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 #1 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:34
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mother superior
Default I am sorry

I had mislaid my trust in someone that I shouldn't have, and as a result the rofall thing happened. I am feeling extremely stupid, and for a PNA who bases all their work around security, this has happened.

I feel extremely stupid and upset. I've changed all my passwords to everything, but I am still stuck with how do deal with this in a personal way. I don't know what else I can't trust him with, and everything has gone under review.

Thankyou to meta, toraton, oddballz, Euda, zok and everyone else on IRC then for knowing me enough to know something was amiss. You have proven your quality, now I must assure you I still have mine.
 #2 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:37
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Default Re: I am sorry

:(
Anything I can do to help?
Picture of an aggrophobic guinea pig? (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v225/raveyoyo/sunliettuft.jpg)
An e-hug?
Infract anyone for you? (hell dont start with me people it's mainly a joke)


Your post is quite cryptic and that's probably for a reason. Take care.
 #3 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:39
Moderator
 
Kelso, Washington, USA
Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
:(
Anything I can do to help?
Picture of an aggrophobic guinea pig? (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v225/raveyoyo/sunliettuft.jpg)
An e-hug?
Infract anyone for you? (hell dont start with me people it's mainly a joke)


Your post is quite cryptic and that's probably for a reason. Take care.


I <3 your guinea pigs!
 #4 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:47
Moderator
 
Canada
Default Re: I am sorry

It takes unmistakable quality to post a public apology for something that nobody blames on you.

Well done, and I hope that everybody feels the same.
 #5 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:51
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: I am sorry

No idea what the fuck you're talking about, girl but we all fuck up and we're all entitled to a daily stupidity spasm. Its in the Constitution.

Say sorry, repair the damage as best you can.

And don't sweat it.

Last perfect person got nailed to a tree some 2 thousand years ago.
 #6 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:55
Super Moderator
 
Sebastopol CA
Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by Euda
It takes unmistakable quality to post a public apology for something that nobody blames on you.

Well done, and I hope that everybody feels the same.


Especially when only a handful of us in IRC even knew of it.

As for what to do about him, well I'm afraid only you can answer that question. You know him better than any of us. You also only know how you feel about him that aside. But trust is such a bitch to regain once it's lost.
 #7 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:58
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: I am sorry

Have I understood this right...rofall is your b/f iRL?!
 #8 
Old 2007-11-19, 18:59
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Default Re: I am sorry

EEK!
 #9 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:06
Moderator
 
Canada
Default Re: I am sorry

Is there any reason for people to be digging at this?

If she had wanted to go into details and specifics, she could have done so.
 #10 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:08
Moderator
 
mother superior
Default Re: I am sorry

What I'm talking about, just so I can get it out:

For some time (unbeknownst to me) there has been suspicion amongst the other mods that user 'RoFallAndBreakYourHypnol' has been privy to 'inside information' which has made the mods uneasy. My only dealings with this particular poster was to appeal a ban through which I was contacted by email, I thought he was a bit of an idiot, but my role stopped there.

I go on IRC and some mods had been expressing concerns that led to them thinking I might have something to do with these 'leaks' or that I might know something that would help. Something in my mind suddenly and extremely embarrassingly clicked. 'Rofall' only posts when I am not signed in, and did actually appear to have a fairly intimate knowledge of what was going on in the mod forum. Looking at his posts the particular giveaway was the word 'outages', which had then only been posted here, until meta made a thread in SG. Rofall used this to make the mods uneasy, at which point it became clear to them something was wrong.

I realised that RoFallAndBreakYourHypnol was actually Joe. He had used my account to look at stuff in the mod forum over a period of time without me knowing about it or having any suspicions whatsoever. I had used his computer to check the forums before and thought nothing of it, I hadn't left my password on it, though he appears to have an intimate knowledge of most of my passwords too for some reason.

I called him and asked him bluntly if he had been using my account and he said he had. Stomach dropped, etc.

Thus my embarrassment at looking like such an idiot when all this was happening under my nose and I didn't even realise, and my inner turmoil that comes with knowing him in some very personal ways too. My trust here has been well and truly stamped on, and I feel like I've been walked over by a 'friend in metal boots'
 #11 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:11
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: I am sorry

Is there any reason for people to be digging at this?
.

No not really, just human nature and the lack of a life outside totse.
 #12 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:14
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by wires
What I'm talking about, just so I can get it out:

For some time (unbeknownst to me) there has been suspicion amongst the other mods that user 'RoFallAndBreakYourHypnol' has been privy to 'inside information' which has made the mods uneasy. My only dealings with this particular poster was to appeal a ban through which I was contacted by email, I thought he was a bit of an idiot, but my role stopped there.

I go on IRC and some mods had been expressing concerns that led to them thinking I might have something to do with these 'leaks' or that I might know something that would help. Something in my mind suddenly and extremely embarrassingly clicked. 'Rofall' only posts when I am not signed in, and did actually appear to have a fairly intimate knowledge of what was going on in the mod forum. Looking at his posts the particular giveaway was the word 'outages', which had then only been posted here, until meta made a thread in SG. Rofall used this to make the mods uneasy, at which point it became clear to them something was wrong.

I realised that RoFallAndBreakYourHypnol was actually Joe. He had used my account to look at stuff in the mod forum over a period of time without me knowing about it or having any suspicions whatsoever. I had used his computer to check the forums before and thought nothing of it, I hadn't left my password on it, though he appears to have an intimate knowledge of most of my passwords too for some reason.

I called him and asked him bluntly if he had been using my account and he said he had. Stomach dropped, etc.

Thus my embarrassment at looking like such an idiot when all this was happening under my nose and I didn't even realise, and my inner turmoil that comes with knowing him in some very personal ways too. My trust here has been well and truly stamped on, and I feel like I've been walked over by a 'friend in metal boots'


Ouch. Thank you for trusting us with that.

But sure as hell not your fault.

Zok, what is going to be done about Rofall, if anything?
 #13 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:16
Moderator
 
AFSPC, USAF
Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
:(
Anything I can do to help?
Picture of an aggrophobic guinea pig? (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v225/raveyoyo/sunliettuft.jpg)
An e-hug?
Infract anyone for you? (hell dont start with me people it's mainly a joke)


Your post is quite cryptic and that's probably for a reason. Take care.


Mmmm...pictures of Bek's guineas and e-huggles. They both could make anyone's day.

Especially pics of Bek's piggies snuggled with her puppies. ^_^
>.>
<.<
*runs*
 #14 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:19
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Default Re: I am sorry

Mmmm...pictures of Bek's guineas and e-huggles. They both could make anyone's day.

Especially pics of Bek's piggies snuggled with her puppies. ^_^
>.>
<.<
*runs*

COME BACK HERE!!


*gives chase*
 #15 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:24
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: I am sorry

Ahh I see Euda has already dealt with rofall. ....and Mr.Happy.

I think something in me just broke.

Mr.Happy, for fucks sake!

I really really respected and liked that guy :(

FUCK!

I know its just the intrawebz0r but..
 #16 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:30
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Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by jackketch
Ahh I see Euda has already dealt with rofall. ....and Mr.Happy.

I think something in me just broke.

Mr.Happy, for fucks sake!

I really really respected and liked that guy :(

FUCK!

I know its just the intrawebz0r but..


But Mr Happy nice. And Rofall was..mean.

Why would he be so specifically rude and try to provoke people so much who he previously liked?
:(
Screw this. I'm going to bed.
 #17 
Old 2007-11-19, 19:41
Moderator
 
Cheshire, UK
Default Re: I am sorry

Wow...Had to re-read Joe then, I was thinking it was another poster with a username 'Joe', then the dusted covered cogs ticked...

Never expected that of him...Ah well, bad things happen, just got to move on now.
 #18 
Old 2007-11-19, 20:22
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Canada
Default Re: I am sorry

Yikes, that's extra shitty. Don't worry about it though, wires. We still <3 you. :)
 #19 
Old 2007-11-19, 21:08
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The Cahulawassee River
Default Re: I am sorry

Zok, what is going to be done about Rofall, if anything?

I say we draw and quarter him. BLOOD! BLOOD! The masses demand it!
 #20 
Old 2007-11-19, 21:08
Moderator
 
&#1161;
Default Re: I am sorry

No sense crying over it now.

I think we should all take this moment and consider if all of our passwords are secure enough.
 #21 
Old 2007-11-19, 21:10
robinhoody robinhoody is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: I am sorry

No sense crying over it now.

I think we should all take this moment and consider if all of our passwords are secure enough.Of course it isn't. If it were secure, I wouldn't be able to remember it.
 #22 
Old 2007-11-19, 21:34
Regular
 
Winston-Salem/Greensboro, NC
Default Re: I am sorry

Quote:
Originally Posted by jackketch
Ahh I see Euda has already dealt with rofall. ....and Mr.Happy.

I think something in me just broke.

Mr.Happy, for fucks sake!

I really really respected and liked that guy :(

FUCK!

I know its just the intrawebz0r but..


What happened with Mr. Happy, care to clue us who don't visit IRC in?
 #23 
Old 2007-11-19, 21:40
Regular
 
Winston-Salem/Greensboro, NC
Default Re: I am sorry

Nevermind, just clicked.
 #24 
Old 2007-11-20, 03:30
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Great Britain
Default Re: I am sorry

Wow...Had to re-read Joe then...

Ditto. :(

-deus-
 #25 
Old 2007-11-20, 04:21
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Default Re: I am sorry

:( ...
 #26 
Old 2007-11-20, 07:40
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Default Re: I am sorry

Wires, this is in NO WAY your fault. Relationships..guilt..I know the two go together, but it's not as though you have done anything wrong.
 
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