well i just found a girl and we hit it off pretty will. we like all of the same things, shes realy cool, you know just the perfect woman. but then while having sex she told me to spank her HARD. that was cool then she told me to tie her up and choke her. i was like WTF. im not used to this type of thing. i dont know how to take this. i did some resource on this and i dont want my nuts and dick tied and stepped on. what the hell do i do? its cool to watch it on the web but in realy life...i dont know. i dont want a broom stick shoved up my ass while im tied down to the bed. but the thing is i cant just break up with her. i still want to be with her.

It sounds like she wants to be dominated, not that she wants to dominate you. What's the problem?

She sounds submissive, so she probably won't want to beat the shit out of you or anything. Don't be too weirded out by it, a lot more girls then you'd think are curious about this sorta thing, it's all pleasure based so don't worry about it.

Watch out for the fluggeecheimen.

then she told me to tie her up and choke her

you have no idea how jealous i am of you at the moment.
I've been looking for a girl like this for fucking ever....
still, hope it works out for ya.