I take my girl friend, we aren't dating but we are close friends, to parties often but never really hang around her most of the night cause she's off getting hit on guys and I'm out hitting on girls. Well she invited me, just me, to come over and do jello shots with her. I am really attracted to her, but I tried to date her before and she wasn't interested in that so we just have been really good friends for 2 years.

If she gets drunk and starts wanting to get physical, am I suppose to go with it and give her whatever she wants, or be the nice guy and don't take advantage of a drunk chick? I mean cause if i do do shit with her, then she probably will never want to date me right? I still kind of do have feelings for her.

I take my best friend girl to parties often but never really hang around her most of the night cause she's off getting hit on guys and I'm out hitting on girls. Well she invited me, just me, to come over and do jello shots with her. I am really attracted to her, but I tried to date her before and she wasn't interested in that so we just have been really good friends for 2 years.

If she gets drunk and starts wanting to get physical, am I suppose to go with it and give her whatever she wants, or be the nice guy and don't take advantage of a drunk chick? I mean cause if i do do shit with her, then she probably will never want to date me right? I still kind of do have feelings for her.

It's your best friend's girl? What the fuck is wrong with people...

No stupid she's my very close friend. She doesn't have a bf

I thought he meant best friend girl as in best friend (girl) you know.... best friend who happens to be female.

darn you beat me to it with the reply there.

But yeah back to topic. I would do the gentlemanly thing and not take advantage but maybe tell her how you feel and that if she's still up for it in the morning you'd be more than willing to oblige. And then see if she brings it up the next day.

Dude, just fuck her. She probably wants it, why else would she invite you over to get drunk? Don't just leap on her, but if she starts hitting with you go with the flow.

Dude, just fuck her. She definitely wants it, why else would she invite you over to get drunk? Don't just leap on her, but if she starts hitting with you go with the flow.

Edited for accuracy.

lol virgin

come on man shes inviting JUST you over to do jello shots. she just wants to get drunk and fuck, i don't see how you're taking advantage of her.

I'm not a virgin. I just have a a lot of experience in the friends wanting to be more than friends field. One male friend of mine for example was asking me out for about 6 years before I ever developed feelings for him. I ended up going out with him but if he had EVER taken advantage of me like that on any of the numerous occasions I went round his to get drunk that never would have ended up happening.

You are calling me stupid, but even after you went back and edited your message you still come off as challenged. Faggot...

maybe she doesn t want anything serious but is willing to be fuck buddies.

You are calling me stupid, but even after you went back and edited your message you still come off as challenged. Faggot...

Everyone seems to understand it but you buddy. Maybe you should ask Santa for some Hooked On Phonics for Christmas.

maybe she doesn t want anything serious but is willing to be fuck buddies.

This is probably the greatest situation a person could be in. Hope for this.

Yeah.......

Fuck her

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I guess you're right.

Girls wouldn't date a nice guy or stay with him long anyway? They like the dude that will fuck her and then act like he don't give a shit right....

You are calling me stupid, but even after you went back and edited your message you still come off as challenged. Faggot...

LOL @ you for being gay

In my experience, girls don't want a dude that "doesn't give a shit" they want a guy that "won't take shit". There's a difference. Girls like to be looked after and pampered but they want a guy with backbone that they can't walk over.

In response to your situation, if she's inviting JUST you over for jelly shots I'd say she's keen. Just get really drunk as well and then play the "drunk shit happens" card. If you're any good in bed she'll probably want to date you.

BUT, if she's so drunk she's sick/passing out... Obviously don't. That's when it's taking advantage. But you'll know whether she's keen or not when you guys have had a few and are starting to get a bit giggly. If she's close to you, hanging on to your words and finding excuses to touch you, down some shots and go with it.

Good luck soldier.

By the way, the fuck buddies thing never works out. Either date her or don't. After you fuck, things get weird. If you're regularly fucking, one of you will definitely want to be with the other one... Otherwise you wouldn't still be fucking.

See how it goes.