Im always in these positions, either with my parents, or a friend or w/e, always someone around.

But the other night i went to this girls house, and i knew what was going to go down(cause we vibe each other pretty well) but lo and behold her roomate is there. So i think of that as a block, that i cannot do what i want to do(of course im not there to fuck her) But i managed to put forth what i could do get close, cuddle, physical contact and shit. But it made me feel sooo ackward with her roomate sitting 7 feet away, almost like a restrictor plate on my game/actions. I was soooo pissed cause i had soo many chances to press it, but i didnt cause i felt it would be a disgraceful move on my part demonstrating to her and to her roomate that thats all im there for, is for a fuck and that i dont like her. And with her roomate on the spot she could read back to the girl i was with later like a checklist/summary of what went down. Also may i note her roomate of hers is her best friend also.(female)

Idk wtf, what couldve been done. And its not like i was there just to get some but i wanted to show that i had that vibe for her,but instead it just fizzled out. Overall she got the idea though. It just pisses me off with situations like these. Itd be like wanting to fuck your GF in the living room with ur parents watching TV...LOL

Why didn't you just go in the bedroom?

good idea but her roomate is a fucking nosey bitch..i was trying to fix her labtop ..which was in her room..and no sooner then i laid down to mess with it..guess who came walking in??

I'm suprised the stupid bitch didnt get the idea that you wanted some time with your girl.
Probably an intentional cockblock. Probably she was lonely.

You did good, it's allways a smart idea not to alienate the friends of someone you want to screw.

You said you weren't there to fuck her, whats the problem?

If you cant even cuddle someone with others around, then you must have some serious privacy issues.

I would have just gone in the bedroom and did my thing. If the roomate still knocks/enters/bothers you, just tell her to come in and let her find out the hard way.

well both these girls are foreign and they were speaking about 70% of the time in their language btwn each other....and the roomate kept fronting pics of guys, shes trying too hook up with...which imho she wouldnt have a chance unless she can use the old school girly, sweet talking method cause shes sort of chubby and fat.

I managed to converse and even joke on her too a bit just to put in the good word with me with her roomate that is. Theres more to it then what ive said which makes leaves me wondering. But next time there will be to add to the story.

any other comments?

Lock the door next time?

I went there knowing that was in order, or could happen...and i was up right next to the girl..arms on and everything with her roomate on the other couch in plain view. But you cant be like hey excuse me roomate im going to fuck this guy upstairs dont mind the moans and the loud hits against the wall..

Just fuck it ill have this shit taken care of, i was just pissed cause i knew her dumb ass would be there chirping down on what i could do.

I went there knowing that was in order, or could happen...and i was up right next to the girl..arms on and everything with her roomate on the other couch in plain view. But you cant be like hey excuse me roomate im going to fuck this guy upstairs dont mind the moans and the loud hits against the wall..

Just fuck it ill have this shit taken care of, i was just pissed cause i knew her dumb ass would be there chirping down on what i could do.

No, you two go to the room and keep it quiet. Duh.

If it's really that big of a deal, turn the radio or TV on. Again, duh.

. But you cant be like hey excuse me roomate im going to fuck this guy upstairs dont mind the moans and the loud hits against the wall..


Why the fuck not? I was with my ex in her dorm plenty of times, and many a night we woke to the awkward expressions of her roomates. There were 4 to a suite there. Who cares?

How old are you, anyways? How can you still be that uncomfortable with people knowing you're having sex?

It was the 1st time i ever actually been with this girl..outside of school. Going there and fucking her right then and there suggests thats all i wanted from her, and with her chubbs roomate, if we wouldve went up stairs and got into it i would have not cared one damn bit, ida gave her a camera to fucking film the shit even.

It was just a bad run. Plus you could tell the girl i was after was nervous, she was acting goofy, it was funny but hot actually....so she probably was confused on what path to take to.

So basically, you didn't want to fuck her. Had no intention of fucking her. And yet...you're pissed off because her roomate interfered with you fucking her.

Good thread.

Yes indeed, fucked me good.

rep -1 hahah

Like whats his face said, it was like her roomate was being a block, i was told she wasnt going to be there, but apparatently that wasnt the case. And i mean come the fuck on, if your 1 on 1 guy and girl dont you want to have that alone privacy? I mean i shouldnt have to cut corners to make it happen or go out of my way for shit...bulshit And plus there was no fuck to begin with with her roomy there. unless her chub ass was to join in.

I've been in this situation before. Offer some cash to the friend to leave the room for 1/2 hour or so. In my scenario, the hottie sneaked me into her house while her friend was sleeping over. Her parents were out for the evening, but the uncle was downstairs since he lived there. So I asked the friend to leave for a just a few minutes, and told her straight out it was because I wanted to give my girl the best oral of her life. She hesitated with the whine of...."But I'd be bored, and you 2 would be having all the fun". After I offered her $10 to leave us alone, she took the cash and distracted the uncle for us. And yeah, this was either the first or second time of hooking up with the hottie.....so the "newness" of the relationship is no excuse.

hahah nice thing that pisses me off, on the other hand the roomate made my girl leave the premises so she could be alone with some fuck one time...so next time...im making that happen in my situation. Cause i hinted to her at the fact that i didnt care for her roomate, with the way she treated me...so she probably knows how i feel.

1) sure you coulda. I was atop my gf last night, pulling her shirt off, no sex, but still an enjoyable time. My apartment mate was on the couch, watching us, typing up a report on Poe.

2) Yes you can. I've said "Sorry guys, we have to go snog" and gone back to the bedroom with a girl, locked the door, and done whatever I felt like.

and 3) If you have to be quiet cause you're on a bunk and theres someone asleep below you, that's just fun. Not for every time, but as an occasional.

If you are shy, just say "We have to go cuddle now. Or I'll die." and go jump in bed with her. Blankets are your friend(s).

True that, but this was the longest time ive been around her in person, adding to our actual talk time. In person ive only talked to her no lie...no more than 4 minutes tops..then all of a sudden hey im at her house(not showing off) had to recap a bit.

She just told me, as i was asking her about it, if i told her to boot her roomate she wouldve..i love this girl...gives me decisions now that its too late

I dont understand what the fuck your deal is, a roomy is not a parent... who gives a flying fuck? If the girl feels you like you feel her FUCKING TELL HER what the deal is. Clearly she wants you to.

/delete topic please, we're good