[I said V-card to piss off jakketch:D]

anyways

In the long run, it won't make a lick of difference.

I waited till it was a girl I knew/felt comfortable with. It was a big deal to me at the time. Looking back, I could care less.

Why do you put so much thought into such a small thing?! It is only sex, it will happen at some point.

You not think it will be more fun if it is completly unexpected?

My first time was with a girl I was friends with. We'd done things before, but she kind of bugged me a little. Anyway it ended up being awesome. I suggest doing it for the first time with somebody you're close with, because it's most likely going to be awkward at some point, and that's no fun.

Idk, I

Idk, I''d like to lose it to someone who has 'some' importance to me at all instead of a girl whom I've never met. But I'm at a point in my life where I take it as it comes. So I will probably plan it all out and then wing it instead.

and btw, are you still a virgin if you've done everything but splode?

5char

Sex isn't that special or complicated, dogs can do it.

just fucking do it.

Virginity is completely meaningless nowadays. To hold off for "someone special" is completely outdated and pointless.

There will be absolutely no benefit in waiting... You will only lose out on potential fucking time.

And don't listen to any girl who says she wants a virgin. That is the same kind of chick who is taking in a dozen cocks a week because she's hooked on the asshole types who basically just want her for sex.

Every time I thought about my boyfriend fucking some drunk chick I couldn't kiss him or hold his hand or any of that shit.

I wouldn't write a guy off because he's not a virgin, but I'd still feel a little bad giving myself away and not getting anything back.

Every time I thought about my boyfriend fucking some drunk chick I couldn't kiss him or hold his hand or any of that shit.

That's why you don't think about it...

It's not very complicated.

[I said V-card to piss off jakketch:D]

anyways, for all of you fellas who think that girls don't really care if your a virgin or not, I disagree.

Well like I said before in my previous thread I was broke up with after 2.5 years and its been 2 months since then, I'm 16. There's the quick recap.

There's this girl who I wanna get 'lucky' with from my school. She is cool, we're both single and whatnot. There's this girl who I met through a friend. She's from another school and is 2 years younger than me, but knows how to have fun. I'd like not to lose my virginity to a girl whom I don't really know, but I wanna lose it soon.

If I don't get 'lucky' at my party then I've got a decision to make.

Do I go ahead and do the girl from another school, or do I wait a bit till I lose it to a person that means more to me?

Losing your card isnt that big of a deal.. like I remember for the next few days I would stare at the self in the mirror and feel real proud... but that goes away quickly.

You realize that it isn't as big as the media/people at your shcool portray it. I lost myne 3 months ago and I don't feel better then non-virgins.

I'm glad my experience was w/ someone I love instead of some random meth whore.

I'm gonna go against what most people are saying and say wait.

Granted, losing your virginity isn't the biggest thing in the world, but do you really want to look back on it and not even be able to remember the girl's name?

Wait until you find someone who you actually like and who likes you.

Wait wait wait...you were with your ex for 2.5 years and you didn't get some lovin'? What the fuck?

In the long run, it won't make a lick of difference.



This. You'll most likely forget the girl's name in 5 years, so who cares? Rock out brosky.

she..

I'm glad my experience was w/ someone I love instead of some random meth whore.

I'm sure many would feel comforted to fuck a complete stranger over a meth whore...

OP: As far as your situation goes, I wouldn't wait. If I were in your position I would fuck the girl two years younger, she's likely less experienced than the older girl, and I imagine that would be a less awkward situation.

Then, after you've had some practice playing the fields go for the other girl your age and continue working yourself up. Of course, you want to keep your opportunities open, so keep her on the sidelines.

Honestly, I believe you're over thinking this entirely too much, my suggestion is just natural reaction.

she believed in saving herself, but we did it but not to a splosion.

Putting your penis into a vagina = sex. Is this the right time for the birds and the bees...?

I'm off for the night, i'll be back tomorrow.

she believed in saving herself, but we did it but not to a splosion.

Where the fuck do girls like this come from? Saving herself... Denial is b-e-a-utiful. Sex is sex; who gives a shit?

Where the fuck do girls like this come from? Saving herself... Denial is b-e-a-utiful. Sex is sex; who gives a shit?

idk, she's a straightedge too, so that wasn't workin out so well. I'll be back in about 8 hours or so.

Lol, I used to worry about being a virgin, too. I wanted to make sure I lost it to another virgin, so they couldn't compare me to anybody. LOL. Damn teen movies, back then.
'Course I was too fuckin' young, and it didn't matter the fuck anyway.
But all the "popular" people were always talking about sex and dating, and I was an ugly, insecure, nerdy fuck, back then.
I'd seen a couple of them, when they moved (for Uni) to the town I'd moved to, and saw how ugly/fat they'd turned, and it gave the nerdy guy inside me a smile.

she believed in saving herself, but we did it but not to a splosion.

First off, if you want to use the big-boy S&A board, you have to use big-boy words. That includes sex, ejaculation, penis, vagina, and virginity.

If you don't follow these rules I will be forced to hunt you down and kill you. And no, I'm not joking.

When you say "splosion" it makes me realize you're only 8 and the reason you think you are still a virgin is because you're asleep when your dad walks into your room later at night.

Seriously son, man the fuck up. And having sex is described as intercourse of the penis into the vagina. Having sex until the male orgasms is the act of ejaculation, but otherwise it's still sex. Albeit really, really, really stupid and bad sex.

Seriously son, man the fuck up. And having sex is described as intercourse of the penis into the vagina. Having sex until the male orgasms is the act of ejaculation, but otherwise it's still sex. Albeit really, really, really stupid and bad sex.

I havent heard it described like that since fifth grade. Nowadays, it's perfectly acceptable to use words like dick/cunt/cock/pussy, and yes...even cum/come.

And I havent tested this theory, but I firmly believe its impossible to get laid if you use the term 'intercourse'. And even if you could, I'd still feel a little ashamed.

I havent heard it described like that since fifth grade. Nowadays, it's perfectly acceptable to use words like dick/cunt/cock/pussy, and yes...even cum/come.

And I havent tested this theory, but I firmly believe its impossible to get laid if you use the term 'intercourse'. And even if you could, I'd still feel a little ashamed.

I was kidding. But if you can't use those words then you shouldn't be having sex. When you're with your friend go ahead and use euphemisms like "v-card" that's your business. Your friends are probably equally immature and will believe you.

But don't talk about sex on a grown up message board with terms like "splosion". It reaffirms my belief that you are 12. There's the correct way to say it "sex, vagina, etc" and there's the correct way to slang "dick, pussy, etc" if you feel too dirty saying either of these 2 sets of words, find yourself another hobby, like pokemon cards.

First off, if you want to use the big-boy S&A board, you have to use big-boy words. That includes sex, ejaculation, penis, vagina, and virginity.

If you don't follow these rules I will be forced to hunt you down and kill you. And no, I'm not joking.

When you say "splosion" it makes me realize you're only 8 and the reason you think you are still a virgin is because you're asleep when your dad walks into your room later at night.

Seriously son, man the fuck up. And having sex is described as intercourse of the penis into the vagina. Having sex until the male orgasms is the act of ejaculation, but otherwise it's still sex. Albeit really, really, really stupid and bad sex.

it's a message board, get a fucken life.

But don't talk about sex on a grown up message board with terms like "splosion". It reaffirms my belief that you are 12. There's the correct way to say it "sex, vagina, etc" and there's the correct way to slang "dick, pussy, etc" if you feel too dirty saying either of these 2 sets of words, find yourself another hobby, like pokemon cards.

The only reason I bothered losing my virginity is because the local MTG scene went dead :\

I lost my virginity to a Bulgarian hooker. Looking back on it, it was a fun night.

Haha, how much did she cost?

off topic, ur my age right?

Haha, how much did she cost?

off topic, ur my age right?

25 euro. Plus I got a free line of cocaine (which she insisted I snort off her ass). Yes I am your age, but I was 15 at the time.

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That's pretty hardcore gettin with a hooker as a 15 yr old.

+1 if she was hot.

Update

It's been long lost now

it makes me realize you're only 8

You obviously haven't seen his "jackass" videos in IFIOTW.

8 years old is a bit too high of an estimate, I'd put him more at 5.

I was 15 and drunk as hell when I lost mine. It doesn't matter. It really doesn't. I remember waking up the next morning and being like 'huh, so I'm not a virgin any more. I thought it was supposed to be special or something.'

I lost mine "the special way" and it still wasn't special.

All in all, a waste of good sex time I could've been having.

This.

I'm 18 and I lost my virginity about three weeks ago. After having sex with my girlfriend for the first time I expected to feel different in some way but I feel exactly the same now as I did days, weeks or months before I had had sex.
Everyone hypes up losing your virginity as this big, life-changing experience but the only change is that you can now tell your buddies about how great your girlfriend says you are in bed.
Not that I'm complaining about losing my virginity, I'm just saying that it's pointless waiting. You'll feel no different afterwards.

I lost mine "the special way" and it still wasn't special.

All in all, a waste of good sex time I could've been having.

Out of curiosity, what is the special way? I don't know what I imagined it would be when I was still a virgin. Probably something along the lines of going to some romantic getaway with my borfriend of 3 years and making passionate love between satin sheets. I doubt it's ever happened like that in the history of virginities.

See, you have that ideal or you have mine. I've had sex with five girls, all of them meaningless.. I still feel hopeless. I'd give up sex with the ton of girls I could be shagging after nights out in a club for a girl I actually enjoy the company of and like a lot.

Out of curiosity, what is the special way? I don't know what I imagined it would be when I was still a virgin. Probably something along the lines of going to some romantic getaway with my borfriend of 3 years and making passionate love between satin sheets. I doubt it's ever happened like that in the history of virginities.

We waited a month (special or not, I was a horny fuck), it wasn't anything special really, just a lot of foreplay, and a date beforehand.

Sad part is I learned women would rather be bent over a desk and fucked raw than "taking it slow" and all that shit.

Live and learn..

Mhh I dunno I kinda wished I'd made more of an occasion of it. I knew it would be shit and it was pointless to make a big deal of it but it wasn't even memorable or nothing.

I just thought after you're liek every other girl now, a whore. Then it hit me all girls are whores and i felt a lot better.

First off, if you want to use the big-boy S&A board, you have to use big-boy words. That includes sex, ejaculation, penis, vagina, and virginity.

If you don't follow these rules I will be forced to hunt you down and kill you. And no, I'm not joking.

When you say "splosion" it makes me realize you're only 8 and the reason you think you are still a virgin is because you're asleep when your dad walks into your room later at night.

Seriously son, man the fuck up. And having sex is described as intercourse of the penis into the vagina. Having sex until the male orgasms is the act of ejaculation, but otherwise it's still sex. Albeit really, really, really stupid and bad sex.

Shut up you ponce, it was funny leave him alone and stop being an Internet tough guy ffs

The last part on this was funny :)

You obviously haven't seen his "jackass" videos in IFIOTW.

8 years old is a bit too high of an estimate, I'd put him more at 5.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/gullible

;)

Shut up you ponce, it was funny leave him alone and stop being an Internet tough guy ffs

Wow...I so don't remember writing that.

Not that I disagree now, but I can taste how drunk I must've been.

Wow...I so don't remember writing that.

Not that I disagree now, but I can taste how drunk I must've been.

loL

The only reason I've waited so long is because I've had several close friends end up pregnant and one of them even got an STD. It's a scary thing and I really want to make sure I can 'trust' whoever I choose to engage in sexual activity with first, and always. Plus, I'm still considerably young and I don't support the promiscuity of American youth today.

Wow...I so don't remember writing that.

Not that I disagree now, but I can taste how drunk I must've been.

LOL i remember when i was like 9 and used this kinda excuse all the fucking time, like ohh man i was soo bombed haha im cool i drink

LOL i remember when i was like 9 and used this kinda excuse all the fucking time, like ohh man i was soo bombed haha im cool i drink

You just wanted to bring up yourself drinking by age 9...