A girl I like gets hit on a LOT, and she rejects them all. She even tells me of guys that have tried and who they were and how they failed etc etc. She doesn't think much of these people.

There is a reason she just so happens to tell me such things and I want your opinion even though obviously you don't know the girl and what she thinks. 1 or 2 or present another possibility. Please.

She tells me because

1. She is telling me "don't come onto me because I will not think much of you anymore"

or

2. "You're better than these people, try me and get what the others didn't"

Start testing the attraction. See if she's really in to you. Touching. Close contact. Intimate conversations. See what result you get from simply touching her arm when you talk with her. See how she reacts, and you can plan your attack accordingly.

I'm sick of these replies haha, I've never 'touched her arm' before, if I did she'd ask what the fuck I was doing whether she likes me or not, it's not what I or we do. Plan my attack afterwards? How would one attack after a shot down? The generic replies S&A has been having as of late don't impress.

If you can't answer it we'll put a wager what are the odds for 1...and 2?

Wow, you're great at answering your own questions. Why even post this?

You're shot down, move to END. Grow some balls kiddo and learn how to read girls.

I wasn't having a go at you or myself.

But seeing you took it like that...

Reading girls huh? Well its down to just this and your advice happened to be generic crap everyone here says when they have no clue? Well done pat yourself on the back, a true credit to the totse community.

Do you understand why it's the "generic response?" It's because it's what people have found to work. I believe it's called common sense.

Her telling you that makes you her emotional tampon. Lol.

y dont u just fuck her i would

'lawlz'

Where in my post did I say I was after her? Answer the question you fucks :p

'lawlz'

Where in my post did I say I was after her? Answer the question you fucks :p

A girl I like

Now STFU and GTFO of my Totse.

The reason your answers "suck" is because your question sucks and you suck as well. You are just like one of her girlfriends she is chatty to....."Omgz, can you believe HE actually hit on me". Next she'll be asking you if her shoes go with her earrings. HAHAHAHAH! So she either thinks your gay, or has you forever in the "friend" category.....and at that point, what is the difference between the two? Either way she looks at your penis as nothing more than something you pee with.....and certainly nothing that will ever interest her. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

Now STFU and GTFO of my Totse.

The reason your answers "suck" is because your question sucks and you suck as well. You are just like one of her girlfriends she is chatty to....."Omgz, can you believe HE actually hit on me". Next she'll be asking you if her shoes go with her earrings. HAHAHAHAH! So she either thinks your gay, or has you forever in the "friend" category.....and at that point, what is the difference between the two? Either way she looks at your penis as nothing more than something you pee with.....and certainly nothing that will ever interest her. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

Like her...as a friend?? Perhaps even *gasp* like a sister. I don't want to jump every girl that's going.

If this was your totse I would be gone like that but you're an insignificant so I'll stay and you might want to consider fucking off because you're a dumb cunt.

Heh, your sister is confiding in you and you think she wants to fuck you.

There is already a sister fucking thread.

Are you fucks indicative of the state of totse or is it just recess at the special childrens school or something?

/No sister
/Not funny
/Fail on your part

You ask a fuckin' stupid question and then cry because you get fuckin' stupid answers...

I don't know why the fuck people even post if they've got nothing to say.

@Trousersnake: You're her mate, suck it up man. If she sleeps with you* it will only be by mistake. I'm assuming here, even though an assumption is a dangerous mode of thought, that by the way you state your situation you're not worried at all about getting laid. Maybe it's so easy it's no problem, or maybe you don't care. Either way it's of no consequence, the way I see your affairs.

So as for seeking a meaningful relationship.. ..once again mate, suck it up. Nothing wrong with trying, but some 'av realised that it's too rare of a thing to be set as a short term goal. My current relationship is pretty shallow, or at least for how much capacity for depth I believe I have. I am a motherfucking woman though, so we're all different.
Keep looking man, just fool around in the meantime.. ...fool around & fool yourself. It's only what all of us can do.

*I used this term instead of fuck specifically for the meaning behind it of a short mostly sexual attraction based relationship as opposed to strict friends with benefits. I don't see chance, with her, for the meaningful relationship you *might* be seeking. You could probably fuck her but it will msot likely be regrettable.

EDIT: Totse sure is going down the shithole when I am giving the best relationship advice in a thread.

Flirt with her subtly, then back off

Regardless of what her intent is what she's doing is telling you exactly what not to do in terms of hitting on her. Chances are she's sick of lame guys who 'spit game' and 'read women,' and who are blatantly just trying to get in her pants. When she's telling you that stuff listen closely, because whether or not she thinks of you as just a friend right now, she's giving the ability to turn that around.

There's also a possibility that she's insecure, and talking about all the guys that want her is an ego boost. Personally, there are times when my boyfriend gets a little complacent and stops paying as much attention to me, and I know its shady but I'll mention a compliment a guy on the bus gave me, or a guy who hit on me and how lame it was etc. to let him know that I have options. So she might just be subconsciously trying to affirm her attractiveness and appear desirable.

secret is to not care about getting shot down.

ya dood.

She's telling you she's a fucking bitch. Who cares why? Get the hell away.

Edit: Wait, I misread the post and thought she was telling the guys themselves what they did wrong. That would be a bitch move. If she's just telling you, that's just slightly conceited rather than outright bitchy. Anyway, if you're not trying to fuck her, why do you care?

Trousersnake, I always thought dudes were more your thing?

There isn't always a because. Not everything has a considered reason. Sometimes it's simply conversation; telling you what has happened that she found entertaining and of interest.

She's a slut. Tap it while you can.

I love all the Totse d-bags. Props to you Trousersnake.

and 'read women,'


As a girl I find it very interesting that you don't understand this concept very well. I can break it down for you with some simple characters that we all should know. Mr. Homer Simpson has absolutely no ability to read Marge. None. In real life, that relationship would be dead right after Bart was born.

Reading women is an attempt to see how they tick. How they work. 99 times out of 100, it can only be an attempt without proper communication.

p.s. The jealousy games you play with your boyfriend are a joke. Just more proof of the female insanity and completely backwards way of handling personal deficits.

Fucken Bump goes here.

p.s. The jealousy games you play with your boyfriend are a joke. Just more proof of the female insanity and completely backwards way of handling personal deficits.

Hey, I know it's not necessarily the best way to deal with things, but you can't just be like "Hey you! Pay attention to me! I'm hot, remember?" All I'm doing is letting him know that I have options, and if he slacks off on maintaining the relationship I'm not stuck with him or anything. If you knew that you could have someone indefinitely you probably wouldn't want them anyways, you want to feel like you've won them, like they could have anyone else but they chose you. It's not crazy, it's keeping the ball rolling.

Hey, I know it's not necessarily the best way to deal with things, but you can't just be like "Hey you! Pay attention to me! I'm hot, remember?" All I'm doing is letting him know that I have options, and if he slacks off on maintaining the relationship I'm not stuck with him or anything. If you knew that you could have someone indefinitely you probably wouldn't want them anyways, you want to feel like you've won them, like they could have anyone else but they chose you. It's not crazy, it's keeping the ball rolling.

And I'm sure you believe this. Do what you're gonna do. But don't try to think it's healthy behavior in a positive nurturing relationship.

Hey, I know it's not necessarily the best way to deal with things, but you can't just be like "Hey you! Pay attention to me! I'm hot, remember?" All I'm doing is letting him know that I have options, and if he slacks off on maintaining the relationship I'm not stuck with him or anything. If you knew that you could have someone indefinitely you probably wouldn't want them anyways, you want to feel like you've won them, like they could have anyone else but they chose you. It's not crazy, it's keeping the ball rolling.

You did admit yourself you think it is shady.
Plus you are trying to make him jealous.
Hardly a good thing.

OP only one way to find out isn't there. You gotta ask her. Could be either.

I'm sick of these replies haha, I've never 'touched her arm' before, if I did she'd ask what the fuck I was doing whether she likes me or not, it's not what I or we do. Plan my attack afterwards? How would one attack after a shot down? The generic replies S&A has been having as of late don't impress.

If you can't answer it we'll put a wager what are the odds for 1...and 2?


I'm sick of these replies


If you like her then why the fuck haven't you touched her at least lightly yet? What are you waiting for? Christmas?


Just call her over and tell her you have a secret
Then get real close to her ear and say "Wait you have to promise me you won't tell anybody"
Then make her pinky promise and drag it out for a really long time
Then just tell her a lame secret like "Hi"

If she likes you she'll laugh or think it's cute
If she doesn't she'll go "What the fuck?"

EDIT: She could also be just showing off

I'm sick of these replies haha, I've never 'touched her arm' before, if I did she'd ask what the fuck I was doing whether she likes me or not, it's not what I or we do. Plan my attack afterwards? How would one attack after a shot down? The generic replies S&A has been having as of late don't impress.

If you can't answer it we'll put a wager what are the odds for 1...and 2?

you're a douche bag go fuck yourself son

Are you fucks indicative of the state of totse or is it just recess at the special childrens school or something?

/No sister
/Not funny
/Fail on your part


hey trousersnake, fuck off. go fucking solve your own problems you little cunt.

hey trousersnake, fuck off. go fucking solve your own problems you little cunt.

Blumpkin me.

Blumpkin me.

you come in here asking a question that you know is "pointless". and then get your panties in a bunch when you get pointless answers to a pointless question.

you dont "like" the girl, yet you say you do, so what the fuck do you want from her? to reach a new spiritual plateau of understanding between you two? shes conceited to start with if shes even telling you about these, let alone mentioning them in the tone you indicated. and if you like her as a "friend/sister" why the fuck do you give a shit in the first place. unless shes making a blatant pass at you and you dont feel it, it has little significance to your friendship. and if you want her just fucking go for it, reading signs isnt going to help you much at the end of the day. no one really sees a point to this post because you really didnt define one, so get off your fucking high chair and go criticize some other forum you fuck.

if you post garbage, be prepared to get garbage...its pretty fuckin simple.

you come in here asking a question that you know is "pointless". and then get your panties in a bunch when you get pointless answers to a pointless question.

you dont "like" the girl, yet you say you do, so what the fuck do you want from her? to reach a new spiritual plateau of understanding between you two? shes conceited to start with if shes even telling you about these, let alone mentioning them in the tone you indicated. and if you like her as a "friend/sister" why the fuck do you give a shit in the first place. unless shes making a blatant pass at you and you dont feel it, it has little significance to your friendship. and if you want her just fucking go for it, reading signs isnt going to help you much at the end of the day. no one really sees a point to this post because you really didnt define one, so get off your fucking high chair and go criticize some other forum you fuck.

if you post garbage, be prepared to get garbage...its pretty fuckin simple.

Blumpkin doesn't mean to continue posting your shit....haha 'shit'

Blumpkin doesn't mean to continue posting your shit....haha 'shit'

blumpkin also isnt a verb you silly fuck.

I'm sick of these replies
Just call her over and tell her you have a secret
Then get real close to her ear and say "Wait you have to promise me you won't tell anybody"
Then make her pinky promise and drag it out for a really long time
Then just tell her a lame secret like "Hi"

If she likes you she'll laugh or think it's cute
If she doesn't she'll go "What the fuck?"

EDIT: She could also be just showing off


Not the best idea. My girlfriend is crazy about me and if I did some dumb shit like that she'd say "What the fuck?" for sure. Because really, what the fuck kind of retard would do that?

LOL just come on lightly from the opposite way of those who failed. Some girls that ive been with have heard the usual woah ur hawt, ur sexy and all that jazz but whos the one getting the attention over them. ME cause im not like the rest of the fucks.

Remember that, stay out of the norm(now dont go fucking crazy opposite) and youll see some insane results cause girls will feel a serious attraction/force.

Now STFU and GTFO of my Totse.

The reason your answers "suck" is because your question sucks and you suck as well. You are just like one of her girlfriends she is chatty to....."Omgz, can you believe HE actually hit on me". Next she'll be asking you if her shoes go with her earrings. HAHAHAHAH! So she either thinks your gay, or has you forever in the "friend" category.....and at that point, what is the difference between the two? Either way she looks at your penis as nothing more than something you pee with.....and certainly nothing that will ever interest her. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

Supreme Pawnage.

/thread

PCup1...also you're a failure

Supreme Pawnage.

/thread

I totally got burnt there didn't I...someone get me some aloe vera to ease the pain.