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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-11-17, 02:41
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Default I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Ill start off by saying im a somewhat decent looking guy with a medium build, but i act like a cocky sonuvabitch around chicks, and that seems to work.

That said, im currently messing around with (second base) with a chick thats two years older than i am, and is pretty cute but clingy as hell. She also quite dumb, and easy. Nothing wrong with that. (Quite an asshoelish thing to say, huh?) This other girl that im sorta with i go out with and make otu with probably 1-2 times a week and we also have a class together, and shes pretty smart and cute, too.

Now, since they live 50 mile apart and both like to pick me up (license in 3 months) im not having trouble going out with both of them in the same week, but im wondering if this is a damn vile thing to do?

One of my female friends says its a really dick move and my male friends say its a damn good move, so im stuck halfway in between. I dont feel much for either, does that count for anything?

Ps. these arent the same two form the last thread.
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Old 2007-11-17, 02:55
ScaryDangerous ScaryDangerous is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

im sorry, i dont know what you're asking for? advice...?

well if you want my opinion(not many people do)

you got yourself a good girl at school it seems, if you have a great connection with her, why do you need the dumb clingy one? I prefer a decent sized brain girl, who i can relate to and have conversations with and fool around with. but that can lead to a serious relationship, so be careful. if you dont want that relationship just have some fun with the dumb chick, but you mentioned she was clingy so if i were you, i'd see her less if i just wanted to fuck, it would also make the fuck better kuz you wait for it a little more.
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Old 2007-11-17, 02:55
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

my male friends say its a damn good move is what I will say.

But a female who reads this thread will think One of my female friends says its a really dick move
 #4 
Old 2007-11-17, 02:55
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Basement
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Do what you want to do. If you want action from both, make sure you're not looking for a future with either of them, or else you will fuck everything up when you have to confess.
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Old 2007-11-17, 02:59
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Well, one girl i "cheated" ( i had my arm around her at a game, my girl at the time thought that was cheating) with wanted a long relationship, so i said fuck it and moved on to these tho.

As far as i know only the clingy one wants a long boring relationship, so ill just ride that train till it arrives in the station.
 #6 
Old 2007-11-17, 03:00
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Basement
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Have fun, you only live once.
 #7 
Old 2007-11-17, 03:02
nau06248 nau06248 is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Haha, you are going to end up on that website for cheating basterds, and you will never get another girl again!!

Good luck.
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Old 2007-11-17, 03:07
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Trakr #17
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In Hs/College? not likely.
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Old 2007-11-17, 03:57
Running Free Running Free is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Haha, he made reference to bases.
Inb4jacketch
 #10 
Old 2007-11-17, 03:59
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Basement
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Quote:
Originally Posted by Running Free
Haha, he made reference to bases.
Inb4jacketch



I was thinking that myself.:D
 #11 
Old 2007-11-17, 04:25
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Yes it does make you an asshole.
 #12 
Old 2007-11-17, 04:45
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get rid the dumb clingy one, take the other.
 #13 
Old 2007-11-17, 04:49
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

What makes you an asshole is hooking up internet before learning to write with at least 60% literacy.
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Old 2007-11-17, 05:25
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Originally Posted by Running Free
Haha, he made reference to bases.
Inb4jacketch


And making out.
 #15 
Old 2007-11-17, 05:49
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

If all you're doing with them is making out and stuff, what's the problem? I mean, if one of them is buying you dinner all the time and calls you her boyfriend, then you're crossing into dick move territory. Otherwise, I don't see anything wrong with it. You're essentially just asking if it's OK to fool around with/fuck/whatever two different chicks on a regular basis? I say yes
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Old 2007-11-17, 06:43
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longyearbyen
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Did you tell either of them that you were exclusive with them?

If not I don't see the problem. Why would there be one? I've got a couple "friends with benefits" or whatever and it's all fine and dandy justsolong as said girls know where they stand with you.
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Old 2007-11-17, 16:18
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Originally Posted by Ford Prefect
Did you tell either of them that you were exclusive with them?

If not I don't see the problem. Why would there be one? I've got a couple "friends with benefits" or whatever and it's all fine and dandy justsolong as said girls know where they stand with you.


No, sa far as they know theyre exclusive, but they havent asked, either. I didnt give them reasons to.

I thought about it, and i guess im a decent guy, im a good boyfriend to both of them, and if they dont find out, its no big deal, right?
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Old 2007-11-17, 19:49
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Ill start off by saying im a somewhat decent looking guy with a medium build, but i act like a cocky sonuvabitch around chicks, and that seems to work.

That said, im currently messing around with (second base) with a chick thats two years older than i am, and is pretty cute but clingy as hell. She also quite dumb, and easy. Nothing wrong with that. (Quite an asshoelish thing to say, huh?)

I'm interested in why you think you're qualified to make a judgment call on anyone else's intelligence level.
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Old 2007-11-17, 20:16
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longyearbyen
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

No, sa far as they know theyre exclusive, but they havent asked, either. I didnt give them reasons to.

I thought about it, and i guess im a decent guy, im a good boyfriend to both of them, and if they dont find out, its no big deal, right?

Nope. You're an asshole.

-F☺rd
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Old 2007-11-17, 20:23
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Trakr #17
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

I'm interested in why you think you're qualified to make a judgment call on anyone else's intelligence level.

Its my opinion. Im not gonna have her take a fucking IQ test to establish that shes not that quick.
 #21 
Old 2007-11-18, 18:37
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Basement
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Dating 2 girls at once=asshole
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Old 2007-11-19, 14:56
river_of_ash river_of_ash is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

Wait, what? What's the purpose of this thread?

Oh, right, to see if you're an arsehole... >_>

Wait... What then?
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Old 2007-11-19, 16:37
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

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Originally Posted by river_of_ash
Wait, what? What's the purpose of this thread?

Oh, right, to see if you're an arsehole... >_>

Wait... What then?


Dunno. I guess ill eventually have to choose between one of em, right?
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Old 2007-11-19, 22:06
NiGhT PrOwLeR NiGhT PrOwLeR is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

*reads op's thread*
*stops at the word "base"*
*rolls eyes and walks out*
 #25 
Old 2007-11-19, 22:51
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

As long as they don't get any ideas your being "exclusive", then no.
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Old 2007-11-20, 16:05
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Trakr #17
Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

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Originally Posted by NiGhT PrOwLeR
*reads op's thread*
*stops at the word "base"*
*rolls eyes and walks out*


Bah, i realize its not the 50's anymore, but it gets annoying for a while after one gives everything 50 names. So i kept it simple.

tl;dr (its only a sentence and a half) Fuck you.
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Old 2007-11-20, 21:09
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Default Re: I gues this makes me an asshole, huh?

This is what you have to ask yourself...

Do you care either way?
 
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