I have been dating this girl for a little over 4 months and she is my first serious girlfriend. She is an amazingly cute little asian girl (minus crazy cultural shit) and is really fun to be around. At first I thought I was totally in love with this girl, it felt true but how the hell would I REALLY know? But the thing is she treats me like shit. And I am way too forgiving of it. She flirts with other guys in front of me and it's no big deal to her.

I don't want to lie to her, I tell her I love her all the time and I mean it. But is this something else, not lust but maybe infatuation? I don't know how long this is going to last.....if I can't get her to treat me at least acceptably.

if her respect level is as low for you as youve communicated, i would make every effort to shake those feelings. and fast before anything legitmate comes out of it on your end.

infact what the hells keeping you with her? any girl that would flirt with other guys when i was around would be fucking out the door in a heartbeat, let alone thinking what she does with those guys when you ARENT around.

you have to give some respect to yourself mate.

Flirting isn't that big of a deal.

Be a man and stand up for yourself, or you're gonna get walked over and cheated on. She makes you feel like shit? Turn the tables on her. Flirt in front of her, dance with other girls.

Edit: No one can tell you if you love her. You're probably just infatuated with her though.

Ahhhh how is a fucking asian girl taking advantage of you like that, treating you like shit i mean? Is she a dime piece or some shit?

Foreign girls, the one im tipping around with is ridiculous when it comes to respect, thats why i like her so much, you just dont see shit like that anymore, and usually foreign chicks are the one to go to for that type of treatment. Gotta love it

the flirting is nothing to her, like its just fun to watch the reactions of them to her. I have told her how I feel but thanks guys I wanted to kinda know if im normal or not.

You're still a junior in high school, right?

No im a sophomore.

You're probably just infatuated or excited to have a girlfriend. If her behavior is bothering you, tell her.

Here's whatcha do....

*SLAP* "EH YOU...You no flirt wif over guys, unnastand?! Me daddy numba one, you May-Ling, I own you! You luf me like I luf you now ays-hole?!"
Wave your hands around a lot for added effect.

Simple really.

Ugh, flirting is cheatings ugly cousin. I can't deal with all the 'must kill other man' feelings. It's much easier to communicate no more flirting or out the front door into the rain. (Benefit of UK)