shit why does this shit always happen to me? ok i need help. i have ED im 16 and i have a very sexual GF in a open relationship who is bi with 2 also very sexual bi friends and even with all 3 of them naked fooling around I CANT GET A FULL ERECTION! so i dont want drugs. even if i dont jack off fo a full week a cant get a full boner when i need it. so are there like any foods and anything i can do so i can get a boner when i need one?

Are you gay?

It's in your head. Calm down, try to not think about it. While that penis is floppy, use your face. It will take time after time to get that thought out of your head.

It's more common than you think. Why don't you work your skills up with her, gain some confidence, and then try them all on for size.

LOL.....poor OP. He woke up one morning realizing a full blown orgy is actually possible/obligatory with his gal.....and he is SCARED SHITLESS! Just learn to suck cock real well......from what you described, that'll really turn her on if nothing else.

Beyond that, without pics.....this thread is useless.

i have tried that and it takes an unusal amount of time to get a full erection(if i happen to get one) and this diddnt start happening til about 2 weeks ago, before then i was a normal teenager with rock hard boners at even the though of a female

Why don't you try fucking one at a time? I can imagine there'd be a lot less pressure.

Face it your subconcious is homosexual and is craving dick!

By the way man, don't feel bad. I'd have to be pretty drunk to not have anxiety about being with three girls too bad to get it up. But the thing is, man, erectile dysfunction affects a lot of guys. I've got it. My friends have gotten it. We're only like 19. I haven't had it lately, but when i was seventeen up until when i had been 19 a few months I would get it sproadically for periods.

I've been having the SAME SHIT. Same age and everything. It fucking sucks really.

It's probably nothing physiological; you are just nervous as fuck. You know how they say nobody gets a boner at a nudist colony because they are scared to death it's gonna happen?

Yeah.

edit: by which I mean I wouldn't call it ED. Don't diagnose yourself with things.

just get shitfaced.

Dude, if three hot girls were trying to fuck me, I would probably try to slip out of the room calmly and then maybe watch from afar. That shit would be kind of scary. Given, I'm a girl, so I would have a bit of anxiety about being compared to good looking naked girls (I would not look as good as them), but I think some principles might hold here. It makes sense that you would be freaked out and have trouble getting a boner. Try a more intimate setting with just you and the girlfriend and try to notice if you're intimidated by her. If you're not, but you still can't get wood, maybe consider that there's something wrong. When you jack off, do you have trouble getting it up? If so, you might want to hit up a doctor, rather than totse, for advice.

Man the same shit happens to me. Unless I'm like animal horny and ready to fuck the next thing that moves then it can be hard for me to get it up sometimes. It feels like I'm pressured sometimes and I don't know why.


Advice:

Do you do drugs?
Dont. (I'm still working on that one.)

Do you work out?
Do it. Become more alive.

Do you eat somewhat healthy?
Do it.

Get enough sleep?
That helps.

Are you a stressed out person in general? Are you depressed? Just try to work on becoming a healthier person mentally and physically and you'll be shooting loads on every bitch in the room.

Hope all goes well.

nah i dont do any drugs and eat fairly healthy, that weird thing is that ive been in a sitiuayion like this with the same girls and i was fine, but that wasnt actual sex or anything just maing out and shit, what im tryting to do is not jack off untill the nect time isee all of em so im hory as shit and am ready to fuck the next thing with an asshole that walks by im hoping that works

Usually works for me. You'll cum a lot quicker but hey at least you got it up right?

used to happen to me alot when i first started fucking around, once u get it into your head that you are a good fuck and can perform for any woman, cock block never comes back.....

=> doctor

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