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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-11-22, 08:11
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Charlotte, NC
Default What if I want more?

So there's this girl. I've known her since we were in diapers. Same daycare, same schools, same age, same interests, and we're best friends...

But now I want more. We've started hanging out a lot more on our own, (not just going to get a bite to eat or go with a big group of friends to mall/cinema), and I love it.

Problem is, all this hanging out and shit is making me really start to like her. I already love her like a sister, but I want to take it to the next level. But I can't tell if she wants to or not.

So, S&A, what should my recommended course of action be? I just don't want to fuck up what we have going on right now.

Help?
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Old 2007-11-22, 08:16
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New Zealand
Default Re: What if I want more?

Quote:
Originally Posted by blackcat
So there's this girl. I've known her since we were in diapers. Same daycare, same schools, same age, same interests, and we're best friends...

But now I want more. We've started hanging out a lot more on our own, (not just going to get a bite to eat or go with a big group of friends to mall/cinema), and I love it.

Problem is, all this hanging out and shit is making me really start to like her. I already love her like a sister, but I want to take it to the next level. But I can't tell if she wants to or not.

So, S&A, what should my recommended course of action be? I just don't want to fuck up what we have going on right now.

Help?



Incest.
 #3 
Old 2007-11-22, 08:18
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Charlotte, NC
Default Re: What if I want more?

Incest.

Hah, no fucknuts, she's not my sister.

I realize now my post might lead someone the wrong way.

But I'm asking for serious replies.
 #4 
Old 2007-11-22, 09:11
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longyearbyen
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All you can do is talk to her, my friend.

-F☺rd
 #5 
Old 2007-11-22, 09:19
darksidez4 darksidez4 is offline
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Default Re: What if I want more?

All you can do is talk to her, my friend.

this.
 #6 
Old 2007-11-22, 09:56
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East end
Default Re: What if I want more?

Watch Drive Me Crazy and take it from there...
 #7 
Old 2007-11-22, 09:58
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Valhalla
Default Re: What if I want more?

There are two ways to do this. Both ways are acceptable, althought the former is much easier, has a higher chance of sucess, and saves me having to read your threads for another month until you finally ball up and ask her out only to be rejected.

Method 1: Get some booze. hard liquor. get tanked. Fuck. When you're done, pretend like it happens all the time and you're now going out.

Method 2: tell her you want to go out.
 #8 
Old 2007-11-22, 14:07
DesertRebel DesertRebel is offline
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That'd be weird for me and her. I got a friend whose just like that, and we already discussed it and we're both simblings to each other.
 #9 
Old 2007-11-22, 17:28
crunkjuice crunkjuice is offline
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I think you might, just MIGHT be in the friend zone..
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Old 2007-11-22, 18:10
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Default Re: What if I want more?

So there's this girl. I've known her since we were in diapers.

Pics?
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Old 2007-11-22, 20:36
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Charlotte, NC
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http://a10.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/118/l_3bfd10077574014754eecd09073615b1.jpg
 #12 
Old 2007-11-22, 20:40
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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http://a10.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/118/l_3bfd10077574014754eecd09073615b1.jpg

I meant in diapers still...

But the fact that you actually posted pics of her is a heck of a lot better than what most posters do.

So you get invisible rep points. +
 #13 
Old 2007-11-22, 20:48
nau06248 nau06248 is offline
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Default Re: What if I want more?

I guess if you are really good friends, bringing your cock into the picture shouldnt do much damage.

Just have a chat with her.
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Old 2007-11-22, 22:03
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Charlotte, NC
Default Re: What if I want more?

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Originally Posted by nau06248
I guess if you are really good friends, bringing your cock into the picture shouldnt do much damage.

Just have a chat with her.


Yeah, that'll work. "So uh, hows your day goin? Wanna see muh cawk?"

Ryko, my parents are going out of town on Dec. 2nd. So I will put your first idea into effect.
 #15 
Old 2007-11-22, 22:06
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Yeah, that'll work. "So uh, hows your day goin? Wanna see muh cawk?"

You don't ask her first, you just whip it out, then put it on her leg.
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Old 2007-11-22, 23:16
ScaryDangerous ScaryDangerous is offline
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just tell her. make it clear you dont wanna ruin the friendship and like you cant help how you feel.
 #17 
Old 2007-11-22, 23:26
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Australia
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*looks at photo*

I'm sure she'll take what ever she can get. Go for her, she's yours.
 #18 
Old 2007-11-22, 23:32
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Valhalla
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Ryko, my parents are going out of town on Dec. 2nd. So I will put your first idea into effect.

Good man
 #19 
Old 2007-11-23, 03:10
AEnemia AEnemia is offline
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I think you might, just MIGHT be in the friend zone..

Agreed. And also, don't let girls fool you with "similar interests". Just because you both like the same Norwegian death metal band doesnt really mean shit.

By the way, don't try number 1 unless she drinks or you don't mind totally ruining your friendship. Get some balls and go with 2.
 #20 
Old 2007-11-23, 03:16
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fappin 2 noodz
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Situations like this are why Dr. Henry Laborit invented GHB!
 #21 
Old 2007-11-23, 03:24
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Canada
Default Re: What if I want more?

If you've known her forever and you're hanging out tons, talk to her about it.

Don't be surprised if it's completely awkward. Once you get it out there, it's out there.
 #22 
Old 2007-11-23, 03:45
nau06248 nau06248 is offline
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Default Re: What if I want more?

Yeah, that'll work. "So uh, hows your day goin? Wanna see muh cawk?"

Ryko, my parents are going out of town on Dec. 2nd. So I will put your first idea into effect.

When I mentioned bringing your cock into the picture I meant that ultimately you want to have sex with her.

There is no need to be sarcastic you little shit.
 #23 
Old 2007-11-23, 09:58
Special. K Special. K is offline
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Default Re: What if I want more?

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Originally Posted by crunkjuice
I think you might, just MIGHT be in the friend zone..


Good observation

My advice: Cocky funny. Start flirting. If she doesn't respond positively, then you're in the friends zone.

If you are (and it sounds like it), cut your losses and move on. Go out a fuck some girls and forget about your one-itis.
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Old 2007-11-25, 03:21
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longyearbyen
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Good observation

My advice: Cocky funny. Start flirting. If she doesn't respond positively, then you're in the friends zone.

If you are (and it sounds like it), cut your losses and move on. Go out a fuck some girls and forget about your one-itis.

What original advice Style DeAngemystery.

-F☺rd
 #25 
Old 2007-11-25, 13:50
devilsadvocate devilsadvocate is offline
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Do what i DO annnnnnnd=

be subtle


im telling you subtlety is key
if theres one thing ive learned from woman in the past relationships of my life it is that it always works if done right

-it makes things interesting
-it lets the opposite person know your intentions in a clever way if done right and can make you look smoothe[unless the other person is a complete moron and cant detect it what so ever

now do what i said but add the cocky and funny routine,but at your own disgression and dont go over the top with it either,still remain the person she enjoys spending time with just add that in doses

and if she does in fact drink ,and you do as well,then lay down the hammer and up it up a bit or start it off ina humorous way and then turn the corner into ''do you want to be more'' lane

but thi sis just what i would start scheming,but enh

and as for your fear of alienating your friendship,worry not if your friendship is as strong as you say it is,then what is thier to worry about?
-i really cant see any flaws in this logic and think it quite sound

-trust in what you feel right is what the bottom line comes down to


-anyways hope my advice does what it was intended to do
 
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