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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-11-15, 15:25
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too nervous?
for some reason when im with my girlfriend i can't get it up. Im 17 years old so it isn't age or anything. I just have a hard for me to relax. Any suggestions? It is so embarrassing. We've only done it one other time and it was way good for her, and i didn't cum...She thinks it's because it was daylight this time, but im not sure.
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#2
 2007-11-15, 15:46
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Re: too nervous?
Just keep at it, soldier. It takes a few tries to work out the kinks.
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#3
 2007-11-15, 16:51
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Re: too nervous?
ROFL
Ahhhhh loosing my virginity. So many memories =P
Dont worry dude. Its just ALOT of anxiety. Deep down your questioning alot of shit.
-Will i be good enough
-what is she thinking about how i look
ect.
It will pass though. Just keep working at it. Eventually you will laugh about it
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#4
 2007-11-15, 17:05
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SmackNixon 
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Re: too nervous?
if u cant get it up wit a woman then wut makes u think ur not gay? next time u try to have sex wit her just pretend shes a man and that u want to suck her cock. srsly man it could work for u.
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#5
 2007-11-15, 18:02
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: too nervous?
Its ridiculous sometimes, especially if your under the influence of anything. Just train yourself like i did, that way if its coming down to it, she'll be coming down to a PHD=Pretty hard dick...HAHA
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#6
 2007-11-15, 18:10
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The Chip Shop Guy 
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Re: too nervous?
Yeah just keep at it really, getting good at sex takes time. And hey, shes your girlfriend, so all will be cool and you can have as many trial runs as you feel without the need for some serious embarrasment.
Also, some stuff you may consider:
Foreplay.
More Foreplay.
Practice.
Relax.
Take it slow.
Eat her out.
Try that. :)
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#7
 2007-11-15, 21:04
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: too nervous?
Also, some stuff you may consider:
Foreplay.
More Foreplay.
Practice.
Relax.
Take it slow.
Eat her out.
Try that. :)
+1, plus you guys are younger, you think your girl is a professional herself at that age? shitttt
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#8
 2007-11-15, 22:29
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Re: too nervous?
We've only done it one other time and it was way good for her
Someone has a high opinion of themself.
and i didn't cum...She thinks it's because it was daylight this time, but im not sure.
Unless your cum has sharp fangs, has a natural aversion to sunlight, sucks the blood of women and can only be killed by a stake through the heart, I'm not sure how that will change things.
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#9
 2007-11-15, 22:49
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EvilFurby 
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Re: too nervous?
Someone has a high opinion of themself.
Unless your cum has sharp fangs, has a natural aversion to sunlight, sucks the blood of women and can only be killed by a stake through the heart, I'm not sure how that will change things.
maybe she was wearing a silver ring ;)
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#10
 2007-11-16, 00:02
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Re: too nervous?
ha ha ha I'm not too sure if i should divulge this here but don't worry man, first time i banged a chick the same thing happened to me. I remember being nervous on preforming etc. A few weeks later i was pro with hoes. The foreplay should do it, get into the moment of things.
There is one other exception where I could not get it up and that was only because I was drunk and the girls fun box smelled like pizza with onions (not attractive girls, please shower before seeing me!)
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