Some of you folks may recognise my handle here from a few years ago. Anyway, I married my girlfriend of the past 4yrs. on July 28th. Everything was going fine until about Oct 25th, her birthday. She started hanging out with theses shithead, loser motherfuckers who don't do anything but getted fucked up all the time. She's been gone about a month now and I'm over alot of the initial anger and depression and just general hurt.

I really wish I would have done something really fucked up to her to deserve this, but I didn't do jack except love her and take care of her the best I could. One thing that really sucks is she doesn't really seem to be hurting over this. I'm sitting here fucking broke because she ran off with all the bill money. The gas to my house got cut off so I didn't have heat for 2 days until I decided to cut it back on myself. I told her this and she laughed at me.

Man, bitches are fucked up. Anyway, just wanted to bellyache to a bunch of strangers.....

If she stole bill money from you could you not get her arrested?


Anyhew, she'll suffer. She may seem laughy and confident now, but one day soon she's going to wake up and realise just what a stupid cunt she is and what she threw away. Then she'll snivvel like a little bitch and possibly come running back to you.

Anyhew, she'll suffer. She may seem laughy and confident now, but one day soon she's going to wake up and realise just what a stupid cunt she is and what she threw away. Then she'll snivvel like a little bitch and surely come running back to you.fixed

I can't do anything about the bill money. You really can't say "Oh,my wife stole it." since the money belonged to both of us.

Yeah, yoyo. One of my revenge fantasies is running into her in public in a couple years and I'm looking all fly and shit driving a nice bike and saying "Hey, babe. This is what you gave up when you walked out on me." while she looks like shit. I don't know it just boggles my mind how someone could throw away their life especially when things were getting better all the time.

What are your ages, and now long were you two living together before you got married?

I don't know it just boggles my mind how someone could throw away their life especially when things were getting better all the time.It's crazy isn't it? A few of my family members and some childhood friends are like that. I guess some people just don't want that in life.

Fuck, that is awful.

Not think it was better now than 5 years down the line though(i know that might not be a comfort just now)? Imagine yourself in a couple of years, maybe with a new girl, a better life. You will be glad you are not with her.

Immature cunt bitch. Leaving someone after 3 months of marriage is bad enough, but acting like a child about it, is just plain immature.

You're better off mate, at least you got 4 years of consistent sex, amirite?

If I were you I'd tell chick you're a widower (since she should be dead to you). They'll fall for it, and you're back in the game :)

Okay, lawyer time. You're completely in your legal rights here while she isn't. This loss is your gain.

Fuck bitches, man. It's a motto to live by.

Dude that sucks. But karma is a bitch and it will come for her.

If she stole bill money from you could you not get her arrested?


Anyhew, she'll suffer. She may seem laughy and confident now, but one day soon she's going to wake up and realise just what a stupid cunt she is and what she threw away. Then she'll snivvel like a little bitch and possibly come running back to you.


And thats when you get a chance to tell her "go fuck yourself you little skank, i can pimp u on the street for 90 10 if u want, slut"

There was like a 6 year age difference between us. I met her when she was 17 and I was 23. There's a very good chance that that age difference played into this. Thing is, she was the one pushing for marriage. I gave her plenty of opportunities to bail before the marriage.

yeah dude she is at party age.

every woman goes through this phase of wanting to be a little whore.

EVERY WOMAN.

some can't hide it as well as others and it gets the best of them. This is what i call a WHORE.

I married

That's where you fucked up. You should have known better than to go and get married.

You man up, tool up and get over there. Put the twats on crutches and her over your knee.

Karma's a bitch. Let that bring you peace.

(But it's gonna take some time.)

Thing is, the marriage thing was her idea. That's what's throwing me for a loop.
The good thing about being in such a long relationship is I've earned my blackbelt in sex-fu. I got moves that'll put john holmes to shame. Now i just need someone to spar with.... I've had enough "practice" the last month.

Thing is, the marriage thing was her idea. That's what's throwing me for a loop.

And that's supposed to make a difference?

Women don't know what they want. One minute they'll want something, the next they'll want something completely different. They're too fickle and indecisive for long term relationships.

That's why I just keep a harem of underage foreign prostitutes in my basement.

That sucks BAD dude. I'm sorry.

But a few things to consider: You're young as fuck, you didn't waste much of your life (or any, if you count the sexual practice), you are more wary of the ways of the female, and you have a free pass to go nuts for a little while.

Don't let it get you down on all women, personally I would wait a few years.

then again, I'll just never get married somehow.

Now the only thing left to do, is remember that if/when she comes crawling back to you, you have to tell her to fuck off, and have a big smile on your face when you do it

I'm not going to get down on women. Well, I'm going to get my dick down in women...

I came in here to be mean. I read the story and now I won't.

Rape-Murder/Suicide

Look at the bright side, at least you don't have to pay child support.

Then she'll snivvel like a little bitch and possibly come running back to you.

Make sure you proceed to turn her down, and laugh at her.

EDIT:
I came in here to be mean. I read the story and now I won't.

Lol. I love TotSE.

Jack, did you even read this thread?

His wife treats him like shit, steals his money then runs away from him.

Why should the guy risk a conviction, a serious ass kicking, or if he's unlucky, both, for a girl like that?

Never married her but my ex started fucking me about over her birthday this year (June) and started hanging around with a bunch of shithead loser motherfuckers! And went and got fucked up all the time.

All I did was love her and try to take care of her.

Find your bitch...Strangle her...Toss the body in the sea...Come meet me for a beer and a game of pool.

Fucking users...I hate women like that.

And that's supposed to make a difference?

Women don't know what they want. One minute they'll want something, the next they'll want something completely different. They're too fickle and indecisive for long term relationships.

That's why I just keep a harem of underage foreign prostitutes in my basement.

I want to get married.
But I only want to get married to someone I can trust to be loyal, non shitty, respectfull and loving.
There's no point getting married to a guy who I cant actually trust not to hook up with the first pretty bitch who sits on his lap when he goes to a club.

If that makes me fickle and indecisive..then I guess you're right!

Damn me for wanting genuine love and respect in a relationship!

But I only want to get married to someone I can trust to be loyal, non shitty, respectfull and loving.

Omigod, me too! We should so meet up!

But it would have to be before my wife gets home from work... and after I drop the kids off at school...
Hmm... this could take some planning, and time...
But, uh, yeah, I'm totally for the whole trust and loyalty thing -- deep relationship, all that.
Should I bring condoms, or are you on the pill?

I want to get married.
But I only want to get married to someone I can trust to be loyal, non shitty, respectfull and loving.
There's no point getting married to a guy who I cant actually trust not to hook up with the first pretty bitch who sits on his lap when he goes to a club.

If that makes me fickle and indecisive..then I guess you're right!

Damn me for wanting genuine love and respect in a relationship!

Makes you cooshdy as far as I can tell mate.

Unless you're like every other woman who will get pissed off, find someone else and take your husband for all he's worth and not let him see his kids.

Then I'll hate you and hunt you.

I want to get married.
But I only want to get married to someone I can trust to be loyal, non shitty, respectfull and loving.
There's no point getting married to a guy who I cant actually trust not to hook up with the first pretty bitch who sits on his lap when he goes to a club.

If that makes me fickle and indecisive..then I guess you're right!

Damn me for wanting genuine love and respect in a relationship!

Yeah but where did the OP do any of this? He apparantly did nothing wrong. He was with the girl for FOUR YEARS. I'm sure that's ample time to get to know each others intentions.

So why did this happen to him?

His girlfriend showed no signs of fickleness or indecisiveness during those four years, I'm sure it's safe to assume, otherwise the OP would not have proposed to her in the first place.

His girlfriend showed no signs of fickleness or indecisiveness during those four years, I'm sure it's safe to assume, otherwise the OP would not have proposed to her in the first place.

Nope...She shows the signs of the stereotypical woman who just wants to run off with your money and fuck someone else.

My mum did it to my dad...I've had it done to me.....

I don't hate women...Just don't trust them as far as I can throw them.

I don't hate women...Just don't trust them as far as I can throw them.

That's pretty much how it is for me too.

I mean, sometimes I can get a bit riled up when I hear stories like this. But overall, I'm not actually a bitter cynic all the time.

But I'll have a hard time ever being able to fully trust any woman after seeing some of the stuff they'll do...

Make sure you try and get our marriage anulled (sp?) if you still can.

Last thing you want is for her to come back in the future with a lawyer.

Also, after such a long relationship, you're bound to have nude pictures/videos of her :p

Make sure you try and get our marriage anulled (sp?) if you still can.

"Our marriage"?

Are you saying that you're the evil bitch responsible for all this!?

:p

I'm sitting here fucking broke because she ran off with all the bill money. The gas to my house got cut off so I didn't have heat for 2 days until I decided to cut it back on myself. I told her this and she laughed at me.

Anyway, just wanted to bellyache to a bunch of strangers.....

We are not all strange, just different.

First, you should get down on your knees and thank the good lord that this happened to you in like three months, not eighteen years. I am not at all familiar with the laws of (Texas?), but I am pretty sure that you are going to be entitled to keep pretty much everything you brought into the relationship. Okay, that is talking about material and financial issues, not at all with the emotional shit you are dealing with, but which you also say you have pretty much come to terms with. (myself believing you are more in denial than acceptance)

I have no intention of turning this into my own personal B/M post, so I 'll make it brief:

You had your heat turned off and lost your utility bill payments 'stolen' by a bitch who tricked you into marrying her. I do indeed truly sympathise with you. But trust me, it could have been much, much worse. I know, it was for me.

For eighteen years of marriage I gave her everything she wanted: clothes, cars, horses, jewelry... you name it. She gave me shit. So now comes divorce time and she lived in 'our' house with me paying all the bills, while I lived on an air mattress on the floor of my office for six months. Come time to sign the final papers and she walks away with nearly $0.5 M and I keep the house, the bills and wind up bankrupt less than a year later.

But look at me now! I am smiling, happy and carefree.

Who is in denial now???

Good thing is, we have nothing together. Everything is in my name. I really don't make alot of money, so half of nothing is still nothing.

Here's the current situation. She called me up at almost midnight last night saying she wants to come back home and she misses me and all that B.S. Of course, I'm passed out in bed so I can get before the sun rises to go to work. She says pick me up at 6:30 p.m. so she can come over and talk about things. Honestly, I don't want her back, I just want to hit those skins one last time(grudge fuck. I want to here her explaination too as to why she did it). She calls me at 6:15 p.m. to tell me she's dying her hair. Here it is 8:30 p.m. no call, no show... Shows how much she really misses me, huh?

We are not all strange, just different.

First, you should get down on your knees and thank the good lord that this happened to you in like three months, not eighteen years. I am not at all familiar with the laws of (Texas?), but I am pretty sure that you are going to be entitled to keep pretty much everything you brought into the relationship. Okay, that is talking about material and financial issues, not at all with the emotional shit you are dealing with, but which you also say you have pretty much come to terms with. (myself believing you are more in denial than acceptance)

I have no intention of turning this into my own personal B/M post, so I 'll make it brief:

You had your heat turned off and lost your utility bill payments 'stolen' by a bitch who tricked you into marrying her. I do indeed truly sympathise with you. But trust me, it could have been much, much worse. I know, it was for me.

For eighteen years of marriage I gave her everything she wanted: clothes, cars, horses, jewelry... you name it. She gave me shit. So now comes divorce time and she lived in 'our' house with me paying all the bills, while I lived on an air mattress on the floor of my office for six months. Come time to sign the final papers and she walks away with nearly $0.5 M and I keep the house, the bills and wind up bankrupt less than a year later.

But look at me now! I am smiling, happy and carefree.

Who is in denial now???

Yeah, it could be alot worse. I'm getting off relatively light compared to most men. I'm starting to realize why so many men say that a woman wouldn't be worth anything if they didn't have a pussy. I'm trying not to be bitter, but goddamn it's so fuckin' hard. I'm starting to lose respect for women.