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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-12-06, 06:53
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Default No feeling during sex?!

Uh, for the last 3 times I have had sex there is no feeling for me.

I feel discharge but no orgasm, no euphoria.

uhh this seems wrong? What can I do about it.

All times were sober.
 #2 
Old 2007-12-06, 06:56
shadowmartyr shadowmartyr is offline
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Yes there is something wrong..yea cumming =feel fucking great.
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Old 2007-12-06, 07:10
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Originally Posted by shadowmartyr
Yes there is something wrong..yea cumming =feel fucking great.


THANKS YOU FUCK but what can I do about it.
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Old 2007-12-06, 07:44
DogBoy DogBoy is offline
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THANKS YOU FUCK but what can I do about it.

See a fucking docter, for fucks sake, we are not medical professionals here.
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Old 2007-12-06, 07:51
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See a fucking docter, for fucks sake, we are not medical professionals here.

A doctor? Shut up.

Are these your first 3 times?
Stop jacking off so much.
Relax and enjoy it, dont try to force an orgasm.
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Old 2007-12-06, 08:08
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A doctor? Shut up.

Are these your first 3 times?
Stop jacking off so much.
Relax and enjoy it, dont try to force an orgasm.

20th or so time.

I didn't mastbate at all today.

I'm trying my best to not have an orgasm for as long as possible, def. don't want to force it.


Let me reword my question, has anyone had a similar experience to this, ever?
 #7 
Old 2007-12-06, 08:12
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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You must be pretty hung up ("Oy vey! My manhood! It ees lost it ees!) to not mention any other details: such as your drug use, both prescribed & non. Or to talk about your sexual activity at all.

Are you hiding that sex with your mom is not as good as it used to be?
 #8 
Old 2007-12-06, 08:28
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Default Re: No feeling during sex?!

If it continues then yes you should see a doctor.
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Old 2007-12-06, 10:05
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OH SNAP!
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details: such as your drug use, both prescribed & non.


This.
 #10 
Old 2007-12-06, 17:35
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I'm on Resperdol (sp?) and Lamictol for Bipolar disorder.

I stopped hard drugs (cocaine and ecstasy) 2 months ago.

I smoke pot through out the week, but last time was three days ago.

Their is sufficient foreplay...well ironically the last three times their was sufficiently MORE foreplay and thats when it happened (or didn't happen .. :()
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Old 2007-12-06, 17:42
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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Well? Have you read up on your meds?

Too much foreplay can lead to the numbing by bringing you too near to orgasmic inevitability too often that there is not much left. It can also, along with the sexxing take you back into the goodness.

There is always talking to Mr Doc.
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Old 2007-12-06, 17:51
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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Do your kegels to make orgasms powerfuller. ^^
 #13 
Old 2007-12-06, 18:29
zuperxtreme zuperxtreme is offline
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Get a new penis. Yours seems to be malfunctioning.
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Old 2007-12-06, 21:15
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Get a new penis. Yours seems to be malfunctioning.


Lol.

I've kegeled for like 2months, nothing good has come out of it.

It's important to smoke weed all day, right?

What the fuck will I tell my docter "LOLZ my p3n0r no tiene orgasm0?"

Thats awkward as fuck. My docter is a packistani w/ an accent, too...
 #15 
Old 2007-12-06, 22:16
suissemista suissemista is offline
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I used to take both Risperdal and Lamictal and both had quite a significant effect on my sex drive, I just wasn't that horny. How long have you been on the meds? Are you feeling sick or depressed?
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Old 2007-12-06, 23:48
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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=/ I've kegeled for a year and a half now.
Pays off in the long run my friend.
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Old 2007-12-07, 00:45
fat_people_suck fat_people_suck is offline
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maybe you're just not into it and are just fuckin for the sake of fuckin...
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Old 2007-12-07, 07:27
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Originally Posted by suissemista
I used to take both Risperdal and Lamictal and both had quite a significant effect on my sex drive, I just wasn't that horny. How long have you been on the meds? Are you feeling sick or depressed?


Sence I stopped taking cocaine...2 months? 3 months?

What did it do to you?

Oh, I have nice orgasms thru masterbation, so shouldn't I have 10x that in sex?

Tonight I had sex w/ my gf and it was a bit better...nothing like it should be. I feel like I'm putting in more effort for her then myself ha.
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Old 2007-12-07, 07:36
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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Oddly enough I lose most feeling in my penis during sex, or at least 'detail' so to speak. It sucks. No meds/etc. to account for it, and it only happens after 20-30 min or so, but it does every time. Feels like it's been numbed. :\

I'm willing to bet in your case it's the meds, though, a lot of antidepressants/similar do that sort of thing, find/read the complete side effects of your own, or google for similar cases.
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Old 2007-12-07, 17:31
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Another thing that I notice is I can't really feel discharge. I'll be fucking her, and then I'll think "did I just cum? nahh I don't think so.. didn't feel shit..didn't think I felt discharge..." but then I notice my dick going soft, so I squeeze it really hard untill I have no energy, and then I finish her off mutually instead of intercourse.
 
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