The fact that I'd do anything for a guy who cares about me and the one who says he does, doesn't. I thought guys liked female company and sex. ha...but seriously.

I just want to find a nice guy...I gave this new guy a chance but he just wasn't that great. Where are all the nice guys???

That was my rant.
Good day.

im a good guy, and like all good guys i cannot find a girl so it seams were in the same boat but reversed genderwise

I hate these threads. I'm a nice guy. We're around if you look for us. The thing is, once they're past a certain age/maturity (not necessarily synonymous), nice guys gain confidence and get girls. But I'm assuming you're pretty young. If you're attractive, a "nice" guy your age probably isn't gonna do all the work.

Yeah this makes me sad.
There are good deserving girls, and there are good deserving guys.
Sometimes,allthough rarely, they find each other.


Dont worry. You'll never find Prince Charming, but there are some good men out there.

Now, I don't know whether or not all the guys you have been with have been shit, but I have to assume that there was once someone who actually did care about you, but you just had to go off and find a claw, maybe when he didn't remember to notice that pretty new necklace you had got, you immediately decided that he didn't care about you, when perhaps it looked like every other necklace you wear.

Go ahead flame me, but there's no way you can prove me wrong.

There are plenty of nice guys out there.

Most of them tend to be like this guy- http://youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

I'm not going to "flame" you, but it's more like that one guy decided he liked drugs and himself more than other people. He told me he didn't want anything to do with people or me, but sadly, I still try to change his mind.

He wanders around by himself. it's quite depressing.

I want a manly guy with huge muscles and an even bigger cock to fuck me until I bleed, then give me a black eye when I burn his dinner.


No, that's what you really want, troll.

Now, I don't know whether or not all the guys you have been with have been shit, but I have to assume that there was once someone who actually did care about you, but you just had to go off and find a claw, maybe when he didn't remember to notice that pretty new necklace you had got, you immediately decided that he didn't care about you, when perhaps it looked like every other necklace you wear.

Go ahead flame me, but there's no way you can prove me wrong.

Fuckin A.

ugh. that's just disgusting...

Here's a question.
why do guys think they know everything and make girls feel stupid like everything is their fault in a relationship?

yeah.
assholes.

Not all guys think that.

Like everyone else said, there are nice guys, a whole heap of guys are dickheads though. So it's like a needle in a hay stack.

HAH sounds like step 1 towards becoming a Lesb...JK JK...but shit it isnt your fault, guys along with girls often do 180s and shit they do where they turn in a new direction and never touch base with what they use to have. Guys do often blame dumb shit, as ive heard many times, on girls...even though the way the girl acts is because of what he did or didnt do in the first place. There is times when you have to realize the truth...not saying that you should in your case tho.

i think, if you can't find one then you never will. the person that made the comment about you getting fucked and getting a black eye was right. i'm not trying to make fun of you but i've met about 242093840 other girls like you. you subconciously crave abuse so you get dudes that are looking to use you. if you got with a nice guy, you would think that he's boring or no good. good luck with life!

I hate when girls always whine about not having a nice guy. I bet each and every girl has had one guy that would do anything for them. One guy thats always there for them, always ready to help. But the girl knows this, so she goes off and finds dickheads to fuck with, leaving the nice guy to move on. He never gets over this girl, but the girl is too slefish and stupid to realise what a cunt she really is. Thats what you are, bitch.

Girls usually choose bad guys and ignore good guys. I hate when girls whine about how all guys are asshole and so and and so forth...anyone can be an asshole if you give them the opportunity.

People need to take responsibility. Blaming the entire male population for being jerks is just stupid. If someone is an asshole to you it's because you let them do it. People treat you as only as poorly as you let them.

wtf?

this makes no sense.
I was simply ranting about wanting to find another guy.
jeez people, you're disgusting.

I crave affection not abuse and if you read any of my posts you'd know that and my former situation.
But you're obviously not a nice guy thus I don't need nor want your input.


Maybe I should ask...
How do you suppose I go about finding someone?
seriously. stop being bitches.

so I guess I'm a bitch because I still love my stoner ex-bf and don't know how to move on and find someone else since it's not working between us.

I didn't post here to be insulted and for people to make nasty assumptions.

so I guess I'm a bitch because I still love my stoner ex-bf and don't know how to move on and find someone else since it's not working between us.

I didn't post here to be insulted and for people to make nasty assumptions.

Oh shut the fuck up. Either think for one fucking second (yes, think) and get your head out of your ass, or stop bitching about this shit. Seriously, thats the best advice youre gonna get.

and...I'm not blaming the whole male population!!! I believe there are nice guys, I'm just incapable of finding one at the moment.

...

the problem is that there are NO guys. I'm not selfish and I'm not stupid and I am too nice and too forgiving and understanding...but apparently that means I crave abuse.
goddamn stupid people.

Oh shut the fuck up. Either think for one fucking second (yes, think) and get your head out of your ass, or stop bitching about this shit. Seriously, thats the best advice youre gonna get.

HAHA.

But you've no clue who you are saying that to.
Leave me alone.

I'm not bitching at all, some people are just bitching at me.

I posted the topic because I felt like it, not to "bitch".

wtf?

this makes no sense.
I was simply ranting about wanting to find another guy.
jeez people, you're disgusting.

I crave affection not abuse and if you read any of my posts you'd know that and my former situation.
But you're obviously not a nice guy thus I don't need nor want your input.


Maybe I should ask...
How do you suppose I go about finding someone?
seriously. stop being bitches.

if you can't find a nice guy, you're either retarded or an insecure little girl. please don't take anything i say to heart. let me ask you one thing before i answer your question, assuming you're a senior in hs, where do you see yourself in 5 years?

you look kinda cute and im a guy wanna have sex???, but seriously from a guys view we're all assholes some more than others so you kinda gotta just deal with it..

Quoted for Truth, as sad an admission as that may be. Women do do this.
What I want to know is: What do women mean when they say they want a nice guy?
What does a guy have to do, say, buy in order to be considered 'nice'?

if you can't find a nice guy, you're either retarded or an insecure little girl. please don't take anything i say to heart. let me ask you one thing before i answer your question, assuming you're a senior in hs, where do you see yourself in 5 years?

graduated from college and starting my career as a writer/editor/journalist.
of course many things can happen in the next five years and maybe I'll decide to do something else, but mainly with a career and stable financial situation.
I'm not sure what that question was for though.
My life doesn't revolve around guys if that's what you wanted to know.

Quoted for Truth, as sad an admission as that may be. Women do do this.
What I want to know is: What do women mean when they say they want a nice guy?
What does a guy have to do, say, buy in order to be considered 'nice'?

basically a guy who doesn't smoke pot and hide away somewhere being anti-social and doesn't have crazy mood swings and blame me for doing something wrong when in fact NOTHING even happened.

A guy who wants me and is willing to be "nice" to me.
A guy who actually wants a relationship.
I'm not picky and I think these things are pretty simple to ask of someone.

Why are you bitching so much?

They're right. There are nice guys, but you don't notice them.

graduated from college and starting my career as a writer/editor/journalist.
of course many things can happen in the next five years and maybe I'll decide to do something else, but mainly with a career and stable financial situation.
I'm not sure what that question was for though.
My life doesn't revolve around guys if that's what you wanted to know.

well i assumed you were a youngster since this is sort of a childish thread. but, you're old enough to know for yourself. or you're ugly

well i assumed you were a youngster since this is sort of a childish thread. but, you're old enough to know for yourself. or you're ugly

haha. I'm not ugly. but thanks.

well obviously I don't appreciate people who call me a bitch/cunt/ugly.
I'm defending myself not bitching.

I wouldn't have to "bitch" if people weren't such assholes to people they don't even know.

Let me put this as simply as I fucking can. The guys of which you speak are all around you. Odds are that guy could even be a close friend of your's whom you've never even considered. The problem is, your head is so far up your own fucking ass that you won't notice them, even if they're standing right fucking next to you. Tell you what, you know that guy that you use as an emotional tampon? The one that sits there and listens while you carry on and on and fucking on about your old boyfriends, but never tells you how sick and tired he is of you unloading your shit on him? The one who is always there whenever you need him? THAT'S THE FUCKING ONE YOU WANT, YOU STUPID CONCEITED BITCH!

Rockos post is all you need, it speaks the truth plainly enough for your stuck up little mind to understand. Girls wonder why guys are dicks, but if a guy wants a date, he needs to play girls stupid little 'games'. If we act friendly and treat you with respect, we become friends. And thats ok, but just dont bitch and moan when you cant find a steady relationship.

um...there is no guy I do that too.

thanks though for once again calling me a bitch.

so why am I "stuck up"?

um...there is no guy I do that too.

thanks though for once again calling me a bitch.

Goddamn youre dense. Just try to use your little fucking mind and think about what were saying for one damn minute. Dont just throw off all the advice because it dosnt relate to you in every specific detail. Seriously, just put yourself in perspective for one damn minute.

Goddamn youre dense. Just try to use your little fucking mind and think about what were saying for one damn minute. Dont just throw off all the advice because it dosnt relate to you in every specific detail. Seriously, just put yourself in perspective for one damn minute.

ok...?

it just doesn't help that you're constantly insulting me. I'm not going to think about your "advice" if all it is is a mass of insults and profanity.

um...there is no guy I do that too.

thanks though for once again calling me a bitch.

Funny thing is...you called them bitches first.

Sorry to break the ice, but you were defending yourself because you don't want to hear it.


Edit: Seriously, you came on totse, asking for advices and you fired back at them.

haha. I'm not ugly. but thanks.

ok, all this means is that you'll never be in a healthy relationship. talk to me in 20 years and tell me how right i am

ok...?

it just doesn't help that you're constantly insulting me. I'm not going to think about your "advice" if all it is is a mass of insults and profanity.

This thread should just end. You ask for advice, we give it perfectly. You whine about "Im not whining" and then discard all of our advice. We try to write it as plainly as possible, but you have it stuck in your mind that youre right and all of us are wrong. If you cant even think of what were saying, have fun never having a successful relationship.

This thread should just end. You ask for advice, we give it perfectly. You whine about "Im not whining" and then discard all of our advice. We try to write it as plainly as possible, but you have it stuck in your mind that youre right and all of us are wrong. If you cant even think of what were saying, have fun never having a successful relationship.

yeah ok. I'm a selfish, conceited, bitch.
I will remember that you guys told me that and I will have a successful relationship.
I love good quality advice. thanks.

Funny thing is...you called them bitches first.

Sorry to break the ice, but you were defending yourself because you don't want to hear it.


Edit: Seriously, you came on totse, asking for advices and you fired back at them.

Sorry. You're wrong. This guy started it.

I hate when girls always whine about not having a nice guy. I bet each and every girl has had one guy that would do anything for them. One guy thats always there for them, always ready to help. But the girl knows this, so she goes off and finds dickheads to fuck with, leaving the nice guy to move on. He never gets over this girl, but the girl is too slefish and stupid to realise what a cunt she really is. Thats what you are, bitch.

Yeah...

yeah ok. I'm a selfish, conceited, bitch.
I will remember that you guys told me that and I will have a successful relationship.
I love good quality advice. thanks.

Is it too much to hope for that this post is NOT sarcasm?

Is it too much to hope for that this post is NOT sarcasm?

Well since I've been insulted, told I was insecure, and ugly...
I think maybe you might make me exactly what you want me to be.

this is so stupid.


well thanks anyway to the people who actually were trying to make me feel better/give advice that wasn't insulting.

Pretty much what was said before - theres nice guys there. You probably phased them out because they are not outgoing enough, or good looking enough.

Pro tip: the ones that have to catch your eye and hook you in are the assholes. The ones that don't want to impose, the ones that have something to say but keep it to themselves, those are the nice guys. Just check the corners.

That being said I don't think your a bitch, I don't think you are insecure, and chances are your not bad looking. I just think you, like the majority of the female population, haven't learned this particular lesson yet. So please, read up. It will prevent so many bad times, so much heartbreak.. need I go on?

I made my point.

.....you asked for it and they gave you their thought.


The world is tough, let me tell ya.





OH btw, heres her picture, guys.
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b121/SnoPixie77/me2.jpg
I'm such an asshole. ;)

thanks for that. (not sarcastic)

truth is I'm just shy.

.....you asked for it and they gave you their thought.


The world is tough, let me tell ya.





OH btw, heres her picture, guys. :)
http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b121/SnoPixie77/me2.jpg
I'm such an asshole.

haha that picture is old and gross-looking.
and of course you picked the one that looks worse.
thanks :)

(of course, I'm still not ugly...I'm also not that photogenic)

thanks for that. (not sarcastic)

truth is I'm just shy.

Not a problem.

And a public photobucket is never a good idea.

Not a problem.

And a public photobucket is never a good idea.

you can make it private?
how?

and...

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b121/SnoPixie77/beths587.jpg

this one is more recent. and not as gross.

inb4flames

Well your first mistake was asking for advice on totse :D

inb4flames

huh???

true. but I guess I was just asking for the "don't worry you'll find someone" type of advice, which I got, but I never wanted the other crap.

ah well.

The best advice anyone can give you is for you to order a nice guy off the internet

Or just pretend your dog is a guy. Dogs always seem like they're smiling and smiling is contagious

Anyway, I have no idea what i just typed so sorry if i typed anything offensive to you, womankind, dogs, or cats that think they're are dogs

HAHA.

not offensive at all..actually cheered me up a bit.
too bad I don't have a dog. jk.

Ive decided that there are no good girls out there, unless there hiding from the good guys meh girls are just basically confusing soo it can work either way just guess im a fucker tht will never find the good girls

Just get a cat that thinks it's a dog. That's just as good. :D

Reckon a Gerbal will think its a hamster? i am aware i cant spell

Reckon a Gerbal will think its a hamster? i am aware i cant spell

Only if you feed it hamster food;)

Okay, I'm out of here, this has turned into a fuckin lame newbie-fest. I hope you've learned something, but I doubt it.

Only if you feed it hamster food;)

it is amazing stuff:D and a newbie fest err not a new arrival, acolyte and proud :P

haha...he's jealous of nice people with a sense of humor. I can tell :)

haha...he's jealous of nice people with a sense of humor. I can tell :)

Instead of the pretty funny dark humour totse puts you on after a while:p

I'm not going to "flame" you, but it's more like that one guy decided he liked drugs and himself more than other people. He told me he didn't want anything to do with people or me, but sadly, I still try to change his mind.

He wanders around by himself. it's quite depressing.

....ali?
dude
is that you?

....ali?
dude
is this you?

idk who that is so no.

idk who that is so no.

oh...that last thing with the drugs and wandering around alone reminded me of myself.
If she is reading this, no I do not care about drugs more than her and no I did not stop talking to everyone because of that.

Left me for absolutely nothing when I did everything I possibly could to make her happy.

So....you probably did the same to your ex for no reason...and he's wandering around just as misreble as I am

oh...that last thing with the drugs and wandering around alone reminded me of myself.
If she is reading this, no I do not care about drugs more than her and no I did not stop talking to everyone because of that.

Left me for absolutely nothing when I did everything I possibly could to make her happy.

So....you probably did the same to your ex for no reason...and he's wandering around just as misreble as I am

no...? I'm still trying to keep him. he just has some issues.

....ali?
dude
is that you?

She posted a picture... What is wrong with you?

I find it amusing that all the guys telling you how many nice guys there are, are also the ones flaming the hell out of you.

That's all.

I'm not going to "flame" you, but it's more like that one guy decided he liked drugs and himself more than other people. He told me he didn't want anything to do with people or me, but sadly, I still try to change his mind.

He wanders around by himself. it's quite depressing.

How do you try to change his mind? I thought he wouldn't talk to anyone? And did you ever make it clear that you liked him, or did you put your bf in a king sized throne around said person?

Short message: If you don't like him then just break up with him.

However, women do not want nice guys. If I act like a "nice guy" then I'll stay single for ages. I'm good looking and sociable, but it doesn't matter. College-aged girls want "excitement" and shit to bitch about. Guys who cause drama in their lives are somehow exciting. Go figure. That's all easy enough to do, but it's stupid and petty, and I care more about my classes and work than being a douchebag. Ergo, I'm single most of the time.

Think about your own behavior. Really spend some time alone and analyze yourself and your motives. If your guy is boring perhaps the the problem lies with you. If you have unrealistic expectations of a relationship then that's most likely the issue. If he's just a loser then end the relationship. But let me tell you that "nice" guys are everywhere. They're actually the majority. Most people in the world are kind and do care about others. It's a minority that are assholes. Remember that and you'll find better guys.

Oh, and you're not ugly or anything by any means, so just don't be desperate. Put yourself out there. Flirt with guys you want, and you'll learn a lot about people.

I apologize if this doesn't make sense, as I've been drinking. I hope it will be of some help, though.

Well that guy sounds kinda like me: smokin green, not really needing anyone and basically putting myself first...yea.

Can you define "nice guy" for us? because really, it could mean so many different things and thats where people get confused because guys think that they're "nice guys", the hear girls cry about not having "nice guys" and suddenly we've got someshit like "nice guys finish last".

I know you don't wanna hear it, but like alot of women I've known, you've probably left quite a few genuinely nice guys at home to beat off while you were out having fun with people who treat others like shit.

wassup you elephant nose ass bitch

Fanglekai is the truth.

Well usually nice guys are ugly, or gay.


EDIT: PS: Big nose.
PPS: Get some acne products.

Most nice guys are used to finishing last.

& op, I have no idea how to make a photobucket private, sorry.

How do you try to change his mind? I thought he wouldn't talk to anyone? And did you ever make it clear that you liked him, or did you put your bf in a king sized throne around said person?

I make it very clear that I still like him every day. He tells me he likes me...but he has crazy mood swings. He'll be nice then he'll be a dick. idk.
I don't understand the second thing you asked, but he is the only guy.

HAHA. see? these are the shallow piece of shit guys I don't like. They should not be posting in this thread.

Sorry I don't use photoshop and am secure enough with what I look like.

:)

And the big nose comment got old years ago. Have fun with your hand since you're too shallow to find a nice girl.

PS - you're shallow or 10 years old.
PPS - gtfo.

Most nice guys are used to finishing last.

& op, I have no idea how to make a photobucket private, sorry.

well I just deleted everything in it anyway. It was old.

I get some major lulz out of this thread, because it's the EXACT same situation I'm in down to every single fine detail. In fact it's scary...kinda makes me think you are her...of course your pix confirm that you are not. But um...well I did at one point care very deeply for this girl. And if she wasn't a retaded and disgusting slut I can guarntee you we would be together right now. Unfortunantly when you're told that someone thinks you got a bit of herp, and you don't get tested, then um I gotta say you're really really disgusting. As far as why I'm not talking to anyone...well you make it out to seem like he's only doing this because of you...if he was like me and my situation, then that would be very wrong. This girl no longer means shit to me, in fact she doesn't cross my mind day to day. Except for her annoying fucking messages...FUCK. But I'm busy, I'm not gonna waste my time on a classless slut the end.

Well your situation makes sense. Thing is, I'm as loyal as they come and not the least bit a slut. I want a guy who doesn't want a slut/multiple girls.

I don't know what else to say.

I'm as loyal as they come and not the least bit a slut.

Now I know you're not her. Thanks this makes me feel warm inside.

Well your situation makes sense. Thing is, I'm as loyal as they come and not the least bit a slut. I want a guy who doesn't want a slut/multiple girls.

I don't know what else to say.

Dime a dozen honey.

If you want a nice guy, you don't need to look far.

Women don't know what they want, but it sure as HELL isn't someone who's nice. Only someone interesting, unpredictable, exciting. I guarantee if this guy was everything you're trying to achieve in this thread, you'd drop his ass preeeetty quick.

Best talk to me if you want to know what to expect from the average male population. Sure as hell isn't nice, loyal, AND exciting though. Might be some out there, but having nice and exciting in the same qualification of a guy is basically asking for a perfect man. Consider yourself fucking lucky to find one, but we all know no one's that fortunate ;).

Well, pro tip here coming from a male in your exact situation...drugs...uncontrollable mood swings...isolation...etc etc...sounds to me like he desperately wants to tell you something, but can't. In my case, I wanted to go....hey you dirty bitch could you go down and take 20 minutes to go get ur vag checked to make sure you're not infected with any diseases that I'm pretty sure you in fact are infected with...but had I said that it wouldn't have mattered because she probbly would have slapped me in the face lol. But, now he's not talking to anyone...he feels like he's being silenced in some way, when he in fact knows what's going on there's probably something preventing him from telling you what he needs to say.