If you have any form of erection problems then your first port of call is a doctor NOT totse.

As the average age of male totseans is about 12, on a good day, the chances are that its nothing physical but rather nerves or a deeper psychological issue.

For example, my one bout of ED was due to the girl being black and my having been brought up in that twee racism that only the british middle class can do.

It might be that your constant use of un-words such as 'making out', 'bases' or 'V-card' has come back to haunt you.

Or it might simply be that subconciously you can sense she carries the mutated GINGER Gene and is therefore unsuitable as a partner and should never be allowed to spawn.

WHatever.

WE DO NOT DO MEDICAL THREADS.

The Ketch has spoken.

Be Pure
Be Vigilant
Behave

Ib4block... wait.. wtf!?

Seems some people really don't bother to read anything on the first page.

Or it might simply be that subconciously you can sense she carries the mutated GINGER Gene and is therefore unsuitable as a partner and should never be allowed to spawn.

You can always tell on that first kiss something isn't quite right. Thats when you have to run a mile in the opostie direction.

But a doctor won't do anything if it's psychological. Also, for most people it's likely just a bit of nervousness or something making them uptight, and doesn't warrant a trip to a sex therapist or something to that extremity. I don't see the problem with ED topics as long as they follow a certain protocol.

It's more a case of if someone posted a thread saying
"halp my penis wont work!" and totse responded saying "Is okay, it just you nervous!" and the poster went away happy, to die three months later of a vicious kind of prostrate cancer, that would suck alot.

We're not doctors here. We can help with the psychological side of things, but even then, a doctor will be better, and can help you find the support you need.
Generally if you have a sexual disorder,chances are you will want professional help for it, or should get professional help for it.

Yo, I think smoking is a HUGE problem to.

I posted a thread a while ago saying I was fucking embarrassed because my shit malfunctioned.

I stopped smoking about 14 days ago and have had no problems.. I'm amazed at how hard my dick actually gets now. Like when I was a smoker I had to squeeze to get it as hard as it usually is.

Is too much erection ever considered a problem?

Maintaining a raging boner while giving a speech at college may be fun, but what about delivering a eulogy at a funeral?

nvmnd

I see what you are getting at with all of this, and fully comprehend the grey area. My take.....just let it ride, and let the posts evolve however they may. I see what you are saying about "accountability" issues.....not wanting someone to just log off thinking they are fine, and then die in the future because they never sought legitimate medical advice from a REAL doctor.

Here's the deal though, we (the users) and you (a rep from Totse) aren't their parents. There was a disclaimer of "Totse not responsible" to check before regging....as well as the occasional disclaimer on certain boards echoing the same sentiments. More than anything though....lets examine the life/mindset of someone that would be posting on Totse and using the boards as their ONLY recourse for advice....especially medical. Most people have enough smarts to say to themselves....."ruh roh, something is wrong here". And if they are old enough to belly up to the keyboard and post on Totse....they sure as shit should have SOMEONE in their life who they have enough trust to talk about intimate things. Mom, dad, teacher, preacher, Uncle Joe, older friend......SOMEONE. Add to the fact, this is deh internetz....and it is so easy for someone surfing to Google "bumps on penis" or "cuts in labia"...or whatever other medical issues, then yes they should have PLENTY of sources to get REAL info and not just rely on Totse.

My whole point is this...... If a person has a concern for their medical issues, does NOT go to a doctor, is such a malcontent they haven't developed even one relationship in their life with someone they can trust to ask, and can't even take the time to Google or surf real answers, and is relying ONLY on the Totse posters as their "direction"......then whatever happens to them in the end, they completely deserve. Darwinism 101. Such an imbecile brought their own death, dick falling off, or whatever other malady. Ya can't hold their hands in every other nuance of life, nor put a bubble around them saving them from their stupidity.

As a mod, if you are a little uneasy about the direction of the thread.....you add the post of "as always we recommend going to a legitimate medical office for real advice, as the advice of strangers on the internet isn't always accurate"....or some other shit. Your job is done, and hopefully Jack sleeps well at night knowing you did all you could.

Pehaps the erectile challenges of said 12 year olds is due to we wiimin of totse not flashing our bits as often as was of old!

Bring back Sarc n Silky I say.

Yeah, I stopped smoking for 3 weeks back in 2004 and was amazed at how much harder my cock got and stayed.

...but I like smoking, so I'm prepared to settle for what was the norm.

Generally Docs won't do much or really consider much treatment for the under 30 set. I mean: if docs did help someone < 30? Wouldn't someone here at least know of a person < 30 who had been treated?

It's like sperm count: they won't even do that for the < 30's.

I don't think it hurts to mention the normal checklist of lifestyle questions. Diet/exercise/smoking/depth of feelings for partner.

So: someone tell if they know of an < 30 actually treated for ED. Even if it's only a decent mention somewhere on the web. Get right as you can with the checklist before/while waiting for the doctor's appt.

Hey what about dope?

Its hard to fuck on meth/cocaine, but to they have lasting effects like smoking did?

Even if I didn't smoke a cigarette in the past hour before I had sex it would still be deficient.

What? Dude, fucking on coke is one of the easiest things ever.

It's not just an 'hour' thing dude. Though cigs have an immediate effect, they also increase your blood pressure by constricting your blood vessels...like coke/uppers do.

The vein that put blood into your tool is only ONE mm in diameter.

But the immediate effect of cigs will dissipate after a few hours & continue to ebb with every hour that passes.

I don't see why you can't allow them - of course going to the doctor is always the first advice, but totse is here for sharing knowledge, and alturnative methods or advice/stories are always good to read and hear too.

By not letting people discuss it, it's as though you wont allow conversation on the topic - when in fact its quite a common issue concerning sex and affection.

Most stimulants, coke included, make it nearly impossible for me to have sex.

Do you use tobacco too?

The 'drugs' thing with stims is too true, both anecdotally & in scientific studies. Yet...it's more than just the vasoconstriction they cause. It's also a concentration thing too. As there are plenty of stories about decent thexxthin' on the various uppers or any other drug to boot.

I begin to agree and will be discussing it with yoyo and pyscho8b.

Maybe we'll have an Official 'Impotency' and an Official 'bumps on my cock' thread, with the necessary disclaimers.

I'm not totally convinced but there does seem to be a demand for such questions to be dealt with here.

Lol I have a bump on my cock. I thot I was the only one :)


Isn't ecstasy considered an "upper"? On that I last forever, I do not loose erections but I do notice that I loose track of what I'm doing.

MDMA is classified as a Schedule 1 hallucinogen in USA IIRC