your views on it and what you do


i have only cheated twice

the first time it was with my current GF who i was in love with at the time and my GF then i diddnt give a fuck about and she knew it

the second time i didd nt do anything serious, i never kissed her but she gave m a BJ



and what are your thoughts/experinces?

I've been through way too much shit because of cheating. Fuck it, in the long run it really isn't worth it.

I cheated on my girlfriend in her own house with her best friend once not too long ago. After that I made a thread about it.

Good times.

Wait what?

I'd like to be in an open relationship, as in we can have sex with other people occasionally. As long as we don't do anything stupid we don't have to worry about 'cheating'. It's really just sex. Not to big of a deal.

I've only fo-real cheated once I think. I was dating a chick at the time and I ended up hooking up with my ex-boyfriend, who was also her best friend. Also, she was sleeping right beside us the whole time.

But she was cool about it because I was honast about it. She even came to the Sexual Health Clinic the next day to get the morning after pill with me haha.

I've done it, alot. It's fun and hotter, as I'm sure you've heard me say.

But I'm in (somewhere between 1 and 3) open relationships now. Polyamoury ftw. More honesty, but also more headaches... I'd say its all in all better though.

...how are you not able to count the number of relationships your in?

i have only cheated twice


ONLY?

Fair enough, in first instance it sounded like you had an open relationship dealie going on.


I am very much against cheating. Very much against it.

If a guy I'm going out with realises he wants to fuck other girls, that's fine, that's his decision, but it would be selfish and evil to do that shit, hide it from me and expect that to be allright.



Generally if you want to 'cheat' on someone does that not basically mean you're not satisfied enough in the relationship you have with who you'd cheat on?
In that case, is there any point to keeping the relationship and lying anyway?

ONLY?

Fair enough, in first instance it sounded like you had an open relationship dealie going on.


I am very much against cheating. Very much against it.

If a guy I'm going out with realises he wants to fuck other girls, that's fine, that's his decision, but it would be selfish and evil to do that shit, hide it from me and expect that to be allright.



Generally if you want to 'cheat' on someone does that not basically mean you're not satisfied enough in the relationship you have with who you'd cheat on?
In that case, is there any point to keeping the relationship and lying anyway?

haha jesus i love your opinions on this topic yoyo.

the problem as ive said before, and that really throws me off, is that it's more public when its happening in an unhappy relationship and thats fair game in my book. but honestly it happens in so many happy relationships too as a "fling" and thats what i cant get my head around.

rule of thumb is, girls cheat up(more attractive guy), and guys cheat around(anyone who meets the requirements). youve just got to be really fuckin choosey when it comes to this, and even that doesnt cut it half the time.

haha jesus i love your opinions on this topic yoyo.

the problem as ive said before, and that really throws me off, is that it's more public when its happening in an unhappy relationship. but honestly it happens in so many happy relationships too as a "fling".

rule of thumb is, girls cheat up(more attractive guy), and guys cheat around(anyone who meets the requirements). youve just got to be really fuckin choosey when it comes to this, and even that doesnt cut it.

All good points.
I guess it's hard for me to see it from another perspective because having been cheated on, I just felt stupid and used.


It's not something I could see myself doing, it would hurt the guy I'm dating when he found out, it would possibly hurt the guy I actually cheated with, and hurting all those people just for a bit of sexual satisfaction would make me feel like shit.

But I guess I can understand people wanting to cheat if they're in some form of very committed relationship that they dont want to end, but need something new and exciting.