Ok so here's the deal. I've been hooking up with this girl for about a month now, I really like her and I know she feels the same, so we made it official the other night.

The thing is, we sleep in each others beds on the weekends and some weeknights, we always talking about anything and we really enjoy each others company. We kiss and stuff which gets really heavy almost all the time, but it never seems to lead anywhere, we like just stop and start talking- well actually I stop :( I know she is just waiting for me to make the move.

It's not like i dont want to have sex with her or im a virgin- got a fair bit of experience. It's just, well, Im scared of being shit and im not really sure why.

I think it might be the fact that her last boyfriend was like really good looking, 'quite large' and really good in bed, and im not all that. I dont really have a good body which I am a bit self-conscience about :( Also I REALLY REALLY like her so I wanted her to be like WOW the first time.

Last night it got to the stage where she said she wants me to fuck her, so we started kissing and I was in her pants rubbin her puss and shes moaning and panting, then I went to get on top, but just couldn't do it, so I rolled over and was like im a bit tired and felt sooo shit. I kinda feel if I dont fuck her soon, shes gonna get pretty angry and will probably say she just wants to be friends or something.

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME!? Anyone been in a similar situation? How can I overcome this 'fear of sex'?

Earth!

Fire!

Wind!

Aw it's fucked. Mental, get over it and just do it, if she's into it and wants to do it she obviously doesn't care. If we she wanted to be with her ex instead, she'd do that, but she's with you.

Fire!

captain planet fetish???

captain planet fetish???

*fap*

Zero's law:
The more you worry about fucking up a good thing with a girl, the more likely you will.

Just do it. She's not with the ex-boyfriend now is she? She's with you. That's because what you've been doing so far has been good and she's enjoyed it.

Besides, "WOW!" doesn't necessarily happen straight away. It takes time. Just do it and don't look back.

wtf?

I really think other people are differnetly wired than me. I'd get so involved in the feeling in that sort of situation and wouldn't give a shit about any of that. I'd just make love to her like the ivory sex God I am.

I really don't think girls care as much about a nice body and the like as guys do. For girls it's all about fitting into their weird fantasies they have in their head.

Water... Heart... With your powers combined I am CAPTAIN PLANET!

I hate you fags for not continuing on the joke...

Ok, I don't see how the OP expects anything other than being told to man the fuck up and ride her to the best of his ability!!

Ya know, whatever the worst thing that can happen is, it will always be the same... you will kick yourself for missing the opportunity and even if you do suck in the sack, flick her off and lick her clit and make her secrete her juices all over you, before you bother sticking your seemingly half arsed erection into her.

A lot of women have had bad sex, and a lot of women are prepared for the fact that you may not give them earth trembling orgasms every time... just do it, enjoy yourself and realise that she is enjoying yourself. Especially if she's getting as wet as you described.

Yeah, so man the fuck up, bitch!!

The man above me speaks the truth... As long as there's a penis inside me, it feels good. That's really all that matters... Orgasms are a bonus.

Captain Planet has been done to death. Bring on old school power rangers.

PTERADACTYL!

Captain Planet has been done to death. Bring on old school power rangers.

PTERADACTYL!

sorry its all about voltron.

First off if you used to hear about her brag about the size of her boyfriends dick or how GREAT he was in bed......get it out of your head right now, and ill tell you why.


Whether a girl is telling the truth or not....... girls (Especially American) Love relationships. Why the fuck do you think they spend so much time with make up, gossip, ect.

My point is that every girl wants to show/tell the world how great her guy is to her and how great the relationship is. You will notice that whenever you are around couples......they KISS MORE! Seriously watch the next time you are having a good conversation with a girl and her boyfriend is right there. They will start flirting with eachother! That is because they want to show the world how "In love" they are, they want you to Look "Up" To their relationship.

What im trying to say is, I dont care how big the last guys cock was. Maybe his dick was big....maybe it wasnt. Maybe your dick is just as big! Or maybe its not.

There are plenty of guys out there with big dicks but their "Motion" Is off when it comes to fucking.


Ignore the comments. If you touched her in the privates im willing to bet that she has felt, or held, or even rubbed up against your dick.......however she still wants to have sex with you! Keep your mind focused on her, not just your pleasure during sex and i garentee you there is a good chance it will work out.


Have fun!

Fuck her

At this point, why are you still worrying about whether she thinks your good looking or not? Obviously she does. Dont be afraid of sex man.

I second Datura's post.

By the way, if you don't fuck her soon after she's told you she wants to fuck, she's going to leave. Man up, son. It's better to have shit sex than none. Besides, if it's crap you just go down on her like a wild motherfucker. Make sure she has fun.

Animal instinct, son!

Thank you all for the advice, i think that is just what I needed- some incouragement and people to tell me to man up.

Next time I'm in the same bed as her, I'm just going to unleash the fury

Rape.

Get drunk

Awesome, go for it, good luck :)

It comes down to one thing man:

Sex or no sex

Even if you suck, you're still getting laid. First time with a new girl isn't always the best. However you'll get use to eachother and the sex will get better. Just do it, nothing to lose really...
Say you bust in 1min....lick her for a while, come back up and last for a few hours. Just say "wow....your just so sexy / tight" something...and it will be fine.

Sex or no sex.

Straight up tell her what your concerns are and why you've been acting the way you've been acting. You'll be surprised more girls are actually happy to "train" a guy in bed. This is how they see it, I don't really see it as me being trained, just informal instruction. Once you get enough informal instruction, you're considered "good" in bed if you can put it all together, beginning to end. Sex is not just your dick in her pussy, it's everything encompassed from when you first start kissing to when you are done eating a sandwich.

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