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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-12-02, 00:18 |
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 My girlfriend wont have sex with me
We've been dating for almost a year now and before about a month ago we were having sex just about every day. Well lately I haven't been able to see her much because I'm working and she's working and we both are just busy people so whenever we do get to hang out (lately about 3 times a week) she doesn't wanna fuck.
This shit's driving me nuts. I talked to her about it the other day and she said something like "well since I don't see you as much anymore I like just cuddling and not having to worry about sex" and I replied "were you ever 'worrying' about sex in the first place?" and she'll just not say anything. She just keeps giving me bullshit answers like that.
I'm pretty sure she's not cheating on me. But it's so weird because she really is (or was) a god damn nympho. She couldn't get enough sex. Anywhere we went, and now she just seems completely uninterested.
Any similar experiences, thoughts, observations, advice?
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#2
2007-12-02, 00:21 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
My guess is, a month ago you two were hanging out a lot, and were having sex. Well, now with you both working, the hanging out has been eliminated, as well as the sex. Ever thought maybe she just wants to spend quality time with you, without having to put out every single time you hang out? She probably wants a relationship that isn't built on the foundation of sex.
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2007-12-02, 00:28 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by woopsueypigs77
My guess is, a month ago you two were hanging out a lot, and were having sex. Well, now with you both working, the hanging out has been eliminated, as well as the sex. Ever thought maybe she just wants to spend quality time with you, without having to put out every single time you hang out? She probably wants a relationship that isn't built on the foundation of sex.
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Of course I've thought about that and both of us have talked about that too. Believe me, I completely understand wanting to just spend quality time and hanging out time and all that, but cutting sex out of the picture completely is just stupid. I feel like sex is something that shows your love and desire for someone in much better ways than just sitting there with them staring at the TV or something. |
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#4
2007-12-02, 00:30 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
I feel like sex is something that shows your love and desire for someone in much better ways than just sitting there with them staring at the TV or something.
It is. Having sex is WAY better quality time than anything.
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#5
2007-12-02, 00:41 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
The writing is really on the wall man. Unless you want to become a glorified cuddle buddy.
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2007-12-02, 00:45 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
The writing is really on the wall man. Unless you want to become a glorified cuddle buddy.
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Yeah fuck that. Maybe I'll just rape her.:D |
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#7
2007-12-02, 00:47 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
It is. Having sex is WAY better quality time than anything.
Having sex during quality time is great, too! You snuggle for awhile, then go at it, then snuggle some more.
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#8
2007-12-02, 00:50 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Hey man that sucks.
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#9
2007-12-02, 00:54 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Having sex during quality time is great, too! You snuggle for awhile, then go at it, then snuggle some more.
Exactly! I told her exactly that but, like a woman, she didn't listen.
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#10
2007-12-02, 02:03 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Just hang out a few more times and act completely uninterested in sex. Just hang out with her and have a good time. After 2 or 3 of those I'm sure you'll get your willy wet.
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#11
2007-12-02, 03:31 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
I'm pretty sure she's not cheating on me.
You positive?
Then in that case she's onto you.
-F☺rd
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#12
2007-12-02, 04:03 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Often girls don't want to be sexual unless there is a strong emotional connection and can't have sex unless they feel very secure with the emotional aspects of a relationship. She probably feels that since she's not seeing you often she would prefer to spend your time together feeling connected and having warm-and-fuzzy type experiences.
I can totally see why you would be frustrated (in more ways than one). I've had a similar experience with my boyfriend. We didn't see one another often so when we did he would want to go out for dinner and watch movies and stuff and I'd be like "uh...did I get fat or something? Looove me!"
Its the kind of thing that you have to work on a bit. You pretty much have to make her want it bad. Seduce the hell out of her. But don't be pushy and you'll be doing the lewd infusion in no time.
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2007-12-02, 04:35 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by SomeLowLife
Just hang out a few more times and act completely uninterested in sex. Just hang out with her and have a good time. After 2 or 3 of those I'm sure you'll get your willy wet.
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck: Often girls don't want to be sexual unless there is a strong emotional connection and can't have sex unless they feel very secure with the emotional aspects of a relationship. She probably feels that since she's not seeing you often she would prefer to spend your time together feeling connected and having warm-and-fuzzy type experiences.
I can totally see why you would be frustrated (in more ways than one). I've had a similar experience with my boyfriend. We didn't see one another often so when we did he would want to go out for dinner and watch movies and stuff and I'd be like "uh...did I get fat or something? Looove me!"
Its the kind of thing that you have to work on a bit. You pretty much have to make her want it bad. Seduce the hell out of her. But don't be pushy and you'll be doing the lewd infusion in no time.
Both of these posts give opposite advice. I guess I'll try both. |
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#14
2007-12-02, 05:01 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Ditch the bitch.
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#15
2007-12-02, 05:11 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
You aren't turning her on anymore.
Start talking to other girls, lose interest in this one.
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#16
2007-12-02, 05:18 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by voodoonirvana
We've been dating for almost a year now and before about a month ago we were having sex just about every day. Well lately I haven't been able to see her much because I'm working and she's working and we both are just busy people so whenever we do get to hang out (lately about 3 times a week) she doesn't wanna fuck.
This shit's driving me nuts. I talked to her about it the other day and she said something like "well since I don't see you as much anymore I like just cuddling and not having to worry about sex" and I replied "were you ever 'worrying' about sex in the first place?" and she'll just not say anything. She just keeps giving me bullshit answers like that.
I'm pretty sure she's not cheating on me. But it's so weird because she really is (or was) a god damn nympho. She couldn't get enough sex. Anywhere we went, and now she just seems completely uninterested.
Any similar experiences, thoughts, observations, advice?
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She's probably fucking someone else. Look into it. Communicate your issues, and if she still resists, it's time to find the next one. |
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#17
2007-12-02, 06:10 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Explain to her that since she is no longer fufilling sexual needs you are going to add another female to your harem.
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#18
2007-12-02, 07:31 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
"Are you getting bored with sex? because i can show you what i learned today from that girl at work..."
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#19
2007-12-02, 08:44 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
One of her stupid bitch friends told her she was putting out for you too much, so she's stopped altogether.
Or she's screwing some other guy. One of the two.
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#20
2007-12-02, 12:57 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
My girlfriend and I haven't fucked in a fortnight!
Damn childbirth, spoiling my sex life...:p
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#21
2007-12-02, 16:30 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
One of her stupid bitch friends told her she was putting out for you too much, so she's stopped altogether.
On the same note, don't date girls with single/ugly/fat friends.
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#22
2007-12-02, 17:24 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
On the same note, don't date girls with friends.
Fuckin fixed.
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2007-12-02, 19:27 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by rabbitweed
Explain to her that since she is no longer fufilling sexual needs you are going to add another female to your harem.
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Haha she might go for that one. No but I wish. Theres actually 2 or 3 other wenches I could go get drunk with right now or something and get laid but I don't feel like cheating, I'd rather just dump her. But I'm also not looking to do that either because we have one of those strange emotional bonds that keeps us together even we dont really like each other a lot of the time. |
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#24
2007-12-03, 01:43 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
Maybe she's fucking around with one of her girlfriends. lol.
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#25
2007-12-03, 02:36 |
niggar hater
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
ive made this graph just for you
http://i4.tinypic.com/86ir69t.jpg
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#26
2007-12-03, 04:54 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by niggar hater
ive made this graph just for you
http://i4.tinypic.com/86ir69t.jpg
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Oh my God, I almost died laughing. Did you actually make that? |
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#27
2007-12-03, 06:02 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by niggar hater
ive made this graph just for you
http://i4.tinypic.com/86ir69t.jpg
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Fucking win. |
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#28
2007-12-03, 07:38 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
If she won't have sex with you, you have sex with her. It's that simple.
Lol @ graph, 99 problems lol.
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#29
2007-12-03, 20:48 |
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Re: My girlfriend wont have sex with me
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Originally Posted by Numberjumbo
If she won't have sex with you, you have sex with her. It's that simple.
Lol @ graph, 99 problems lol.
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Yeah. Rape is definitely always an option. I'll consider it. She might like it anyway. |
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