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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-11-12, 19:25
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Default I don't remember messing up

ok, i was on the phone with my girlfriend last night, and she told me she would call me back later, because she was just about at her house. We hung up at 11:53 pm, and she called me back at 12:49 am. She had to call back twice, cause i didn't pick up the first time because i was asleep.

I don't remember much of the 7 minute and 6 second talk. All i remember is saying goodnight when she abruptly said "I'm going to let you get some sleep".

She calls me this morning and im asking her how she slept, and what time she got to bed. While asking her this, she tells me that she was up until 2 am because of the hurtful thing i said to her...I don't remember it. I said that I was upset about all the other boyfriends she had before me...(I guess she was kind of a slut before i met her...but i would never say that about her.) And i also told her that i kept imagining her with other guys, which i don't. Of course it's hard to know that she has been with X amount of other guys, but im ok with that because we're both in love.

I have never been in a more open relationship...i tell her everything. So this comes to a surprise when I hear i said this...any help on why i said it would be great...and any thoughts on it would be great too.

And also, i've never said a hurtful thing to her...ever! I said sorry about it, but it was like I'm saying sorry for something someone else said. I posted this in headshrinkers too.
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Old 2007-11-12, 19:53
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Default Re: I don't remember messing up

Heh if you didnt say it maybe she made some assumptions from something you said causing her to be like that. Idk sounds like my friends bros GF. This girl is fucked up, she makes up shit in her head, then chastises the fuck out of him over nonsense and he takes it like a lil kid listening to his dad.

Talk it out with her, unless you were high/drunk id say you'd have a good memory on what you said and didnt say.
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Old 2007-11-12, 19:57
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Default Re: I don't remember messing up

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Originally Posted by Hiatus227
ok, i was on the phone with my girlfriend last night, and she told me she would call me back later, because she was just about at her house. We hung up at 11:53 pm, and she called me back at 12:49 am. She had to call back twice, cause i didn't pick up the first time because i was asleep.

I don't remember much of the 7 minute and 6 second talk. All i remember is saying goodnight when she abruptly said "I'm going to let you get some sleep".

She calls me this morning and im asking her how she slept, and what time she got to bed. While asking her this, she tells me that she was up until 2 am because of the hurtful thing i said to her...I don't remember it. I said that I was upset about all the other boyfriends she had before me...(I guess she was kind of a slut before i met her...but i would never say that about her.) And i also told her that i kept imagining her with other guys, which i don't. Of course it's hard to know that she has been with X amount of other guys, but im ok with that because we're both in love.

I have never been in a more open relationship...i tell her everything. So this comes to a surprise when I hear i said this...any help on why i said it would be great...and any thoughts on it would be great too.

And also, i've never said a hurtful thing to her...ever! I said sorry about it, but it was like I'm saying sorry for something someone else said. I posted this in headshrinkers too.


So let me get this right.......While you know EXACTLY what time you hung up, and how long those conversations took place, you don't have a clue in the world about what you discussed with her?

Wow......just wow!

Perhaps if you paid attention to REAL LIFE important issues, and quit focusing on such anally retentitive/OCD superficial aspects of the universe....then perhaps you might not be in such a muddled mess. You keep this up you have an entire lifetime of much heartache, loneliness, a whole host of other weird issues ahead of you.

I'm just curious....how long did it take you to read my post? A round about number is acceptable. My guess is somewhere between 9.355549 or 17.239941 seconds. Was I close?
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Old 2007-11-12, 20:12
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west coast, USA
Default Re: I don't remember messing up

So let me get this right.......While you know EXACTLY what time you hung up, and how long those conversations took place, you don't have a clue in the world about what you discussed with her?

Wow......just wow!

Perhaps if you paid attention to REAL LIFE important issues, and quit focusing on such anally retentitive/OCD superficial aspects of the universe....then perhaps you might not be in such a muddled mess. You keep this up you have an entire lifetime of much heartache, loneliness, a whole host of other weird issues ahead of you.

I'm just curious....how long did it take you to read my post? A round about number is acceptable. My guess is somewhere between 9.355549 or 17.239941 seconds. Was I close?


Oh, i was talking with her on my cell phone, and i got that information from the recent call list. I just thought it would be important to know specifics, and since i didn't remember practically anything of the second conversation...specifics is all i had. I found your post to be pretty funny though :)


Another thing, I wasn't high or drunk...I have slept walked on plunty occasions and didn't remember it...i was thinking i was schitzo for a minute because i didn't remember saying anything to her. How should i approach telling her im sorry? I don't remember doing it.
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Old 2007-11-12, 21:53
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Default Re: I don't remember messing up

hide your cell phone from yourself when you go to sleep at night if you sleep walk/talk.

just an idea.
 
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