Ive heard from a few sources that jacking off before a date is good because it releases stored amounts of testosterone so that you can be more calm and relaxed around your girl.

However, Ive also heard that not jacking off for days before a date is also good because all the stored up testosterone is good for your sexual drive and there will be a greater chance in the night ending in sex.

Im really split between these two decisions I plan to experiment with both of them myself however that could take weeks to find any sort of noticeable trend. So if anyone has any experience with jacking off before a date or not jacking off before a date please post your results and advice.

Thanks in advance!

I think the main issue is whether or not you're going to fuck. If you're going to, apparently you should so you don't bust a nut as quickly or something.

Jerk it before a date. Always good.

The reasoning from TSAM is flawless.

Something about Mary = shittiest movie ever.

Yes, but it's the closest I'll get to coming in Cameron Diaz's hair. QED, it is win.

Ive heard from a few sources that jacking off before a date is good because it releases stored amounts of testosterone so that you can be more calm and relaxed around your girl.

Are these numerous sources various movies and sit-coms?

I wouldn't unless you've been like weeks without rubbing one out. Cause if u jack off before a date, then go to hang with the girl...all the build up you just had you released, now the idea of getting some you could care less about cause you already relieved yourself once.

Now if you don't do it, and you go in and get in that position to advance...you'll be ready to tear that shit up and do things right...since itll be fresh in your head.

Take a tip from me.
When I get ready and I'm expecting a bit of hot sex, or a date, I put on my lovely lace underwear and pay extra attention to personal hygene and all that. What usually happens is things either don't work out between me and whoever, or my night out ends up without me getting laid.

It's usually when I'm wearing boring or even horrible underwear and am unprepared, -or not expecting it- that I get laid. That's not applicable to my current situation, as I'm in a relationship, but at the start when I met my current girl, I happened to be wearing tights out that night, when I ALWAYS wear stockings, and I hadn't expected to meet anyone at all.

What does this have to do with it? Well you might like preparing, it might work well for you, but I find that when I go out of my way, things just fall through. If I were you, I'd go about your normal routine, and see what happens. Worrying about whether or not to wank is no fun.

If you cum too fast to make her happy, then jack it. However, if you can last, or go twice, or any of that. I wouldn't. Less you are afraid of being too forward and scaring them away. Which can happen, but is much less likely that the opposite.

Wow, this is quite deep... it could really go both ways considering YOUR conditions with the girl.... my new rule is to do it... cause I didn't jack off for like 2-3 weeks before I fucked this one girl... and I was quite embarrassed of my quite timely fashion. So definately do it if you ask me (it could bring down your drive like the other people said) but you aren't in this for the first fuck, the first fuck is just a quiz on whether she will fuck you again, so make it good for her more than anyone the first time ;)

It depends on your attitude after you have jerked off. I know after I jerk off I really couldn't give a fuck about girls for a few hours afterwards.

Haha, same here.

I suddenly wouldn't care anymore about going on said date.

To me, masturbation and sex are quite different so I never have a problem going much longer than masturbation would take. If you do happen to cum fast, just talk to her about it and tell her you need more practice. Then have more sex.

such intense devotion to the idea of "jacking off" has provided me

with many lulz :D

honestly, i have yet to see so much repitition of that.

but yea, crank one out before a possible-sexy-date and your good to go ;)



also, can anyone else tell the gender of flock?
its post confuses me with the usage of "lace underwear" and "stockings" and "met my girl"

???

I didnt read many of the replies you got to this thread. But from personal experience I would say, Id rather be horny as hell and ready to go before I hook up. But I can also see why you would want to have jacked off before hand. For that extra endurance and all. But I cant think of anything better then diving into some pussy when you are horny as all hell and ready to go...

also, can anyone else tell the gender of flock?
its post confuses me with the usage of "lace underwear" and "stockings" and "met my girl"
???

Flock's a chick.


I think Doc.ew had it:
you aren't in this for the first fuck, the first fuck is just a quiz on whether she will fuck you again, so make it good for her more than anyone the first time