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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-12-14, 21:55 |
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 My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I got a little suspicious because he's been using the computer for hours on end, and last night, the comp got an annoying virus that took me a while to get rid of. I looked in the history this morning, and, sure enough, a few porn websites showed up.
I can tell he's just starting to watch it because I've never noticed anything in the history until now, and he's searching in Yahoo! things like "virgin cherry pop sex". He was also enough of a pr0n n00b to leave it in the history, a fundamental that all of us know.
What should I do? It's embarassing to report it to my parents, which I know I should. And things will get way worse for him... The longer he looks at it, the more addicted he'll get. And porn fucks with your mind. I've found that I occasionally fantasize about being penetrated myself, by a man or a woman, and I've realized that watching porn has done that to me. And it's been happening more and more. I don't want for him to have to deal with all this. His morals and sexuality will be at stake.
But if I snitch, there's the possibility of my parents finding my own porn stash on the computer. lol at the irony/double standard.
Help?
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#2
2007-12-14, 22:15 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Who gives a shit? He's going to look at it no matter what you do.
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#3
2007-12-14, 22:19 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I'm fairly sure this is just part of normal development, and besides, you do it yourself. How could you even think of turning him over? Don't be a hypocrite.
Best course of action? Let him know you know and have a laugh at his expense. You don't even need to tell him to be more careful, he'll do it out of necessity and embarrassment.
Alternatively, blackmail. But he might have found your porn stash too.
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#4
2007-12-14, 22:20 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Porn does fuck with your mind after a while.But you know what?Fuck it.Tv fucks with your mind and half of you idiots still watch it.Let him be.It's just porn.Give him the 4chan /s/ address and there you go.Porn of all types virus free and also free.Updated every ten minutes.
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#5
2007-12-14, 22:20 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
There is nothing wrong with looking at porn. Every guy does it, and there are only those select few who become "addicts," which I think is bullshit anyways. Even if he is forced to stop looking at it, he will still visualize it in his head anyways.
Dont tell the parents, and recommend him some good porn sites.
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#6
2007-12-14, 22:32 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by Uranium238
Who gives a shit? He's going to look at it no matter what you do.
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This. |
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2007-12-14, 22:35 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Hmm, so 12 and looking at porn...
I wonder if I would be the cool cousin if I gave my 12 year old cous porn. I know I would have loved being given porn a that age.
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#8
2007-12-14, 22:52 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
And porn fucks with your mind. I've found that I occasionally fantasize about being penetrated myself, by a man or a woman, and I've realized that watching porn has done that to me.
No, that's what being a fag does to you.
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#9
2007-12-14, 22:52 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I should have known that Totse wouldn't see eye-to-eye with me on this one... >_>
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#10
2007-12-14, 22:53 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
It's normal and natural, so get over it - porn has become the most accessible source of sex education for a whole generation. You also clearly have some issues with your own sexuality, unless you're trolling.
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#11
2007-12-14, 23:09 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by madeyes
It's normal and natural, so get over it - porn has become the most accessible source of sex education for a whole generation. You also clearly have some issues with your own sexuality, unless you're trolling.
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This one.
Either:
A) his life is fucked as of now. Introduce him to totse and watch his life spiral down rapidly
B) tell him to delete the history, maybe recommend a site or 2
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#12
2007-12-15, 00:05 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
1) Tell him to go to www.redtube.com
2) Show him how to empty the history
3) ???
4) Profit!
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#13
2007-12-15, 00:34 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
yea dude. dont bust his nuts over it. pun intended
rather instead of traumatizing him by exposing him an having either your or his parent tell him its bad an what not. tell him its alright to do that just dont over do it.
dont be parentalish either be straight up an tell him its alright to do it but dont fuck up my computer.
then teach what to do an not to do, dont teach him to jack of right cause thats kinda gay an may turn him gay.
but tell him how to hide his stuff the right way....he will thank you later.
trust me.
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#14
2007-12-15, 01:18 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
When my little brother was about 10 he found one of my porn mags (not really found it, it was lying on the floor in my room my parents don't care) and he's like :O OMG OMG LET ME HAVE A PICTURE FROM IT!!! So I just gave him the magazine and I bet almost 2 years later he still has that thing.
Don't snitch.
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#15
2007-12-15, 01:45 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
He's giving the computer viruses. That's why it's his business. You big stupids.
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#16
2007-12-15, 01:58 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
There is really no reason for concern. Who cares if he's looking at porn, I've been watching porn since I was 11 and it hasn't really done anything negitive in my life. It's something I devote no more than half an hour to, just a quick fap. So unless he's searching something like "big black cock fucks three women and a ferret" there is not a clear reason for concern.
As for the malware problem, try to steer him towards a safer site like xvideos.com
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#17
2007-12-15, 02:09 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by Satans Handicapped Helper
He's giving the computer viruses. That's why it's his business. You big stupids.
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Ya but he can just show his little bro what places are safe, he doesn't need to rat him out. Then the bro is happy, the parents dont know, and the comp is virus free. :p |
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#18
2007-12-15, 02:12 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Just show him how to do it without killing the PC. Everyone's looking at porn by at like the latest age 7-8.
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#19
2007-12-15, 04:11 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Try to educate him, while he's watching porn.
For all the books he has to read in English, show him the porno version.
That's what I did with "The Crucible."
That way, he can learn AND fap.
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#20
2007-12-15, 04:22 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I should have known that no one would see eye-to-eye with me on this one... >_>
Fixed.
Sorry mate, but most of the male WORLD would not agree with you on this.
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#21
2007-12-15, 05:57 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
don't SHOW him "how" to do it.
he'll get weirded out.
instead find some way of showing him the better way to go about it without actually telling him. ie leaving a good virus free site open or something. I realize that won't work because of your parents etc, but I can't think of a better example right now..
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#22
2007-12-15, 07:31 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
ffffffff
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#23
2007-12-15, 12:34 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
http://www.4greedy.com/
That one is safe, show him that :p
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#24
2007-12-15, 14:47 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Activate the fucking parental locks on the computer, if I'm right all computers have them. problem fixed, and how do you know it's actually him, it might be your dad, and he just forgot this one time to clear the history, or maybe it's your mom looking for ways to heat it up in the bedroom with your dad.
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#25
2007-12-15, 15:02 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Hack him a bangbros password.
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#26
2007-12-15, 15:06 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I started with porn at age 9, I'm now 24 and it hasn't done me any harm. I never went through the 'giggly' age with sex and I got all A's in Sex Ed, when I was 12.
It's win win.
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#27
2007-12-15, 15:22 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I looked at porn around the same age I learned how to read.
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#28
2007-12-15, 16:28 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by Satans Handicapped Helper
He's giving the computer viruses. That's why it's his business. You big stupids.
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Show him 2girls1cup and some of the other shock sites, and tell him that they are reality shows ? |
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2007-12-15, 17:15 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Welcome him to the god damn club.
Tell him he can't be leaving his shit in the history, and that he should use porn responsibly.
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#30
2007-12-15, 17:42 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by Mogli of the Jungle
I got a little suspicious because he's been using the computer for hours on end, and last night, the comp got an annoying virus that took me a while to get rid of. I looked in the history this morning, and, sure enough, a few porn websites showed up.
I can tell he's just starting to watch it because I've never noticed anything in the history until now, and he's searching in Yahoo! things like "virgin cherry pop sex". He was also enough of a pr0n n00b to leave it in the history, a fundamental that all of us know.
What should I do? It's embarassing to report it to my parents, which I know I should. And things will get way worse for him... The longer he looks at it, the more addicted he'll get. And porn fucks with your mind. I've found that I occasionally fantasize about being penetrated myself, by a man or a woman, and I've realized that watching porn has done that to me. And it's been happening more and more. I don't want for him to have to deal with all this. His morals and sexuality will be at stake.
But if I snitch, there's the possibility of my parents finding my own porn stash on the computer. lol at the irony/double standard.
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why would you snitch about such a thing, hes young. |
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#31
2007-12-15, 18:14 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
tell him about redtube and tell him to stop searching the net for random sites that will give you viruses
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#32
2007-12-15, 19:44 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
SAME!
I went home for break, was typing in xkcd and it came up as xxx-porn-schoolgirls-hentai something. com or something.
The history was full of things like google search: statue boobs or stripping all the way naked and such
I put up a porn blocker that has the message "[brother's name] - you know why this is here". I figure that way, they will find it when I'm not there. Cause that'd be awkward.
-edit--------------------
And all a's in sex ed? Wow! that was like the hardest easiest class ever.
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#33
2007-12-15, 19:50 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I looked at porn when I was 12.
Point being, nothing new.
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#34
2007-12-15, 19:52 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Originally Posted by MH-iforgotmypassword
SAME!
I went home for break, was typing in xkcd and it came up as xxx-porn-schoolgirls-hentai something. com or something.
The history was full of things like google search: statue boobs or stripping all the way naked and such
I put up a porn blocker that has the message "[brother's name] - you know why this is here". I figure that way, they will find it when I'm not there. Cause that'd be awkward.
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And all a's in sex ed? Wow! that was like the hardest easiest class ever.
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You're a fucking hypocrite - What gives you the right to view porn and him not too?
Seriously, What age did you start? |
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2007-12-15, 20:12 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Activate the fucking parental locks on the computer, if I'm right all computers have them.
I do not think you're right. Thankfully.
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#36
2007-12-15, 20:43 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I do not think you're right. Thankfully.
Although, on a positive side, it might get him interested in how computers work.
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#37
2007-12-15, 20:47 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I do not think you're right. Thankfully.
I was just about to post a "what the shit are you talking about" but I guess you did it for me.
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#38
2007-12-16, 00:10 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Just give him some tips about how not to wreck computers and get caught.
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#39
2007-12-16, 02:12 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Wow, dont be such a pussy.
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#40
2007-12-16, 07:51 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Check my thread. I busted my brother on pron and I took a screenshot of the dropdown menu at google, like "HOW TO DELETE HISTORY OF INTERNET" and "BIG BUSTY BOOBS".
You have to screenshot the evidence, and blackmail him with it.
Make sure you upload to every image site so if he deletes it off your computer you can bust him for deleting evidence.
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#41
2007-12-16, 08:25 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Porn's just porn, man. Every dude checks it out.
Only get concerned if it starts straying into suspect areas.
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2007-12-16, 13:02 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
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Check my thread. I busted my brother on pron and I took a screenshot of the dropdown menu at google, like "HOW TO DELETE HISTORY OF INTERNET" and "BIG BUSTY BOOBS".
You have to screenshot the evidence, and blackmail him with it.
Make sure you upload to every image site so if he deletes it off your computer you can bust him for deleting evidence.
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Screenshots are extremely easy to photoshop.
Instead, do what the British did when they discovered a bunch of German spies operating in Britain before the outbreak of WWI. Instead of busting them, knowing that in that case Germany would simply send more spies in that they would have to detect again, they let them work, but under close surveillance.
Finally, the spies were executed right before the outbreak of WWI, thus leaving Germany without any intelligence support in England at the outbreak of the war. |
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2007-12-16, 14:15 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
I do not think you're right. Thankfully.
Well, some computers do, I know mine does, I keep them activated to keep myself from being tempted.
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#44
2007-12-16, 14:32 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
And porn fucks with your mind. I've found that I occasionally fantasize about being penetrated myself, by a man or a woman, and I've realized that watching porn has done that to me. And it's been happening more and more.
Maybe you're just a fag? Also, nobody likes a snitch.
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#45
2007-12-16, 16:35 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
show him something thats really fucked up..like this http://www.efukt.com/1774_Drugged_Up_Asian.html , this http://www.efukt.com/1745_Publicly_Degraded_Slut.html , or this http://www.efukt.com/1723_Anorexia_Erotica.html .. he'll be traumatized for life
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#46
2007-12-16, 16:38 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
http://youtube.com/watch?v=jmr3nJWqB1o
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#47
2007-12-16, 17:36 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
Not much you can do.
Porn is addictive though, and if he's left to browse for hours like I was, he's going to waste a lot of time.. but we all do.
I got into hentai at 12, and was pretty much a lost cause. Fapfapfap all fucking day long.. this chan, that chan.. bondage faeries, etc etc.
I needed harder and harder stuff, and it was probably how I developed all my kinks, and I've very fond of them. I still believe, though, that all the porn and hentai made me quite warped and wasted hours and hours of my day.
He'll grow out of it. Or become like all us totseans.
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#48
2007-12-16, 22:29 |
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Re: My 12 yr old brother looks at porn now
He's fucking 12 man who cares! I was looking at porn when I was 9 and I turned out fine... I think...
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