She said she would never go out with me because I refused to connect on an "emotional level". Even though we've done "stuff" many times before and I've known her for almost a full year now (10 months). She lives right across the street and I go over to her house 3 or 4 days out of every week.

What the fuck is that supposed to mean though? Emotional level? We're always watching south park or a movie and laughing and having a great time, she's constantly hugging me/cuddling with me and what not but she's always going on about how I "just don't care" and blah blah, is she retarded? If I didn't care I wouldn't be over at her house in the first place.

Is it me or is it her?

When you say you did "stuff"... is this limited to the watching south park and hugging?

You need to show her you have the ability to deeply care about her and her interests. Sincerity, you know

Few roofies in her drink and she'll warm right up for ya.

I've been to 4th base a couple times, usually when im drunk and urge her into it. Been to 3rd base and below countless times.

Almost everytime I go over we end up making out at the very least.

You need to show her you have the ability to deeply care about her and her interests. Sincerity, you know

How exactly would I go about doing that? I'm just not much of a caring person in general, if I was I would not be able to lead the type of lifestyle I do.

Few roofies in her drink and she'll warm right up for ya.

No, I'm not that desperate, yet.

who the fuck says 4th base, and in regards to that do you even know what the fuck you're talking about theres 1st 2nd 3rd and home, never has there ever or will there ever be a 4th base, go hang yourself with your spinal cord

girls from Nova Scotia are fucking weird dude, just keep working on her, ask her how to connect on that level. make some bullshit up that you never felt like this before, shell love it.

I see you're from texas, I would pick on you but that wouldn't be fair as it isn't very nice to pick on retards.

girls from Nova Scotia are fucking weird dude, just keep working on her, ask her how to connect on that level. make some bullshit up that you never felt like this before, shell love it.

Why are girls from nova scotia weird? And yes, I'm going to relentlessly(overstatement) hound this girl, she just lives across the street and it's not like she's going anywhere anytime soon.

the words i couldn't care any more ought to do the trick..

Judging by your post, it's probably you.
Do you love her? No? Well that's what she'd prefer in the person who's having sex with her.
There are plenty of people who just want to fuck all the time, go find one of those and stop bothering this girl for sex.
Just continue being her friend and if you mature a bit maybe you'll end up getting somewhere with the girl naturally, later on. For now though, fuck someone if you want, but leave the girl alone.

This is your revenge eh? Keep it in HB and SG.

I was going to try and chip in with some advice but this whole "bases" thing has got me stumped. I'm with jackketch on that one... Don't have a clue what it all means.

In the UK, you either fucked her or you didn't.

*awaits barrage of tired, unfunny british stereotype insults*

Why are girls from nova scotia weird?

everyone girl i met from nova scotia was either on crack (which is a problem down there i hear) or one of those giggly annoying bitches. i know that doesn't apply to all of them. but alot of east coasters are a little off.

If I mature a bit? I'm 18 and she's 15. She's the one that needs to do all the maturing.

I was going to try and chip in with some advice but this whole "bases" thing has got me stumped. I'm with jackketch on that one... Don't have a clue what it all means.

In the UK, you either fucked her or you didn't.

*awaits barrage of tired, unfunny british stereotype insults*

1st base= kiss
2nd base= making out
3rd base = blowjob/handjob
4th base or HOME base as the other asshole pointed out= Sex

At least that's how it is around here, I should have used more universal terms in my initial explanation of my situation.

My bad

everyone girl i met from nova scotia was either on crack (which is a problem down there i hear) or one of those giggly annoying bitches. i know that doesn't apply to all of them. but alot of east coasters are a little off.

Everyone down here's on crack, including me(not). There's more crack here than there are asians in china.

I've been to 4th base a couple times, usually when im drunk and urge her into it. Been to 3rd base and below countless times.

What the fuck is 4th base?

What the fuck is 4th base?

I asked that. The answer is up there ^^^^

I really think it depends what you want out of the situation. If you just want a casual fuckbuddy then it doesn't matter that you don't connect on an emotional level, but if you are looking for a girlfriend.... Well, if it means that much to you, just explain the situation to her and see what she says. To be honest, if it was me I would probably just keep her as a fuckbuddy. But then I'm not looking for a girlfriend so that's irrelevant...

Whatever you do, don't cock it up and lose her as a fuckbuddy and a potential girlfriend. The not-connecting-on-an-emotional-level thing will heal a lot faster with your penis in her mouth.

I asked that. The answer is up there ^^^^

I really think it depends what you want out of the situation. If you just want a casual fuckbuddy then it doesn't matter that you don't connect on an emotional level, but if you are looking for a girlfriend.... Well, if it means that much to you, just explain the situation to her and see what she says. To be honest, if it was me I would probably just keep her as a fuckbuddy. But then I'm not looking for a girlfriend so that's irrelevant...

Whatever you do, don't cock it up and lose her as a fuckbuddy and a potential girlfriend. The not-connecting-on-an-emotional-level thing will heal a lot faster with your penis in her mouth.

I think I must love this girl. If I didn't love her I wouldn't care what she thinks of me and hence this thread would have never had been created.

I guess I just have to pretend like I give a shit. Even though I do give a shit but apparently I'm not trying hard enough(according to her ).

I'm going to get drunk later and go over to her place later tonight anyway.

EDIT: But it feels kind of weird being in love wit ha 15 year old, she's too young and doesn't know what she wants yet.

Everyone down here's on crack, including me(not). There's more crack here than there are asians in china.


Man, I didn't think crack was such a big problem here, but I recently found out my cousin is a recovering crackhead, and some honour student girl from high school is a cokewhore now.

I'm sorry, but i always thought there was no "thinking" when it came to loving someone or not. Caring about them deeply, yes, fancying them, yes, but loving someone, there shouldn't be any doubt there in my opinion, and saying "i think i love her" kinda seems to have doubt in my mind.

As for what you want from her, a few people have asked and you have yet to give a decent coherent reply. Due to that, it becomes very hard to try and help you my friend. So first off, explain fully what you want from her.

And have you ever talked about what she wants from you, with the girl in question? that might also help, or blow everything sky high, its like a coin toss really which one happens, but its more fun for us to guess what will happen than to know i suppose.

Also, as to the maturity response. Age is mean jack bloody shit when it comes to maturity. Ive met (and work with) 9 year olds who are more emotionally and socially mature than some of the people my own age. So get the idea that she doesn't know what she wants out of your head right now. From what i can tell, its YOU who doesn't know what the hell you want, and YOU who needs to emotionally mature. Mind you, they do say females are 2-3 years ahead of males when it comes to maturity.

wtf is 4th base?!

im from cali and no one says 4th.

Man, I didn't think crack was such a big problem here, but I recently found out my cousin is a recovering crackhead, and some honour student girl from high school is a cokewhore now.

We should smoke crack on saturday.

I'm sorry, but i always thought there was no "thinking" when it came to loving someone or not. Caring about them deeply, yes, fancying them, yes, but loving someone, there shouldn't be any doubt there in my opinion, and saying "i think i love her" kinda seems to have doubt in my mind.

As for what you want from her, a few people have asked and you have yet to give a decent coherent reply. Due to that, it becomes very hard to try and help you my friend. So first off, explain fully what you want from her.

And have you ever talked about what she wants from you, with the girl in question? that might also help, or blow everything sky high, its like a coin toss really which one happens, but its more fun for us to guess what will happen than to know i suppose.

Also, as to the maturity response. Age is mean jack bloody shit when it comes to maturity. Ive met (and work with) 9 year olds who are more emotionally and socially mature than some of the people my own age. So get the idea that she doesn't know what she wants out of your head right now. From what i can tell, its YOU who doesn't know what the hell you want, and YOU who needs to emotionally mature. Mind you, they do say females are 2-3 years ahead of males when it comes to maturity.

Well in my very first post I explained how she wouldn't go out with me because i cant connect on an emotional level, so you're supposed to assume I've asked her out and want her to be my girlfriend and not just some random "bitch" 2 nights of the week.

And as for the girl, she obviously wants me to open up emotionally and in general. I should ask her tonight I have to do to get her to go out with me, because I'm not entirely sure that's what she wants but from what she's said and done that's what I've interpreted.

You're right about the maturity thing in a sense however, she's still only 15, going through the peak stages of puberty and she's only a freshman in high school for christ sakes. I remember when I was 15, I thought I knew it all/what I wanted but I didn't know SHIT. I'm sure that's how most 15 year olds are.

She wants you to be her emotional tampon. Nuff said.

Yeah but you see I couldn't care less. That's the problem, I can't CARE. I have to pretend to care, for her to feel about me the same way i feel about her.

Fucking females are fucked up.

well u finally got it 15.....15 yrs old.....how long did it take u to figure it out

Man, I didn't think crack was such a big problem here, but I recently found out my cousin is a recovering crackhead, and some honour student girl from high school is a cokewhore now.

I KNEW IT! i heard there was white lines on your roads till the crack heads snorted them up.

also emotional tampon does seem like the case here.

1. Learn english
2. It's my "future girlfriend" that's 15, not me.
3. Learn to read.
4. You're an idiot
5. Go back to whatever shitty country you came form.
6. Shut up
7. Your mom
8. Don't ever post in one of my threads again, k?

I KNEW IT! i heard there was white lines on your roads till the crack heads snorted them up.

also emotional tampon does seem like the case here.

lol, if you like coke, nova scotia would be a haven to you.

tl;dr

Start telling her secrets and make her feel like a confidant.

NOTE: She WILL tell other people your secrets. Atleast most of them.

It's probably 'cuz she pegs you for a user of people, accurately or inaccurately.

She has something in her mind. Ask her why shes been acting strange lately. Tell her you care for her and dont want her to be upset.

Maybe we should...not do crack, and instead hassle some hobos, drink colts, and eat full chickens from Sobeys.

I think it's because you force her into putting out when you're drunk, and think that going over to her place and watching movies constitutes proof of anything aside from your being an eighteen year old using a fifteen year old as a cum-dumpster.

By george... I think he's got it!

Hmmm... you could do hard time for that. haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaard tiiiiiiiiiiiime.

She wants COMMITMENT, you ass!

Nay, I don't want to go to jail again kthnxbi.

It's probably 'cuz she pegs you for a user of people, accurately or inaccurately.

She knows I'm a user of other people, but usually only for drugs, and she doesn't do drugs.

She has something in her mind. Ask her why shes been acting strange lately. Tell her you care for her and dont want her to be upset.

I did last night, but she wouldn't tell me anything. I asked her what I'd have to do to get her to go out with me and she's like "I don't know". I was catching the vibe that she was mad at me last night for some reason. I don't know if she's mad at me or just has too much on her mind and is mad at something else and just taking it out on me.

Maybe we should...not do crack, and instead hassle some hobos, drink colts, and eat full chickens from Sobeys.

I have no money anyway, if you feel like buying booze, colts and full chickens I'm all for it. I have enough money to buy a pack of cigs and a bus down to your place but thats about it.

I think it's because you force her into putting out when you're drunk, and think that going over to her place and watching movies constitutes proof of anything aside from your being an eighteen year old using a fifteen year old as a cum-dumpster.

Yeah everytime I'm drunk she seems reluctant to do anything with me, last night she wouldn't even talk to me(and I was pretty drunk). Alcohol makes me too apathetic. *makes mental note not to drink too much around shawna*.

By george... I think he's got it!

Hmmm... you could do hard time for that. haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaard tiiiiiiiiiiiime.

In Canada, legal age of consent is 14. So I'm safe.

She wants COMMITMENT, you ass!

Yes we established that a long time ago, thanks.

If I mature a bit? I'm 18 and she's 15. She's the one that needs to do all the maturing.

Generally speaking, maybe so, but we're talking maturity at the emotional level here.


1st base= kiss
2nd base= making out
3rd base = blowjob/handjob
4th base or HOME base as the other asshole pointed out= Sex

At least that's how it is around here, I should have used more universal terms in my initial explanation of my situation.

I always forget people do this shit...
Why? If I wasn't going to forget that list by the time I left this thread, this would be the closest I've ever been to knowing what ANY of those "bases" are supposed to be.
Seriously, bases?

Dude, an 18 year old should never date a 15 year old, let alone fuck one! And age of consent only works for those whom are under 18. If one is over 18, the other must be over 18. If I am incorrect let me know.

Not everyone lives in america my friend.

Sorry to inform you.

.....So back to the bases...

What's ass play and bondage count as, 5th?

Fuck her mate. She won't date you because you're not emotional enough, but she'll fuck you repeatedly?

Fuck her.

I fail to see what is wrong with this relationship. Try taking her places instead of sitting around watching TV.

Not everyone lives in america my friend.

Sorry to inform you.

Oh, I know, I just have no idea about the laws outside the U.S. which is why I said correct me if I'm wrong.

This is the stupidest shit I've read all day.

Well, the best way to go about making her your girl is through honesty. Tell her how she's different from others and explain to her your situation, if you make her feel special she'll fall for you without a doubt.

If she's 15 then she definitely has a lot of confusing emotional baggage, try excepting it, or just ignoring it, it's just a phase that's soon to pass.

Good luck. :)

Its you. Being a fag. Get over her.

This thread was nowhere near as funny as I expected.