I'm pretty sure everyone has had that one girl (or guy depending) that for some reason they just cant stop thinking about, every spare second you have your thinking about them and they just infiltrate everything you do and no matter what you try you cant escape it.

I may sound like a lovestruck 12 year old now but fact of the matter is i havn't actually felt like this since i pretty much was 12 which when looking back was too long a time ago.

Anyway onto the point of the thread, i recently met a girl a couple weekends ago, we got chatting, mucked around just general sillines and we went for a swim at the beach in the wee hours of the morning, i was rather very drunk from earlier, pretty confident she had had a few aswell. Now from what i could tell this woman was an absolute stunner (bearing in mind it was dark and i was drunk and had to make my assumptions based on feel rather then sight). Now i recently came in contact with her and she is even better looking then i thaught, weve chatted a little bit, mainly small talk etc etc..

However there is always the drawbacks, she lives like an hours drive away (fully expecting quotes from people about how far and long they've travelled for their better halves) and doesnt seem interested in a realtionship PLUS i cant actually see her falling for me as she is such a hottie and i'm not one of those super goodloooking stylish guys whatever. But all i do is think about how much i wana be with her, i dont feel like eating/sleeping/doing anything its bloody terrible, the more i think about her the more i want her and the more i want her the worse i feel because i dont have her. Everyones been through this i know but as i said earlier its been such a long time its totally running my life.

Ok so this thread doesnt have much point to it, i guess i just wanted to share with totse my story and get some experiences from other people, if you got that girl/guy or how you dealt with this ridiculas obsession with them.

Cheers for reading it if you did, not the greatest story im sure.

I'm going to laugh if you see her again and she's really ugly. That's happened to me before.

I met a guy at a party once, and underneath the strobe/black lights, he seemed pretty hot, and we seemed to have a lot in common, so we exchanged numbers.

We talked for a couple of weeks, and he was kind of annoying because he was so clingy, like he would call me and text message me every day, even though I had only met him once, and he would agree with everything I said, no matter what it was. Well, we decided to go to the movies, and he was really ugly when I actually saw him in the daylight. I stopped talking to him around August or September, but he kept calling me and text messaging me until New Year's.

If he hadn't been so annoying, I probably would have given him a chance, even though he was kind of ugly, but I couldn't deal with a guy that was both annoying and ugly.

Lol. I met a girl when I was on acid once and at the time she seemed just beautiful. The perfect example of the female form. She happened to make the rest of my trip quite exquisite. Then another time I was kicking it with my buddies and we decided to call up some girls, so I call her up and she comes over. Oh man! It was... It was bad. I mean judging by the looks of her I had evidently been tripping much harder then I thought I was. It was pretty funny though, looking back.

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I'm pretty sure everyone has had that one girl (or guy depending) that for some reason they just cant stop thinking about, every spare second you have your thinking about them and they just infiltrate everything you do and no matter what you try you cant escape it.


Yea I've had that happen before...unfortunately. Except for me it's just in general. I don't even have to know the damn girl. I think it was once I was pulling into this restaurant with some friends. And as we were going in the door this girl and some of her friends walked out. This may sound extremely corny but just when she looked at me and I looked into her eyes it's like time stopped for a split second and everything just halted...its like you know if you only had the chance to talk to her a bit you'd hit it off and click like that.

I can't get her image out of my head at all, mainly her eyes. And it completely blows dick because I know I will probably never see her again..damn she was gorgeous.

So yes I agree, it is gay...

It's in the past, but there was this one girl... I remember she went to my middle school, and she was always really quiet and pretty chubby. Then she started going to a private school and i completely forgot she existed. I saw her at driving school, and she looked a lot better (apparently she had started doig coke and being anorexic, which I didn't know at that point). Didn't really think much of it, 'cuz there was some other girl I wanted to get with (but didn't). I hadn't gotten any action in like a year, and in the summer I went on this mission trip to honduras (i'm not religious), and she was on it as well (she's not religious either). Being two of maybe four kids on the trip who smoked weed, we started hanging out and really bonding. I fell so hard in love with her, spent most of the rest of that summer hanging out with her and started talking her all the time on the phone and im, and during the school we always hung out on weekends. Apparently she thought i was gay for three months. She turned me down a couple times. Finally, I crashed my car into a ravine after plowing through a stone wall as I'd been on my way to her house. I called her first, and we ended up going skiing that night. There was a definite tension...

Anyways, stuff happened, she eventually fell out of love with me and I broke up with her. But there's nothing like the magic htat was there in the beginning and tension that led up to it. Would I go back to that? Yeah, I'd give anything. But the past is the past.