Okay so I'm having a weird problem: If my girlfriend tries to get me hard, I get a boner, but it's not rock hard and of sex quality.

But if I touch her, go down on her, caress her, I get a sex boner.

Wtf? Can some one explain whats going on here? Why do I only get hard enough after I do things to her body, and not her to me?

Things to clarify: Straight and very very attracted to her.

inb4lulz

You get turned on by making her feel good.

Yup. The thought you have of making her feel good makes you feel good..

;9225069']Yup. The thought you have of making her feel good makes you feel good..

Nice contribution, Diane.

But seriously, Arquin. How is that a problem? So you gotta feel her up a bit first. That doesn't sound like too much to ask.

For whatever reason it's hard for me to get it fully hard if I dont stroke it myself a few times...I know thats weird. But then I'm good to go you know. Either that or have her suck me off for a lil until it gets hard. But she doesnt like doing that so idk.

It shows that you personally, your boner is controlled by more mental than physical stimuli.

This is what I thought, but it seems very feminine.

Nice contribution, Diane.

But seriously, Arquin. How is that a problem? So you gotta feel her up a bit first. That doesn't sound like too much to ask.

It's a problem because she gets kind of weird about it. Snappy. I can understand why. It's like...if I were unable to get my girlfriend wet.

:( Meh. I like the mental stimuli answer. End thread?

I'm kinda the same way.

I'm quite the same way. She can do all she wants to me, but one little moan from her will help me more than anything she can do physically.

You just get turned on different from others..Everone is different so dont be down on yourself..

Brokedick.

Foreplay: Your best friend.

Girls aren't the only ones who enjoy it.

You gots the gay.