now, ive never really considered myself oldworld in almost any sense. but after my second year of university, ive become really jaded with the whole social objective here.

I mean its glorified to the N'th fucking degree "its easy to get laid in university" and for the most part it is. but at this point i cant see myself dating ANY girl thats into casual hookups, period. it really skeeves me out to the point that i dont even really like associating with most of the people that go to parties with the goal of hooking up. and this really isnt the double standard "guys are pimps girls are sluts argument", i just dont like associating with either.

i know theres not really much of a logical justification, other than high milage girls really arent attractive. and im not religious either.

and im not condemning the practice. i personally love sex...but committed sex is really where it is for me. i also dont think sex is so great that it possesses "spiritual meaning", but casual hookups for me really shoot any meaning that it does have.

anyway, i was just thinking about this today because i came to the realization that should i ever have to start looking for a girlfriend again, that i couldnt honestly name a girl i'd want to date that ive met in the past 2 years.

i feel like a 90 year old/ someone who should be spending their time on christianpersonals.com. i dont know, anyone feel the same way?


oh and night clubs make my skin crawl.

Interesting that you don't like "high mileage" girls, referring to the "party sluts", while the ladies who only engage in long term relationships will certainly have had more bulk sex than all the other easy girls put together.
However, I suppose it does make them more chaste in appearance than the girls who flaunt getting railed every weekend.

It's not about the amount of sex they've had, it's about the amount of people they've had sex with...

It's not about the amount of sex they've had, it's about the amount of people they've had sex with...

Considering he deleted his response post to mine, the context I responded to WAS about the amount of sex "high mileage" females engage in.
However, because he appears to have the oh so common virgin fetish, the amount of people is probably also a factor.

Considering he deleted his response post to mine, the context I responded to WAS about the amount of sex "high mileage" females engage in.
However, because he appears to have the oh so common virgin fetish, the amount of people is probably also a factor.

yeah i retracted what i said because xili really hit the nail on the head with her comment. once again, this isnt a well intellectually reasoned response. but rather gut instinct.

I always find the girl thats been in a relationship for a long time loads more attractive, regardless of how many times shes had sex with the same guy.

If I read you right, I agree with you 90% of the time. But sometimes I just want to bust a nut and masturbating doesn't cut it.

That's what college girls are for. You're hard pressed to find a good girl in college though, so don't really try. A special one will stick out, you won't find her if you're looking (since you'll be looking for quick sex).

I've felt exactly the same thing- just ending my 2nd year of university now.
2 more to go :(

I never really considered myself that conservative up until now, I'm not religious or anything, but I find the whole hooking up thing a big turn off.

Please remember colleges and universities tend to be safe havens for liberals.

As someone said, you wont find her if you are looking for her.

All my serious relationships have developed from women I wasnt initially interested in or 'just appeared' in my life. Fuck parties.

If you want an amazing relationship that will last for a long time, you probably wont get anywhere actively seeking out women.

That makes sense to me but sorry if you folks dont quite get what i am on about.

I get it and I agree.