idk about u but i found that i luv bdsm and that im a total dom i jus wanna know wat u guys think about it

Jesus Christ was the first BDSM'er of all time!

If Jesus were alive today, he'd be in a dungeon with a ballgag in his mouth while being whipped by Catwoman!

--KP

At least attempt some grammar and spelling? It's fucking annoying.

But for content, I find the idea of bdsm very weird indeed, but really, it's not my place to say whether people should practice it or not.

I think a severe course of self flagilation on the merits of the English language in the written form would be of great value to such a sad wanker as you!

I agree but you mispelt 'flagellation'. Not that he'd notice of course.

OP, this is a BBS not an SMS. Learn the difference or fuck off.

The idea of people enjoying pain in a sexual manner has always disturbed me when I think upon it.

I dated a girl who was into bdsm once and I didn't particularly enjoy anything about it.

I agree but you mispelt 'flagellation'. Not that he'd notice of course.

OP, this is a BBS not an SMS. Learn the difference or fuck off.


Dammmmmn you kettttttchhhh! but of course such words are not something I would use in every day conversation.........large rasberry in the direction of Norwich!

...large rasberry in the direction of Norwich!

Either you are blessed with an exceptional elephantine memory or you've been E-stalking me again , dear.

Raspberries are delicious. Yet, I don't think they're involved in bdsm.

Ya think?

There was this girl I knew once, from Rouen.....but that's another story.

Either you are blessed with an exceptional elephantine memory or you've been E-stalking me again , dear.


As usual you flatterer yourself again jackyboy!

I love raspberries,

and I am a female slave owned by a Mistress.

Take that. :p

Your spelling pains me, yet it´s not turning me on - yup, guess I´m just not into that shit.

I'm always up for a little light bondage, but if you're going to take out a whip, I'm gonna take my ball gag and go home.

OP, this is a BBS not an SMS. Learn the difference or fuck off.

I don't know the difference :(

As for bdsm, I'm all for it! Though I haven't gotten to do anything too extreme... kinda just getting my feet wet, lil spanking here, lil cuffing there...

I don't know the difference :(

As for bdsm, I'm all for it! Though I haven't gotten to do anything too extreme... kinda just getting my feet wet, lil spanking here, lil cuffing there...

That's a good start. cuffing to a chair is good...

I lolled.

I love raspberries,

That's because raspberries are good. Raspberries and victims of bdsm shouldn't be mutually exclusive.

I don't think about bdsm.

Ahem, actually my only advice is stay away from chat rooms, message boards, myspace, news paper ads, stories and the lonely hearts. Shit like Gor and stuff... it's equivelant to furry. It attracts bored, lonely housewives and young guys dicking around mostly.

If you like Bdsm experiment with your honey or go to a club and meet someone. As with everything, stick to reality and stay the fuck as far away from the internet as you can.

There's something about being dressed up as a school girl and pinned down that makes me...'Smile'.

I'm a total masochist when it comes down to it :)

How about a bear sleep suit a la Lain, instead of the school girl thang? Hmmmm I wonder if they have those on ebay yet....

I'm not so sure that lonely housewives get into bdsm without a predisposition to being dominated (or dominating).

Goreans piss me off..

How about a bear sleep suit a la Lain, instead of the school girl thang? Hmmmm I wonder if they have those on ebay yet....

Find me one :p ...hang on, you know where I live...Don't get any ideas.

Don't think it'll fit... (http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/BOYS-BROWN-BEAR-SUIT-AND-HEADPIECE-AGE-3-5-YEARS_W0QQitemZ110205593224QQihZ001QQcategoryZ1611 7QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem)

But this will! (Bible Black aswell heh). (http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/JAPANESE-ANIME-BIBLE-BLACK-SCHOOL-GIRL-UNIFORM-COSTUME_W0QQitemZ200182737332QQihZ010QQcategoryZ31 2QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem)

Yep :D

I love bdsm. My last boyfriend wasn't willing to try ANYTHING in the least bit exciting in the bedroom.... but my boyfriend before him was a lot more experimental and we had lots of bdsm related fun. I'm a sub though I wouldn't know what to do if I was in a situation where I had to dominate someone.... I just wouldn't know where to start.

I havn;t done a lot of stuff, but I think I'd totally enjoy being dominated.

Nothing to hardcore, no crazy leather outfits or anything, but being tied down and cut up a little, pretty hot.

I love raspberries,

and I am a female slave owned by a Mistress.

Take that. :p
Pics or it didn't happen.

I'm a sub though I wouldn't know what to do if I was in a situation where I had to dominate someone.... I just wouldn't know where to start.

Same.

thanks for the replies at least i know that im not a total freak lol i have been to a couple of clubs but finding the right sub i have not found but im still young:D

Pics or it didn't happen.

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/5153/1120071653avf8.jpg

It's a heart lock for my cute collar.

I'd love to get interesting with a submissive woman. But you aren't getting near me with any of that bullshit. I'm too afraid she'll chain me to the bed, then take the opportunity to eviscerate, castrate, and rob me. Bitches are crazy...

http://img156.imageshack.us/img156/5153/1120071653avf8.jpg

It's a heart lock for my cute collar.

This gave me an erection!

This gave me an erection!

grats.

BDSM
I don't think it's for me, but if that's how people get their jollies then that's just peachy.

Can I ask if you've had any experience with any form of BDSM?

If any, what type, how far did you go and did you like it?

If not, what's stopped you?

Can I ask if you've had any experience with any form of BDSM?

If any, what type, how far did you go and did you like it?

If not, what's stopped you?


I have had literally no experience at all with BDSM. I've got absolutely nothing against it and if I was ever with a guy who was into it I would certainly try it out, but from reading the erotica and watching some of the porn it just doesn't appeal to me.

Now don't get me wrong, I adore playing dominant once in a while, and switching it around and being spanked and such is sweet, but I don't think I could do the whole pain-for-pleasure thing, I'm just too mellow. Ya dig?

Wasn't criticizing, I was just more curious :)

Well I hope I satisfied your curiosity. :)
I'm going to assume, based on your questions, that you know a bit about the whole scene?

What can I say? I'm rather proud of my spanking fetish.

Well I hope I satisfied your curiosity. :)
I'm going to assume, based on your questions, that you know a bit about the whole scene?

Indeed you did...And I know enough, but not all I'd like to :)

I've been getting private sessions with the mods of S&A for several months now ;)

There's your next sex act in the bedroom! Switch roles! The dominate is the submissive, the submissive the dominate! God I'm turned now! I need to find someone..

I do think the whole schoolgirl thing is kind of hot... but dungeons and whips and calling people "Sir" freak me out. I just couldn't. It would be scary first off, and also, I think my mind would eventually just be conditioned to believe I was a real slave or something. And that is not cool. Which is not saying that I think that people who do engage in BDSM are freaks or should be locked up. I personally just couldn't.

The thing to remember is that the sub is the one with the real power.

And your reasoning behind this is what exactly?

Because the sub is the one that sets the limits and can call an end to things.

I don't really see it as that, but each to their own.

pah.... a dom can call and end to things if they want!

Criticize what I say if you want, I won't fight you. I'm just repeating what I read in the advice columns.

This only refers of course to Coffee Table BDSM with all their 'safewords' rubbish.

This only refers of course to Coffee Table BDSM with all their 'safewords' rubbish.

QFT

Where I come from, a safeword is only a way to say "I'm NOT pretending here, I really want this to stop"

Whether or not it actually stops anything is completely up to the Domme.

Try it out. I had a total sub gf for about a year. It took her a lot of effort to get me into it, but I found my inner Dom. Whipped that bitch 'til she came!

I'm not all that into the whole 'lifestyle' thing, but that doesn't mean it's not attractive to be a little out of control in the bedroom sometimes. And having a little "slavegirl" begging to be used, come on, who wouldn't like that?

However, in my endless search for free pornography of all types I discovered a great site for someone really into this kind of stuff. www.slavefarm.com. It's got a relatively small forum dealing with the BDSM lifestyle and a gallery made up of all amateur pictures from users of the site. I think you need to register to see the gallery, but well worth it. It's a great rescource for all you BDSM types.