(I had the voice of Roger from Dawn of the Dead in my head as I thought of that title; lulz)

not to masturbate this week. I find that my "drive" to hook up with girls is really low. Like, I want to, but when I'm at a party or bar I just don't have enough motivation and can't be fucked (pun intended) to start flirting with anyone. I generally fap on a daily basis, but I think/hope if I let this build up for a week, I'll start to find myself more active.

What do you guys think? Anyone had a similar problem?

Meh, doesn't make a difference for me. It's just stupid if you ask me. A lot of people I know who are successful with women (I'd like to say myself as well) masturbate quite often. Relieves stress and feels good. Just don't do it in communal showers (Rescue Me reference)

And who was Peter again, the black guy, right? I know there's the pregnant chick, Flyboy, the white dude and token.

I meant Roger, not Peter.

And I'm not talking about skill with women, I'm talking about motivation and energy to do so.

I meant Roger, not Peter.

And I'm not talking about skill with women, I'm talking about motivation and energy to do so.

Well I work out almost every day and blowing a load doesn't seem to interfere with that. What you really gotta watch out for is weed. For me weed brings on the lazies for a couple of days afterward.

I find the 3rd day after masturbating to be the optimal day. Your interest in wenches is at it's max, but you don't yet have these thoughts of "Wtf am I wasting my time talking to this gal, when I could be fapping RIGHT NOW!"

Basically, I suppose you need to change your mentality from day 1, say to yourself that you're not allowed to cum if it's not with a girl, and go for it.

Actually, set your target to be a threesome, the cool kind. Then, even if you underachieve, you still win.

Otherwise you'll just keep making excuses ("oh, I'm not scared or shy or anything, I just lack motivation because I masturbated 2 days ago").

You think 3 days is best? I was considering that too, like I should go once on Tuesday night and then hold off until the weekend (getting with a girl or fapping on Sunday and starting over).

What do you guys think?
I think you're going to end up having sex with an ugly/fat girl.

I think you're going to end up having sex with an ugly girl.

If buttsex and a good body are involved, this is acceptable.

If buttsex and a good body are involved, this is acceptable.
If that's what you're after, I imagine you'd have better luck in a gay bar.

If that's what you're after, I imagine you'd have better luck in a gay bar.

Shut the fuck up.

If that's what you're after, I imagine you'd have better luck in a gay bar.

lulz good one.

But yeah, try to stop fapping for fun and start fapping only when it the need gets REALLY bad, and see what your cycle is.

Mine's 3-4 days. The longer I go without fap, the shorter my next cycle becomes.

The most important thing it seems is not to let your balls drain. As long as there's at least 1 full load there at all times, your motivation will be fine.

Oh yeah, and don't fap in the mornings.

Buddy, when I was 17-20, I was jacking off about 5 times a day...And in that 3 year period, I got laid more times than I can remember!

Jacking off doesn't kill motivation...You just don't have the motivation to do anything about not getting any!

Just wondering...if you're masturbating 5 times a day, how do you find time to...you know...do other things?

That's gotta be a good 30-60 minutes of your day at least.

1) What?

2) Shut the fuck up?

Just wondering...if you're masturbating 5 times a day, how do you find time to...you know...do other things?

That's gotta be a good 30-60 minutes of your day at least.

17 to 19, I was unemployed. Had fuck all to do other than sit on TOTSE, play games, play guitar, go out drinking...And whatever time in between those activities was happy-hand time!
Then I'd go over to see whoever I was with at the time and bang the arse off her.
And repeat!

19 and 20, I was working and it did sorta drop to about 3 times a day most days...But a lot of the time it was still 5. I just get bored. I'll be sitting here and all of a sudden, BAM, I gotta do something about the trouser tent. So out comes the porno and I sort myself out!

Basically what I'm saying is, there's always, always time for a wank! :D

Nowadays it's when I get bored enough...Got a load of hobbies and a new girlfriend so......