nothing to be ashamed of, and oftentimes its just a genetic disposition not something you have control of.......kinda like having an allergy. .

This is true. I go absolutely psycho on the stuff. I'm bad enough on alcohol but on any form of 'hash' i become extremely aggressive, paranoid and Uber violent. And the stuff around these days is so fucking strong and makes it ten times worse.

Back in the 80's when 'Northern Lights'/Skunk first appeared we thought it was strong but the stuff you crazy kids smoke today makes it look like 60's hippy grass.

This is true. I go absolutely psycho on the stuff. I'm bad enough on alcohol but on any form of 'hash' i become extremely aggressive, paranoid and Uber violent. And the stuff around these days is so fucking strong and makes it ten times worse.

Back in the 80's when 'Northern Lights'/Skunk first appeared we thought it was strong but the stuff you crazy kids smoke today makes it look like 60's hippy grass.

Haha this made me chuckle, but I do resent being called a kid, I'm 18 now...I thought I left the whole childish era behind me :(

I think it all depends on set & setting too. As with alcohol for instance. Sometimes you can drink more & just burn it off & not come to grief? Other times you can drink less & end up feeling way too woozy.

It's all too easy to be influenced by those who insist that every one 'Man Up' & smoke/drink way more than is needed or wanted. I can smoke shake & get a buzz. I don't need some joker telling me that I need to smoke an eighth of Nepalese Temple Hash or Northern Lights to barely cop a decent buzz. :D

Goatish fly-bitten fustilarian.

This is true. I go absolutely psycho on the stuff. I'm bad enough on alcohol but on any form of 'hash' i become extremely aggressive, paranoid and Uber violent. And the stuff around these days is so fucking strong and makes it ten times worse.

Back in the 80's when 'Northern Lights'/Skunk first appeared we thought it was strong but the stuff you crazy kids smoke today makes it look like 60's hippy grass.

QFMFT!

Although I still go back to a time in the 80's where a certain strain was around, and I still haven't tasted anything like it......or near its potency. This old school biker guy had his own crop, he called it Mud Cat weed. This was the kinda shit you did NOT want to be out in public on. Sadly, his crop/recipe died with him.

It is funny how everyone has their own different reactions to stuff. This kid I partied with in high school......he could down 6 or 7 shots of straight vodka one right after the other at 17 with zero effort. 3 hits off any joint, dude was puking in the bushes for hours.

One thing I love about this holiday time of year is all the good weed floating around. All that disposable income and festive mood shit. Couple nights ago 2 of my nephews stopped by with some Kind Buds. Now I toke daily, and this shit just about flattened me. Playing Uno Attack after that was quite the interesting journey. (Side note to anyone that cares. If you ever enjoyed Uno, this new version takes it to a whole new realm. LOTTA LOTTA FUN!). Now I'm sitting here waiting for a buddy to stop by who also scored some Kind Buds, that should be here in the next couple of hours. If any of my late afternoon or early evening posts make no sense, that is why.

Live and learn. You found a limit and won't push it again.

You should be happy that people care enough to watch you and make sure that you're safe.

Everyone has a night like that, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Next time to see them I bet you and them will have a laugh about it and then they'll tell stories about how they've made fools of themselves while drunk and high. Black people are crazy.

In the future if you really must do the cocktail of weed+booze.....ALWAYS smoke weed first. I have no scientific backing other than my personal experience. But if you do weed then drinks, then weed, then drinks.....you have a better chance of keeping a nice steady buzz going. But if you start out with a few drinks then weed......most people get laid out on their ass, especially if its quality bud to begin with.

Ill second this. I'm a 160 lb. alcoholic though, with a demonic thirst for alcohol, so I can down anything and prefer my weed later. In your situation though, smoke your stuff and sip your alcohol afterwords. Best bet.

Try to get a big and healthy meal before going out too, it'll help.

Try to get a big and healthy meal before going out too, it'll help.

Yep cos 'dry heaving' is really really painful!

:P

QFT

I'm pretty sure most people have a story about a time when they got more fucked up than they wanted to/should have. I know I have more than one of those stories, lol.

Once I got really wasted and ended up puking in a pub. A waitress bitched out my boyfriend and made him clean it up, lol. I felt really bad, it's not like it made him stop loving me.

I do find it suspicious that one drink and a quarter of a joint hit you so hard. Are you sure no one slipped you anything?

^^^ Then you think that doing as she did, ten hours after her last meal was fine? Do you drink & smoke that long after your last meal too?

What are the benefits/disadvantages of such a behavior on one's metabolism? Thinness/perkiness vs greater susceptibility to losssss of conciooousness with ingesting food/drugs?