right ok so 2 girls, we'll call them 1 and 2. both are interested. on friday, i watched a couple of dvds and cuddled with 1, to the point where she fell asleep on me, and she says she really wanted to kiss me but was too shy. ill admit i was the same. 2 i havnt known that long and havnt met face to face, just over msn. im stalling asking out number 1 because im meeting 2 on friday and im gonna make a decision on which one i like more. so is this like cheating? a mate says its a blessing from god, but it sure doesnt feel like one.

It's not being very straightforward. The fact that you're feeling bad about it tells you something.

You're just not committing to anything yet, it's a perfectly honest move in my opinion.

If you committed yourself to 1 however and then went to see if 2 was better, that'd be wrong of course.

its more of an ethical thing aswell. i know that 1 likes me alot more and would be more hurt if i didnt decide on her, but i dont wanna go with her just because of that. cos it'd just make things possibly worse in the long run.

That is a good thing. However, why doesn't the girl that cares about you know about this girl you talk to on MSN?

she'd be hurt. and after doing some thinking im gonna go with 1. not because of what i said before, but because i enjoyed being with her, and thats all that matters. thanks for the help though.