Yeah, it has been one of those reoccuring vices that happen once every year, and yet i forgot it was infact my totse birthday about a month back.


Why come on now you ask, well the fact is i need your help *sigh*

I work in a transnational corporation dealing with hundreds of customers a day. i met a girl there called Lisa, now this is quite good because she fancies me but she has a boyfriend... we are in our teens, and she is talking about me loving her? i suppose if i say yes then she'll dump her boyfriend, but do i really want to destroy there relationship?


Well i asked myself this last night, and yes i would be willing to share everything with this girl, yet i don't want to say it because i dont want to be entrapped. Also i think she may be emotionally unstable as she cries when i am a gentlemen and offer to walk her home from work.. although im walking a mile to get to work just to walk her home (see im nice)


So i ask you totseans should i play it cool, and just let life take its mysterious course?


Regards
Sam.

*their

Talk to her boyfriend, maybe he's into a threesome? Sounds like you just want sex, so this is the route I'd go.

No i just don't want sex... its more affection. And her bf is a fr00b, he is a typical emo, weedy straightened hair, ugly and eats like a demented dog.

Well if you ask me, it's wrong to ruin a relationship because you want the girl. Find someone who's single, yo.

it takes two to tangle.

she also said i tick every box on lisa's perfect boyfriend list. =/

it takes two to tangle.

Then find another one?

EDIT: Again, it's morally WRONG (in my eyes) to try to steal a gal from someone else. If you do though, just do it by telling her you really like her and ask her if she'd be happier with you or her current man.

She knows how i feel and she feels the same about me, she doesnt have a good relationship with the guy anyway. maybe she is intimadated by him? im not sure im meeting her in 2 hours so i'll be sure to strike a good conversation about it.

EDIT: Whether its morally right or wrong changes in one and anothers eyes. THe fact could be said that when i asked for her number she said 'About time...'

If she decides to dump her boyfriend, the decision should be ENTIRELY her own, and not influenced by anything you say beyond, "I <3 you."

I agree 100% but her bf foudna text saying i liked her, and he said to her 'You will never be more then friends with him'

That's up to her, not him.

Thats exactly my point. He's a cock, she told me i was the nicest boy she's ever met.... and she wants to hug me...

You may think he's a cock, but that doesn't mean she does. And he might make her happy. So, again, you have no right to force her out of her current relationship. Let her make the decisions on her own. 'Kay?

m'kay, well thats a valid point. As im walking her home... here is the master idea... if we go to kiss... i go
"we shouldnt do this" then... i have given her a choice, if she goes 'but i want to' then i procedd
if she goes 'm'kat i agree' then i walk =D

Sounds like a plan.

You have EVERY right to get another man's girlfriend, so long as that man isn't a brother (or like a brother).

If he doesn't WORK to KEEP his girlfriend, it's his fault when she cheats.

You are in the clear, and enjoy your new girlfriend son, good luck.

When the topic involves relationships/women in general, I find myself disagreeing with you. Not in a small way, either.

Thanks, but first to win the battle we need to win the war... or other way round? lol

I work in a transnational corporation dealing with hundreds of customers a day. i met a girl there called Lisa, now this is quite good because she fancies me but she has a boyfriend... we are in our teens, and she is talking about me loving her? i suppose if i say yes then she'll dump her boyfriend, but do i really want to destroy there relationship?



Do you really want to be with a loose whore who's hanging on to a relationship but will happily dump it if you make it clear you'll do her instead?

If she wants to end things with her boyfriend, then that's her choice.

As was said, don't force it.

She should end things with him before anything physical, or formal, takes place.

She dumped her boyfriend. And i had nothing to do with it, she made up her own mind, i talked to her for like 2 hours and she seems to genuinely like me, so im going let it rock and roll.