Suggestions?

Umm, what exactly did you do?

If you really like her and respect her, tell her the truth.

If you think this is just another average relationship, tell that ho whatever comes into your head.

Ok, am I missing something here?

I don't know what he did either :P.

So i just gave some generalized advice.

he probably shat in her mouth while she was teh sleepin.

Or you could just say "Why does it matter? I'm with you right this moment and that's the way I like it. You and me. I don't wanna be thinking about my ex and having to talk about her."

Works for me.

Well, if someone I'm dating has a history of doing really fucked up things with their boyfriends, then I might want to know, just so I can kinda.. be prepared for it.

What? Did you kill her or something?

If not then it's not as big a deal as you're making it.
Just tell her.

I've heard from a couple of girls now that they'd secretly hoped the guys they were with had been around a bit so that they'd be more likely to know what they were doing.

It's only going to seem like a big deal when you tell her, IF you make a big deal out of it. If she asks specifically, just tell her concisely and move on.

Alternatively, use it to go straight into talking about her own sexual experiences, not because you're trying to snoop into her past, but because you're interested in the sorts of things she likes.


Oh, and that line about only telling the one you're going to marry... that's the kind of thing you and her and everyone else will laugh at when you're a bit older for precisely these reasons. It's just really not a big deal. Even if you are underage.

Well, with my last girlfriend, I never once had to bring up my history, which was kinda good I guess, as I didn't really feel like explaining anything.

Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever had a girl ask about my past.

Is that weird? Is this usually a typical conversation for a couple to have?

Whenever girls ask me its the same answer:

"Lots of drugs, don't remember. I'm clean now though... *tucks B&H back into bag*"

I've gotten grilled in nearly every relationship I've been in. Who I've cuddled, kissed, touched, fucked, they've all wanted to know EVERYTHING.

Which is fine I guess, I don't really mind telling. But then I've always had to listen to her talk about all the guys she's been with, and I don't really like listening to that. :(

I've gotten grilled in nearly every relationship I've been in. Who I've cuddled, kissed, touched, fucked, they've all wanted to know EVERYTHING.

Really? That's weird.

Which is fine I guess, I don't really mind telling. But then I've always had to listen to her talk about all the guys she's been with, and I don't really like listening to that. :(

THAT is exactly why I've always avoided getting into these kinds of conversations whenever possible! I hate to hear stuff like that. Ignorance really is bliss in this case.

Really? That's weird.

I've been with a couple really insecure girls. :/

THAT is exactly why I've always avoided getting into these kinds of conversations whenever possible! I hate to hear stuff like that. Ignorance really is bliss in this case.

Nooooo shit! :D I had a gal that'd talk about how much of a slut she used to be and then list off all the guys she'd kissed when she was drunk. Course she wasn't really a slut and had never gone further than kissing till me (it was a couple years back), but situations like that/talk of ex's/previous sexual encounters still manage to get me unreasonably jealous.

Haha, I had another girlfriend, she was most of my firsts and after we did anything new she'd always tell me about how it was her first time too and how fun it was. She'd swallow and then tell me about she'd NEVER done that before, stuff like that. Without fair, she'd "remember" a couple hours later or the next day how she'd actually done said sexual act with an ex-boyfriend or two.

Edit: Not sure if any of that was on topic or made sense. So sleepy

Haha, I had another girlfriend, she was most of my firsts and after we did anything new she'd always tell me about how it was her first time too and how fun it was. She'd swallow and then tell me about she'd NEVER done that before, stuff like that.

That part sounds good.

I mean, if it's good news, then by all means, spill the beans.

I didn't have time to read them all, mom was making me french toast:o. bb around 5

I don't know I tend not to get into relationships. I don't trust humans. Not because I would get my heart broken by a girl I just always think their trying to take my money or sell me out or SOMETHING, which is usually true. So mostly I just get girls drunk and have my way with them, a few girls I know and meetup with regularly but it's the same shit I don't have a relationship with them. I also have a girlfriend but I don't give a fuck about her honestly and i'm sure she doesn't really give a fuck about me but for some strange reason that's why we get along so good. We make money together, well more like I make her make money for me and let her keep some.

She's never asked about my past relationships or sexual encounters. I would tell her if she asked but she doesn't. I don't care but if you want to have a big relationship and shit with them then I would probably tell her if she wanted to know. It couldn't be to bad. As long as it was consentual between you and the ex then she shouldn't have a problem with it.

involved with.

Don't bother lying. Lying makes everything complicated, and it takes a little piece of your self respect. Women aren't worth lying over.

Yea, I

Dated a girl who was 17 and had gone farther than making out with 20+ guys in like 1.5 years. Dated another who made a list of the guys she'd fucked... it was like pretty long. I don't know why she did it. I think it was to fuck with me.

Alright, thanks everybody,for the record, I didn't kill anybody or do anything w/o consent...It's just I swore secrecy w/ my ex before we broke up, and i don't want to have to uncover my past to every girl I get involved with.

The question still remains, what the hell did you do with the girl that's so secret?

OH.MY.GOD. You didnt...you didnt have sex with her, did you!?


You sick fuck.

The question still remains, what the hell did you do with the girl that's so secret?

OH.MY.GOD. You didnt...you didnt have sex with her, did you!?


You sick fuck.

u r fit

The question still remains, what the hell did you do with the girl that's so secret?

OH.MY.GOD. You didnt...you didnt have sex with her, did you!?


You sick fuck.

actually, we didn't.

actually, we didn't.

Okay then, what did you do?

Okay then, what did you do?

nothing...now go away.:(

nothing...now go away.:(

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