At this present moment in time I'm having a little dry spell. It's more not going out than anything and not following up where I may have attraction built up with a girl.

There is the odd girl though around me who I like and I think may like me.

Of course, the qualifying word in that statement is -think-.

As we all know, many girls flirt out of instinct, out of fun and enjoyment. I myself like flirting with girls whether they're good looking or ugly (though I do try and qualify it so they know I'm not interested and it is just my general demeanour) and I'm not sure if this is the case with these women.

Now, if I were to ask one question or do one thing, how would I find out if one of these women like me.

Ladies, do you have any dead give aways and guys, do you have any tricks?

Before I forget..

MASTADON!

Who cares? Really. Who cares if she likes you?

Do you like her? Thats all that matters. You don't need her approval to make a move. Unless you're just scared shitless of being rejected, in which case you have bigger problems.

Act at all times to serve your own wants and needs.

A lot of time people end up giving you some action whether they like you or not. That serves as impetus to go out and find someone you care for and that cares for you.

Here's a good one...Ask her out.

There's this girl I work with...I've liked her for a while now...Even when I was with my ex.
We've been out for a drink before...Walked her home a couple times but nothing ever happened.
Well the other night we're texting back and forth and she said something about being cold...So me being me, I said too bad I wasn't there to warm her up...She said it was too bad I wasn't there.
We called each other teases and "disbelieved" each other's statments until I just said "Well...If you like, we can go out for a couple beers soon, I'll take you home and keep you warm all night."

Long story short(er), turns out we're going out sometime soon and I'll be warming her up all night! ;)

"Jokes" can really ease things in there. Make it seem like a light hearted comment and guage her reaction. Take it from there.

This (and congrats on getting some).

Who cares? Really. Who cares if she likes you?

Do you like her? Thats all that matters. You don't need her approval to make a move. Unless you're just scared shitless of being rejected, in which case you have bigger problems.

Act at all times to serve your own wants and needs.

But more importantly, THIS! Getting over a fear of rejection is probably the biggest reason for success.

Great advice everyone. I'm going up to her kitchen to play poker with her and her flatmates tonight, so I'll chat to her whilst I'm up there and if it goes well, I might see if she fancies coming out for a few drinks.

Way to go Psycho!

I'm drunk! WHOOOO! Sorry, I just wanted to see how it was going, and to remind you that women like men who ARE STRONG.

Don't beat around the bush. Beat around HER bush.

Wow, that was a lot more articulate in my head.

Here's a good one...Ask her out.

Well the other night we're texting back and forth and she said something about being cold...So me being me, I said too bad I wasn't there to warm her up...She said it was too bad I wasn't there.
We called each other teases and "disbelieved" each other's statments until I just said "Well...If you like, we can go out for a couple beers soon, I'll take you home and keep you warm all night."

Long story short(er), turns out we're going out sometime soon and I'll be warming her up all night! ;)

"Jokes" can really ease things in there. Make it seem like a light hearted comment and gauge her reaction. Take it from there.

Fucking classic right there, theres always some point where a girl will say something like that and instantly i think "insert joke here". And it always works. Smooth talking gets the job done still. Plus sometimes i honestly i cant think of anything else to say when girls say something of that nature besides the basic yea,really?

Mine went something like this here, girl said her kitten was laying next to her and that it looked comfortable, i said Yea if i was next to you like that id probably be more than comfortable myself. She just laughed and said maybe...See how that turns out this weekend on that note

Poker got cancelled tonight, but I bumped into her.

Basically, I'm second year university student living in a small tower block of flats (8 flats, with 8 students in each), so we bump into each other a lot - there is a large shared lawn where people play sports. I joined in on a game of catch that she and her friends (2 guys, 1 girl) were playing. The other guys went into get some weed and start rolling and the girl went with so I was left to speak with the girl I like.

It went very well, we just casually flirted and had a really interesting conversation. Then she got called and I had to go and make a phone call so that's all I saw of her.

Poker night probably is tomorrow, so I'll head up and then chat her up.

God damn. I feel like a fourteen year old kidiot having just typed all of that out. I've eaten a weed cake and had a few joints. Don't think I've been that stoned in a while.

Anyway, I would have got to the asking of number thing if I wasn't enjoying the conversation so much.

Shit, I like this girl more than I thought. A hot girl I used to shag came onto me again earlier and I was intrigued, but I was thinking more of the other girl.

I should probably have this thread closed this is such a rant. Anyway, you can make the decision made for me Mods. You are awesome.

If you want I'll put my hot ex on a plane and send her to fuck you, she has a crazy fetish for Irishmen for some reason. She would make me speak with an irish accent and shit and would watch Celtic Woman and Riverdance over and over. Fucking weird but hey, she'll do you lol.

The less stoned person talking.

Part of the reason why I like this girl is that she doesn't seem amazed at my accent - she -seems- to like me just for who I am. A lot of girls go crazy for my accent and it's a turn off.

It's too easy to use the accent.

I'm sure I could shag half of America just having a general conversation. Feels like I could have half of England.

Just give her your number the next time you see her, make a quick conversation then be like hey i gotta go (insert excuse to leave) then slip her your number if you want to keep it on with her. Then just plan to do something one day.

Apparently you need to get some fertilizer from home depot so you can grow some balls.