I feel as if I am losing all of my "game". I've had sex a couple times but now that's not what I'm looking for. I seem to be able to attract the girls at first but once I start talking to them I lose it.

I've got the hook and sinker but no line.

I don't really know how to talk to a girl. I know how to treat her but the actual aspect of conversing with her troubles me. I tend to be a litte introverted at first, so I know I deffinetly need to work on that.

I know you all probably hear this a million times a week, but I'm desperate.

Totse, please help!

Best way to get a girl, lie , lie and lie some more. Pretend your interested in what they are interested in, pretend your a good friend to them, listen to them.. even if its fucking boring. Than work your way from there, its always worked for me, either getting laid or getting a girlfriend which means getting laid on demand.

edit; also TELL THEM what they WANT to hear

What do you talk about with these so called females? And whats the problem? They stop talking to you after so long, or you lose your confidence or what?

Being introverted could knock your chances out the window if you talk like that most of the time. Dont you want to know about her at all? Thats sort of what my friends brother does and it just totally brick walls his ass. And he told me stories of situations where he like knocked all girls saying i dont kno what these girls want these days, its like bro you cant meet a girl on the spot and talk about basic shit and expect her to be interested in you. Especially if this is at a bar or some similar situation, if your drinking do you want to hear about the process of my life? Probably not.

Well you see what I do is convince myself that all of these women are boring and that I don't want them anyway.

This will most likely come back to bite me in the ass when I'm 30 and still do not have a significant other.