I met a this girl at a school football game 2 months ago. I asked her out a week later. She is my first SERIOUS girlfriend, I have dated but didn't care as much. I am obviously a virgin, and she is actually very sexually experienced. She was kind of what many people would call a whore.....but its in the past.

Yeah Im really in love with her and she is too so it's really important that I can keep her happy. She is somewhat understanding but I don't want her dissapointed in me. So I have some questions.

1. Kissing, I recently got somewhat "sexual" with her for the first time and after kissing up and down her neck and to her breasts, enjoying her reactions. I decided to try and french her. Whatever I did I failed miserably and it almost killed the mood. We talked about it the next day and she said "what are you even trying to do?"
So what I want to know is, am i doing things right:
1. I tilt my head slowly coming toward her
2. close my eyes
3. Start kissing her with soft lips, slowly.
4. part my lips and brush her with my tounge
5. When she opens up I start "playing" with her tounge lightly using mine.

Its what I was damn sure was supposed to do but she pulled away like "wtf?". Were cool about it, it matters more to me than to her.

2.Next, when I eventually do have sex with her. Endurance!
I am obviously going to be more turned on than ever before, so I really want to avoid being a minute man. I want to be able to go for as long as possible. She has orgasms easily but not in 15 minutes! lol. My idea was have her get me off some other way first then when I get back up go on to intercourse. Is that at all a good plan?

Yes I am a total virgin. haha

Good lord, it's like American Pie all over again.

You must be pretty shit at french kissing..

As for the getting you off thing, why don't you get yourself off first?

haha yeah.

Um, because its more fun for her too do it. But yeah it'd be smarter for me to do it.

Not everybody likes french kissing. My boyfriend hates it and refuses to do it. Maybe she just doesn't like it. Try kissing her without tongue next time and see how she reacts.

No she does, before I ever tried she always hinted how bad she wanted me too. She seems happy that I finally tried and said when shes not horny she'll teach me haha. Obviously having to instruct someone would be a major turnoff.

This thread makes me lol. Sorry in advance for being blunt and a dick, but yeah.

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I met a this girl at a school football game 2 months ago. I asked her out a week later. She is my first SERIOUS girlfriend, I have dated but didn't care as much.

Ok cool.

I am obviously a virgin, and she is actually very sexually experienced. She was kind of what many people would call a whore.....but its in the past.

Ok this doesn't look good.

Yeah Im really in love with her and she is too so it's really important that I can keep her happy. She is somewhat understanding but I don't want her dissapointed in me. So I have some questions.

This is even worse.

1. Kissing, I recently got somewhat "sexual" with her for the first time and after kissing up and down her neck and to her breasts, enjoying her reactions. I decided to try and french her. Whatever I did I failed miserably and it almost killed the mood. We talked about it the next day and she said "what are you even trying to do?"
So what I want to know is, am i doing things right:
1. I tilt my head slowly coming toward her
2. close my eyes
3. Start kissing her with soft lips, slowly.
4. part my lips and brush her with my tounge
5. When she opens up I start "playing" with her tounge lightly using mine.

Its what I was damn sure was supposed to do but she pulled away like "wtf?". Were cool about it, it matters more to me than to her.

Sounds like the emotions weren't there for her to start with. If a girl doesn't have the right feelings for the guy, the kiss will feel 'wrong' and will creep her out. Sounds weird to dudes, but I have it on good authority from my female friends.

And you phrased it like you opened your mouth and licked her on the lips. Not a good start to teh secksy kiss. That's the kind of thing cannibals do to their victims.

Was your tongue stiff? Was it cold? I doubt you were giving an un-biased account of it.

2.Next, when I eventually do have sex with her. Endurance!
I am obviously going to be more turned on than ever before, so I really want to avoid being a minute man. I want to be able to go for as long as possible. She has orgasms easily but not in 15 minutes! lol. My idea was have her get me off some other way first then when I get back up go on to intercourse. Is that at all a good plan?

Yes I am a total virgin. haha

Ok let's look at the facts.

You've been 'dating' this girl for 7 weeks.
You have kissed her a grand total of one times in this period. And when you did kiss her, it 'failed miserably and almost killed the mood'.
You have never had sex with her.


Seriously dude. It does NOT sound like she's into you. Like at all.

I hate to say this, but it sounds like she's keeping you around for reasons other than your no doubt charming personality. Maybe you buy her shit, maybe you have hot male friends, maybe you have rich parents, or something. Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

I doubt you'll ever be having sex with her. So I wouldn't worry about that.

Sounds like the emotions weren't there for her to start with. If a girl doesn't have the right feelings for the guy, the kiss will feel 'wrong' and will creep her out. Sounds weird to dudes, but I have it on good authority from my female friends.

Hence Cher's song, "The Shoop, Shoop Song (It's in His Kiss)".

And you're right; this guy sounds like a total "nice guy" chump.

1) Jerk off beforehand.
2) Lots of foreplay. LOTS. LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS.
3) Intercourse.
4) ???
5) Profit

No you have it all wrong she is definatley into me. You know I come for totse for alot of advice but this isn't going to work this time.

Ahahaha, this is lovely.

Desperate kidiot is desperate.