Ok, so here's the situation, I'll try to stick to the facts:

-I broke up with my ex girlfriend about a month & a 1/2 ago
-I'm now dating the girl who's been my best friend for 2 years
-Her family is conservative controlling indians and won't let her see me
-Now I think we should have stayed friends, but I don't want to hurt her by breaking up with her
-At school, there are prolly 4 girls that I am good friends with that I could go out with and be happier with
-One of which would prolly fuck me silly (I had sex in my last relationship, non in this one
-On top of all this there is a girl at my church that I know for a fact likes me, but she is the innocent christian girl type and I dunno if I could be comfortable with her. On the other hand, I could trust her and know her love was genuine. - No real intimacy/sex though

My life has been riddled with drugs and self-inflicted problems at school. I want to be able to share all this with the person I am with, and I don't think the girl at church would accept it all, or maybe she would. She's great and a good person, and I am trying to be more involved in my church. I just don't know if she is for me.

And in the end of all this I am almost afraid to date a friend because if we break up I may lose them completely, that's why I'm afraid to break up with my current gf.

So, omnipotent relationship guru's of &totse... enlighten me in my confuzzling situation

-altair

"innocent christian type"??

Spoken like a boy with very little experience. When I was 18 I dated one of those. She used to read me Bible verses about the evils of fleshly pleasures. Then we'd get in my car, drive some place private, and she'd suck me, fuck me, tie me up, and make me crazy.

I have plenty of experience with "innocent christian types". My first girlfriend was from the same church. We had great sex and all was good. Then she got to be a negative, sniveling bitch so I dumped her and now she won't come to church without her friend that I hate so much :D, w/e.

Anyway, this other girl from my church that I like really is innocent, and I don't really /want/ to corrupt her. I'm just afraid that I won't get the physical affection from her that I crave so badly. I'm very affectionate and very physical. I could deal with no sex I suppose, I'm just not sure that she won't appreciate my loving, like some of the girls at school do.

Dude... so confused

Leave the world of man behind you, wander far until you find a lonely mountain peak, a blunt one, and sit upon it contemplating the following question:

Out of all of them, which one would you want a child with?

No, of course you don't want a child...yet. That time will come.

But tis a pretty good indicator of whom you really have feelings for and who cares for you.

Failing that just fuck your way through all of them.

You have good problems.

Out of all of them, which one would you want a child with?


Prolly the girl from church I'd imagine...

Keep posting though, I'd like more input.

-altair

You have good problems.

Lol, thanks?

Prolly the girl from church I'd imagine...

Keep posting though, I'd like more input.

-altair

So go for her. Tell the 'Friend_now_grilfriend' that although she's a great girl and really attractive that you'll always see her as friend and it just doesn't feel right dating her(she won't buy it and it'll hurt her bad but hopefully you'll remain friends) and ignore the easy lays at school.

Sounds a whole lot like camaro-racer's girlfriend haha. Man that was a screwed up relationship.

Love polygon? That's nothing. I'm in a love E8 polytope.

Lol, ok, ok, you win, mr. complex shape person... :P

Sounds a whole lot like camaro-racer's girlfriend haha. Man that was a screwed up relationship.

I emailed her church about camaro posting pictures of her. they never got back to me.

He really gave out too much info.

Polygons are pretty much fine... just beware of the duodecohedrons!!! They come out from everywhere and are out to eat your brains.

seriously

There's only one solution...



Massive orgy