So my husband and I have been married for almost 10 years (In March it will have been the big 10) and I've developed this...Problem with oral sex. I just can't swallow anymore when he comes. It grosses me out so bad and I don't know why! It didn't used to bother me and nothing has changed on his end. I've started having to do this complicated deception where I have a cup of water next to me and afterwards I discreetly spit into it. My husband is so far oblivious. Has this happened to any other women on here?

Why not just tell him? Its hardly a big deal is it?

I know how you feel... Sometimes it doesn't bother me, but sometimes just looking at it makes me gag. I have no idea why.

Any particular reason that it HAS to end in him coming down your throat? No facial blasts, or at the very least a fun hand job with you licking it while he is shooting it everywhere?

Also, is it a taste or consistency issue? Has something changed? Maybe a change in his diet? Or is this strictly YOUR gag reflex that has changed?

If you can hold it in your mouth but not swallow.. I suggest you do something fun with it. ^^

I enjoy it when Kristen spits it onto my face, and have been wanting her to force ME to swallow it (this is me telling you).

I don't know if he'd care or not. He does enjoy talking about the act afterwards and me swallowing his stuff is one of the things he mentions. I guess I don't want him to feel like I think he's gross or something, because that's really not the case. I think I'm just growing more fastidious with age. What if I really AM turning into my mother!

But it's packed full of protein and carbohydrates...You'd be mad not to swallow it...Mad I say!

Failing that...Just tell him.
As long as it's out of his balls, what does he care what you do with it?!

Sex is sex.

supposably fruit makes it taste better.

Fucken gross man!

lol ur ghey

Yeah, my girlfriend has a kinda similiar thing with me. I apparrently shoot WAY more volume then other guys and she chokes on it (I've watched it happen). Like she loves giving head but just won't finish it in her mouth. Just start with the mouth and jump on top and ride it out of him.

TROLL

swallow it anyway. I know I'd be pissed as hell if my woman slacked off after ten years...

Try not to think about it, I know that a couple of times I've felt the same way and almost gagged, but I've found just not 'over-analysing' it helps and now I have no problem.

Fucken gross man!

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So you want me to send a shot over to ya? On me!

Seriously, every time you mention a scenario with you and your husband, it reeks of oppression.

I know he physically tries to impose his will on you. If he hasn't hit you, he threatens it in his body language, doesn't he? Otherwise, why are you so afraid of this guy? I just remember from all the threads you've made in the past he comes across as a piece of shit. And if he didn't behave this way, then you wouldn't be afraid of telling him you don't want to swallow his disgusting cum.

This is the 21st fucking century. Spit it out and tell him to fuck off. You always give off this impression that your husband tells you how to live your life. What's the deal with that? Because I do feel bad for you if your relationship is as oppressive as it seems.

TROLL

Is today your first day on totse?

Seriously, every time you mention a scenario with you and your husband, it reeks of oppression.

I know he physically tries to impose his will on you. If he hasn't hit you, he threatens it in his body language, doesn't he? Otherwise, why are you so afraid of this guy? I just remember from all the threads you've made in the past he comes across as a piece of shit. And if he didn't behave this way, then you wouldn't be afraid of telling him you don't want to swallow his disgusting cum.

This is the 21st fucking century. Spit it out and tell him to fuck off. You always give off this impression that your husband tells you how to live your life. What's the deal with that? Because I do feel bad for you if your relationship is as oppressive as it seems.

I'm not scared of him...I'm worried about hurting his feelings. I'd feel bad if he suddenly became disgusted by my vaginal stuff.

I'm not scared of him...I'm worried about hurting his feelings. I'd feel bad if he suddenly became disgusted by my vaginal stuff.

Excuse me for asking, but, your name suggests your Asian... Are you? If his cum freaks you out, why not just guzzle his shit?

I thought only germans were into that type of shenanegans?

And Brits..you'd be shocked what goes on behind those twee lace curtains of suburbia...

According to one recent programme we Brits lead the world in the practice of sexual perversions.

*warm glow of pride in his country*

I blame the Church of England. Damn you Henry VIII!!

Anyway, I heard it was the australians who are REALLY freaky.:P

Since you are becoming less sexually attracted to your husband you should not stand in the way of him taking on another lover, if he has the financial means to do so.