I'm really confused right now.

There's this girl. She's very very hot and I have almost no conversation with, and therefore I have never thought of her as a potential girl for me. This summer however, we went to the same concert...we went with our different group of friends but learned that we are both very hc fans of the band. That was in July. From July till now, we've had almost no contact except for a few short IM chats for a couple minutes at most twice or thrice.

Today I got the newest CD of the band and as I was listening to it, she popped up on my aim list which reminded me that she was a fan of the group so i messaged her telling her that I have the new cd. After teasing her a little bit, I sent her the ripped mp3's and she thanked me. An hour later, she messages me asking me if I like chocolate chip cookies. I say yes and she asks me where I live (which dorm on campus that is) and says that she'll try to bring me some cookies later in the night. About an hour later, she shows up at the dorm with a big plate of cookies, gives them to me and says she has a lot of work to do so she can't stay and leaves. She didn't even come into the room. The cookies have little hearts and XOXOX all over them.

So am I rightfully confused or what? Do y'all think she was just trying to be nice back or if she's telling me something. I honestly don't know whether to just eat the cookies or make some meaning of it.

Hmmm, it is possible she made more cookies and gave you just some of them. But maybe she wanted to be flirty and just did have a lot of work. Then again, maybe she just wants a friend. Ask her. What have you got to lose? You weren't exactly friends with her before. And if you ask her straight up it removes you from the friends circle straight away.

"Frankly you're doomed, you and all the shy people are. Natural selection favours the loud and the aggressive. I don't mean this in a bad way, but genetically you are...a cul-de-sac." - Dylan Moran.

Before you fuck it up any more, tell her you liked the cookies. Invite her over to your room, telling her to bring the music and you'll make the snacks. When she comes over, introduce Mr. Alcohol to the mix and you'll be set.

Well you got the choice(thats if you think something of her), to take it as a act of kindness and act like that, or take it as something more and roll with that route. Like if you think she likes you or has interest, take that path and walk up them steps to find out what the deal is otherwise just keep sitting here typing on TOTSE.....

What im saying is you can pull the answer out sooner instead of "letting time tell".

Ignore all of the lies above me, and listen to my reply only. More than likely she has slipped drugs in the cookies and has the plate bugged. As soon as you start munching on them morsels and she hears the profound *THUD* of your body falling unconscious to the floor.....she'll then break into your room and steal that CD from you. For the love of god, humanity, and your CD collection....DO NOT EAT THOSE COOKIES, whatever you do.

Paranoid much?

well she can break in and rape me too. i wouldn't mind at all.

hmmm but yeah..we are in our finals week so i'm not going to be making any moves any time soon.

YES, a man who thinks like I do.

But yeah, she's planning to use you for something that isn't sex, so eat the cookies, block her from chatting with you, and go on with life.

What band, out of interest?

God damn it, you made protien shake come out my nose. I hate you.

Daft Punk

DP is tight, what you mean with finals you cant do it anytime soon? Thats like saying, ooop shit its the 5th day of the month i cant drink/eat/piss cause its the 5th day. Putting excusable reasons why to pardon yourself from your duty.

YES, a man who thinks like I do.

But yeah, she's planning to use you for something that isn't sex, so eat the cookies, block her from chatting with you, and go on with life.

what the hell would she use me for? My first guess would be that she was just being nice. But i do fancy the though of her fancying me.

because well i've been kinda slacking off and i have a 4 days to figure out a quarter's worth of stuff

what the hell would she use me for? My first guess would be that she was just being nice. But i do fancy the though of her fancying me.

I don't know, man, but always assume there's more to it.

God damn it, you made protien shake come out my nose. I hate you.

That's called an Angry Dragon

...From July till now, we've had almost no contact except for a few short IM chats for a couple minutes at most twice or thrice...

She's not interested. If she was, why would she essentially not care if she talked to you or not for almost half a year? She doesn't give a damn, those are probably the cookies left over from last night when she gave them to a real man, who didn't give a shit and instead of eating them made this bitch eat his dick, so she decided to give the cookies to a mangina like you the next day.

She's not interested. If she was, why would she essentially not care if she talked to you or not for almost half a year? She doesn't give a damn, those are probably the cookies left over from last night when she gave them to a real man, who didn't give a shit and instead of eating them made this bitch eat his dick, so she decided to give the cookies to a mangina like you the next day.

this, sad though it may be.

Daft Punk

*loses interest*

She's not interested. If she was, why would she essentially not care if she talked to you or not for almost half a year? She doesn't give a damn, those are probably the cookies left over from last night when she gave them to a real man, who didn't give a shit and instead of eating them made this bitch eat his dick, so she decided to give the cookies to a mangina like you the next day.

wrong. the cookies were freshly baked and still warm. plus she said something about the kitchen being a mess and whatnot.

wrong. the cookies were freshly baked and still warm. plus she said something about the kitchen being a mess and whatnot.

Do you like her?

if YES -> Thank her for cookies, invite her over, play music, get high/drunk and fuck.

if NO -> Thank her for cookies, invite her over, play music, get high/drunk and you've made a friend who likes to bake for you. Enjoy.

She's not interested. If she was, why would she essentially not care if she talked to you or not for almost half a year? She doesn't give a damn, those are probably the cookies left over from last night when she gave them to a real man, who didn't give a shit and instead of eating them made this bitch eat his dick, so she decided to give the cookies to a mangina like you the next day.

Lol unless shes super desperate i doubt she would talk to him over that time off, its a matter of question of what each person is going through at the time. If you put yourself out to her and then stop contact, im sure you'll get a call/text from her after a few days or a week if you do work, otherwise why would she be thinking about him up until now when he talked to her? And usually they either blow up your phone talking to you or your barely hear at all from them over time.

Daft Punk

/me yells "DAFT PUNK IS PLAYING AT MY HOUSE, MY HOUSE!"

Lol unless shes super desperate i doubt she would talk to him over that time off, its a matter of question of what each person is going through at the time. If you put yourself out to her and then stop contact, im sure you'll get a call/text from her after a few days or a week if you do work, otherwise why would she be thinking about him up until now when he talked to her? And usually they either blow up your phone talking to you or your barely hear at all from them over time.

I am having a really hard time understanding what you're trying to say. please clarify.

*loses interest*

You are gayer than the gayest gay on the gayest planet of the gayest universe there is.

Alright on topic... why question what it is when you can just find out? Like somebody already said, you're just making excuses not to take a chance (not that I don't do that, but it's still not the best thing to do).

You don't have anything to lose, unless you somehow fuck it up so badly that you become the campus's laughstock.

You are gayer than the gayest gay on the gayest planet of the gayest universe there is.

u nailed it.

u nailed it.

Do you ever find yourself telling people around you that you are the brainwashaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrr?