Hi. Questions for you guys.

Assuming that you are a guy, do you think it's possible to fall for, then marry the type of woman who doesn't cook/clean/do laundry..etc who generally neglects household duties?

How important is this stuff to you, the woman's housekeeping abilities/willingness?

I hope so.

Yeah, I'm not a guy but I think it's entirely possible. Role reversals in mariges are way more common lately. Take my mom for example. She has two kids, doesn't have a job and refuses to do any work around the house. But her boyfriend lives with her and pays for all her shit and cleans up for her. You've just gotta find a really nice guy. Perhaps one that's borderline gay.

"Household duties" are of no importance to me.

As long as we're passionate, I don't care if they never cook or clean or fold laundry.

Good, that means there's still hope for me! :D

Seriously, that was quite possibly the sexiest thing I have ever read.

So are you saying that you don't mind cooking/cleaning/doing household chores for the woman...

Do you currently have a girlfriend? If the answer is no, wanna consider me?

Serious question. I am extremely lazy.

I'm pretty straight but I do have gay tendencies.

Seriously, that was quite possibly the sexiest thing I have ever read.

So are you saying that you don't mind cooking/cleaning/doing household chores for the woman...I already cook/clean/wash. It's not a big deal. If shit needs to get done, it gets done.

Do you currently have a girlfriend? If the answer is no, wanna consider me?No, I don't. And I am moving up to Canada next year...

Oh, and this.

I'm pretty gay when it comes to things like entertainment.

I watch waaaaaaay more E! than any straight man ever should.

Oh, and this.

I'm pretty gay when it comes to things like entertainment.

I watch waaaaaaay more E! than any straight man ever should.

Whaaaat? You just lost like 25 cool points.

I already cook/clean/wash. It's not a big deal. If shit needs to get done, it gets done.


Fucking HOTTEST thing coming from a male.

No, I don't. And I am moving up to Canada next year...

Montreal is quite far from BC...

Whaaaat? You just lost like 25 cool points.Sorry, babe, but I am what I am.

And what I am is a man that is fascinated by Debbie Matenopoulos.Fucking HOTTEST thing coming from a male.



Montreal is quite far from BC...It's still closer than Baltimore...

Sorry, babe, but I am what I am.

And what I am is a man that is fascinated by Debbie Matenopoulos.

Who??

^^We need moar pix of you, Robin. Are you really down-syndrome looking?

Woahh.. Easy there robinhoody. Stop seducing all the Totse womenz...

WritingANovel... What about me?

I (sort of) live MUCH closer.

And I don't care too much about household duties... sort of... We can just hire a maid with the income I'm planning on making...

;)

^^ Very tempting Gadzooks....VERY tempting...;) ;)

But I have a sneaking suspision that you might be out of my league...I saw your pic and you were plenty hot...I don't know. :)

Who??

Debbie Matenopoulos. She's a "TV personality". She does a lot of stuff on those VH1 "I Love The XXXXX" series (another guilty pleasure of mine), and is the co-host of E!'s Daily 10 news program, with Catt Sadler (another minor pseudo-celebrity crush of mine). And some guy, but I tend to tune him out...^^We need moar pix of you, Robin.Ha. No.

There is a bad picture of me in Ajare, a picture of my foot and nipple in SG, and eggs has my testicles.

Put them together like a collage and you'll have a rough idea of what I look like ;)

What?? When did you see my pic?

And wow, thank you. I'm pretty flattered by that.

I'm pretty sure I'm not though. I don't really like thinking in terms of 'leagues' anyway...

There is a bad picture of me in Ajare, a picture of my foot and nipple in SG, and eggs has my testicles.

Put them together like a collage and you'll have a rough idea of what I look like ;)

So you consist of a foot, a nipple, and a pair of testes??

There is a bad picture of me in Ajare, a picture of my foot and nipple in SG, and eggs has my testicles.

Put them together like a collage and you'll have a rough idea of what I look like ;)

Pix of your balls and nippes are useless...when people talk about pixxy they want to see your face.

Come on show me a pic of your face plz. I want to take a good look at you so I can decide whether to pursue you or not.

Seriously.

What?? When did you see my pic?

And wow, thank you. I'm pretty flattered by that.

I'm pretty sure I'm not though. I don't really like thinking in terms of 'leagues' anyway...

You once showed a pic of when you got into a fight and you got black eyes...remember?

You once showed a pic of when you got into a fight and you got black eyes...remember?

Oh God... I have better ones than that...

I'm embarrassed now...

As long as you can at least take care of yourself, what's the big deal? Any REAL man shouldn't be looking for another mommy, and any woman that marries a guy never living on his own for a while is taking a huge risk. I want a partner in life, not some subserviant twit. Sharing the burden of work as evenly as possible....and fuck any mindless stereotypes.

I got that and a whole lot more in my wife. One of the things that most attracted me to her was her independence. She didn't NEED a man, and was living perfectly fine without me. Scarlet O'hara is silly in my eyes.....I wanted a chick that was more like Sarah Connor in Terminator. Kickin ass and taking names in life....and we are just sharing each other's journey. Some days she picks up my slack, other days vice versa. That is what it's all about, ain't it?

Now with all of that being said......anyone wanna trade? Just for the next 6 weeks? She just had knee surgery this week and is laid up on crutches till the end of the year, and now I'm the ONLY cook, cleaner, chaffeur, able bodied parent, etc.....FUCKING ETC! In essence I'm taking care of her, our 5 year old, the business I run.....without a lick of help. Calgone take me the fuck away!!! Nah, I love em both and wouldn't have it any other way. But for everyone's sake its a damn good thing I have this nice phat sack of weed at my side or I would be a whole helluva lot grumpier.......as well as someone's blood could very well be shed.

Oh God... I have better ones than that...

I'm embarrassed now...

lol don't be...

Think of this way.....you look hot even in a supposedly bad pic...which can only mean that you are truly good looking :D

lol don't be...

Think of this way.....you look hot even in a supposedly bad pic...which can only mean that you are truly good looking :D

Aww.. Thanks!! :D

^^nice!

As long as you can at least take care of yourself, what's the big deal?

However, my point was about a woman that actually can NOT take care of herself....someone who doesn't cook/clean/do laundr AT ALL and has to rely on the man...

and whether it would be possible for a man to fall in love with this kind of woman.

^^nice!

Thanks! I'm going to take it down now though as I don't really like having pics of myself up for some reason...

*puts on tinfoil hat*

I hereby declare myself the first real man to post in this thread.

My position on this sort of shit.

I can take care of myself. I mean, my room is a mess and I can't cook very well, but I am healthy and surviving.

I don't need a maid.

However, if I was living with a woman and I was in any way supporting here I would expect her to do domestic duties in porportion to what how much I'm supporting here. She'd better be baking cookies and making all my meals if she's a stay at home wife.

If we were both working and I wasn't subsidising her existance, I am fine with doing things equally. However, I do firmly believe some things men are better at and some things woman are better at.

However, my point was about a woman that actually can NOT take care of herself....someone who doesn't cook/clean/do laundr AT ALL and has to rely on the man...

and whether it would be possible for a man to fall in love with this kind of woman.

So in other words, NEVER cook a meal, NEVER run a vacuum, NEVER do a load of laundry? Like adopting someone now having to look after another human being? What would be the point, and most importantly besides the sex what would any of the benefits be? If you are to THAT extreme, I would imagine you could only land the most desperate of men.......someone so hideous or emotionally unstable they wouldn't care about all of that work and effort, they would just be thankful to have a warm body to snuggle up to at night.

I guess it's not a total necessity, but in the end the classical woman will always triumph over the career-oriented liberated wimmins. There is no shame in taking care of your family and your home, while cooking good homemade meals as well (rather than eating out at Mcdonalds every night).

I'm not saying it's right for a woman to have to work AND have a double shift taking care of the house/cooking. I think that a man should make enough for both him and his wife and the woman should only take care of the home. But to suggest this in 2007 America is probably too ridiculous outside of somewhere where decent women congregate like church.

A woman who cooks and cleans for you is very easy to love (even when her beauty fades), because she constantly shows she loves you and cares for you/your children. Nothing more ugly than an "ambitious" butch cunt who dresses in a man's clothes and doesn't care abo[ut anything but her worthless career.